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Good positions to try with bigger girls

TimKT9

TimKT9

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My girlfriend is a little on the bigger side, not fat or obese by any means. Just wondering about any positions that would work good for a small dude, me (about 135lbs) and a bigger girlfriend. Usually just typical missionary (me on top obv), or her on top facing me. Any ideas?
 
what is the problem cos weight isn't that much of an issue. as long you're not being squashed then anything goes
 
What? I thought it was only a problem if the dude is way fat and his belly sticks out further than his dick to the point you are being crushed in order to even make it touch. What could be problem if only the girl is bigger? more weight probably squishes vag in and makes tighter I'ld imagine.
 
I can say with a bit of certainty that I likely weigh about the same or more than most of my mates. Not by a lot, but I dig on skinny/lean men, and I am considered an athletic/thicker/curvy/voluptuous woman aka I got some tits and ass.

I can't think of any position that I haven't accomplished...even in the last month...
except for being a 'spinner' (in asian countries, little [sized] girls are placed in baskets suspended from the ceiling, sitting cross-legged [indian style] and there's a hole cut in the bottom of the basket about where their vagina would be, and men lay on the floor and the asian vagina basket is lowered onto their trouser snakes and then the asian vagina basket is spun around in a circle, and the purple headed yogurt slinger that slings it's yogurt last, is the winner.)

please don't ask me how I know that....

anyhoo, sans basket and the whole asian thing, a man would pick up his little lady and 'spin' her around on his cock, persay.

Yep, I can't do that. I don't really think I'm missing out on much, though, considering I regularly can do the following:

missionary
cowgirl
reverse cowgirl
piledriver
scissor
the flying V (I sit on counter top with my legs up in the air like a 'V' and he holds my legs up, below the knees, and goes to town)
rocking horse
the X (also a total favourite)
the ape (god damn this is so hot, I love it)
him sitting on a chair, and me straddling him (a shorter chair works best where my feet can hit the floor)
tippy canoe (him laying on his back with legs together, and I come sit on him, kinda squat like, but with both legs on either side of his hips)
indian style (him sitting cross-legged, with me sitting on him with my legs wrapped around his waist)

anyways, I could go on...but you get the point.

Hell, to think of it...
it's really not the size of the girl you should be worried about with all these positions, it's the size of your penis.
if you're hung like a tuna can or a field mouse, I doubt many of these positions will be working out in anybody's good favor...no matter how big or small she is.
 
I'm curvy and my boyfriend is very skinny, we've never had problems with any positions. Except maybe the ones where the guy is literally holding the girl up. My boyfriend is not the strongest lol. I don't think that position works for many people though. So yeah... I'd say most things would work.
 
gr33n3y3z said:
About how large is she compared to you?
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I'm about 135...Her I'm not quite sure...you know how women are lol And im horrible at estimates. And its not that im getting "squished" per say, and we've tried many positions, but some of them just dont seem to work the best with her ass being pretty big and what not lol but doggystyle seems to work pretty well for the bost of us. But thank you everyone for the input!
 
littlepenguin said:
I can say with a bit of certainty that I likely weigh about the same or more than most of my mates. Not by a lot, but I dig on skinny/lean men, and I am considered an athletic/thicker/curvy/voluptuous woman aka I got some tits and ass.

I can't think of any position that I haven't accomplished...even in the last month...
except for being a 'spinner' (in asian countries, little [sized] girls are placed in baskets suspended from the ceiling, sitting cross-legged [indian style] and there's a hole cut in the bottom of the basket about where their vagina would be, and men lay on the floor and the asian vagina basket is lowered onto their trouser snakes and then the asian vagina basket is spun around in a circle, and the purple headed yogurt slinger that slings it's yogurt last, is the winner.)

please don't ask me how I know that....

anyhoo, sans basket and the whole asian thing, a man would pick up his little lady and 'spin' her around on his cock, persay.

Yep, I can't do that. I don't really think I'm missing out on much, though, considering I regularly can do the following:

missionary
cowgirl
reverse cowgirl
piledriver
scissor
the flying V (I sit on counter top with my legs up in the air like a 'V' and he holds my legs up, below the knees, and goes to town)
rocking horse
the X (also a total favourite)
the ape (god damn this is so hot, I love it)
him sitting on a chair, and me straddling him (a shorter chair works best where my feet can hit the floor)
tippy canoe (him laying on his back with legs together, and I come sit on him, kinda squat like, but with both legs on either side of his hips)
indian style (him sitting cross-legged, with me sitting on him with my legs wrapped around his waist)

anyways, I could go on...but you get the point.

