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I Don't Know How To Cum

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Graceotta

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I have tried to make myself orgasm, but I just can't seem to handle the intensity or something. Several times I've gotten close, but I either chickened out or couldn't continue, because I was shaking. Any tips?
 
Why don't you continue?
I mean why do you stop when you start shaking or whatever? Are you afraid of how it'll feel? (I don't mean that in any kind of mean way, real question)

My tip is just relax, and force yourself to go through with it next time. I'm sure once you've done it once it'll come naturally the next times :)
 
Take your time. Relax. Eventually, it'll just come to you ;) lol
Get comfortable with yourself and with your body.

Pagey gave some good advice :)
 
Or mandatory...Edit:^Actually the person making this particular alt/troll post is claiming to be 13, so even answering the question is a trap.....
 
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maybe you're just not ready? imagine something that would make you really horny - a cute boy on top of you or something. maybe look at pictures of them? relax and allow yourself feel good. maybe get better with your technique? idk. if you keep stopping you'll never orgasm lol
 
At your age I couldn't cum either.... You need to relax. You might not be "ready" or maybe you're thinking to much about cumming and don't. You need to be relaxed and "in the moment" if that sounds right... let your self feel the pleasure.
 
do you know what it means to meditate? it means to focus on only one thing. when you masturbate you want to meditate on the pleasure. whenever something feels good, focus on it, give it all of your attention and get lost in the pleasure
 
Graceotta said:
I have tried to make myself orgasm, but I just can't seem to handle the intensity or something. Several times I've gotten close, but I either chickened out or couldn't continue, because I was shaking. Any tips?
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Could you perhaps be focusing on the wrong spot? Too much stimulation on your urethra can lead to a really intense, sensitive feeling, but often quite uncomfortable. You'll probably find that clitoral stimulation is what you need to get off. It can take some time to figure out what you like and what works for you, though. I would suggest just exploring yourself without the pressue of having to get off. If it feels good, there's no reason you have to come, just try and enjoy what you're doing, and get to know your body.
 
^That's a good point. I remember back when I was learning how to do it I would have an overwhelming need to pee when I got close, so I always stopped just before...I'm not quite sure what caused it but I haven't had that feeling again since I was about 13 and learned how to do it properly. I don't know if that's what your issue is but if it has come up before, just maybe go to the bathroom just before & try applying pressure in different spots. Knowing yourself and all that.
 
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