Hell, to think of it...
it's really not the size of the girl you should be worried about with all these positions, it's the size of your penis.
if you're hung like a tuna can or a field mouse, I doubt many of these positions will be working out in anybody's good favor...no matter how big or small she is.
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What the hell is the ape? lol
 
littlepenguin said:
I can say with a bit of certainty that I likely weigh about the same or more than most of my mates. Not by a lot, but I dig on skinny/lean men, and I am considered an athletic/thicker/curvy/voluptuous woman aka I got some tits and ass.

I can't think of any position that I haven't accomplished...even in the last month...
except for being a 'spinner' (in asian countries, little [sized] girls are placed in baskets suspended from the ceiling, sitting cross-legged [indian style] and there's a hole cut in the bottom of the basket about where their vagina would be, and men lay on the floor and the asian vagina basket is lowered onto their trouser snakes and then the asian vagina basket is spun around in a circle, and the purple headed yogurt slinger that slings it's yogurt last, is the winner.)

please don't ask me how I know that....

anyhoo, sans basket and the whole asian thing, a man would pick up his little lady and 'spin' her around on his cock, persay.

Yep, I can't do that. I don't really think I'm missing out on much, though, considering I regularly can do the following:

missionary
cowgirl
reverse cowgirl
piledriver
scissor
the flying V (I sit on counter top with my legs up in the air like a 'V' and he holds my legs up, below the knees, and goes to town)
rocking horse
the X (also a total favourite)
the ape (god damn this is so hot, I love it)
him sitting on a chair, and me straddling him (a shorter chair works best where my feet can hit the floor)
tippy canoe (him laying on his back with legs together, and I come sit on him, kinda squat like, but with both legs on either side of his hips)
indian style (him sitting cross-legged, with me sitting on him with my legs wrapped around his waist)

anyways, I could go on...but you get the point.

Hell, to think of it...
it's really not the size of the girl you should be worried about with all these positions, it's the size of your penis.
if you're hung like a tuna can or a field mouse, I doubt many of these positions will be working out in anybody's good favor...no matter how big or small she is.
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excellent post. :D

i suggest trying anything both of you are interested in. experimentation will make both partners more confident in expressing themselves sexually if you both dive in and find out what works best for you as a couple. size, whether it be body shape, height, penis, breasts, vagina etc is only a stigma in your sex life if you allow it to be. find what works and feels amazing for you both, and most importantly; have fun :D

...kytnism...:|
 
I'm about 5'11 175-180lbs. the girl I live with and have been having sex with for 5 years that's not technically my girlfriend is about 5'9 in the 150lb range. I'm not a big fan of girls sitting on me in any capacity because it restricts my movement and my breathing.

I just use whatever position is most natural to the situation you're in when you first start having sex. whether you go fast or slow doesn't really matter as much as the feeling you're able to project into your dick, IMO. I most prefer doggy or missionary really, anything that requires any planning or effort kind of kills it for me, particularly if you're dick keeps falling out and you have to worry about that.

I like big ass,,,,just bend that shit over!

A lot of girls seem to get into being on top though....It's kind of strange to just lie on your back and watch their facial expressions as they ride you, they get so into it! I generally like to be the one doing the fucking though, but that's just me...
 
littlepenguin your post is making me think of that scene in Scrubs where Elliot just uses random animal names to pretend she knows a ton of sex positions. Just cuz I didn't understand half of those :D
(ah well. I never really have conversations about them with people)

Anyway, like kytnism said, I think you just have to try things. You're only limiting yourself in thinking there's a problem or something you can't do, when it might not always be the case. And hey if it doesn't work, so what! It's no big deal, sex is a bit of a trial and error thing at times anyway.
 
^see, I don't exactly understand what you even mean by that! Sex is very bizarre phenomenon, if it wasn't a natural instinct to want it, I don't think I'd try it....It's like eating something on that show "Bizarre Foods"...
 
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blue you of little faith.. *shaking head* ;)

EDIt: Me and patience awkward where loving this position.. abbs still sore from friday<3 really comfortable to do a clit rub as well and by angling back ( move your balls towards her ass, or rotate your self and not her counter clockwise ) depending on your penus curve, you can facilitate an easier clit stimulation while increasing g spot excitement by you shaft=D
 
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^ Ha nice pic! I couldn't do that using paint even if I tried.
 
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