phoenix904
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I will try and describe this in as best detail as possible because I feel the details are important, so please forgive me for having to read so much!
In Lima, Peru I met up with a girl and we went out for drinks. Both of us got a little drunk and she said that she wanted to have sex with me. Before this I had told her that I was interested in finding a Latina and she told me (which I thought was kind of strange after-the fact) "be careful because some girls will try to take advantage of that" meaning that some girls would try to take advantage of an american looking for a foreign girl.
We ended up going to some hostal to have sex..... on the way there I told her, "I need to stop somewhere first to buy some condoms." And when I said that she seemed a little upset and said something like, "I can just take the pill tomorrow" or something like that, I honestly don't remember exactly.
Anyway, we got to the room and I got on the bed and at first we were just kissing but our clothes came off and I was laying down and she immedietely sat on top of me so that my penis started entering her. Even though I was kind of drunk I quickly recognized this and pushed her off and told her I wasnt going to do anything without a condom. So then I put condom on and we had sex for only about a minute or two during which time she was repeating the same thing to me which I found to be very strange, she kept saying something like "are you going to stay with me through the good times and bad?" over and over she said that before she started complaining that it hurt, my penis is too big, and that it just didn't fit inside of her. So that was it, I ended up ejaculating on her stomach area some time later mostly from stimulating myself while she just layed there. I then told her that night to make sure she takes the day after pill, and she said ok (after asking me for money so she could get a taxi home). Then the following day I texted her to make sure she would take the pill and she said she would.
Then we didn't talk at all until about 2 weeks after this and I got some message from her that said something to the effect of, "Something terrible has happened and I want you to call me." That's all her message said. I kind of freaked out and honestly didn't want to find out what it was (maybe she was going to tell me she has an STD or something and that I might have one, idk) , and I had zero relationship with this girl and didn't ever want to talk to her or see her again... the day we had sex was the only day I had ever seen her...its not like there was on-going communication, it was mutually understood between the two of us that it was just one night for sex. So me (perhaps being an idiot) freaked out and deleted any way I would have of contacting her and pretty soon I will be going back to the U.S.
Now I'm really worried that maybe she was going to tell me that she's pregnant. But I don't know how that would be possible unless she got pregnant during that 1 second where she mounted me without a condom on and got pregnant from pre-cum right then and there because that was the ONLY time I was inside of her without a condom on, and when I did have a condom on inside of her I didn't even ejaculate.
What I've been thinking is that based on the signs she gave me is that she is either trying to scam me for money (child support) or that she really was trying to get pregnant in the first place.. and who knows, maybe she took some of the cum from her stomach when she went to the bathroom and put it inside of her to become pregnant. The reasons why I was thinking this is because of what she told me when the night just started, "be careful some girls will try to take advantage of you," then the fact that she seemed to be a bit dissapointed when I mentioned I wanted to use condoms, then the fact that she quickly mounted me before I had taken a condom out to put on, then the fact that she kept saying to me "are you going to be with me during the good times and bad?", then the fact that all of a sudden she decided that I was "too big" and didn't want to have sex anymore, and the fact that she seemed to really want money from me (asked me to pay for all the drinks/food we had, and her taxi ride home). I think SHE was one of those girls trying to take advantage of an american man and maybe she made that comment to me to put me at ease sort of like reverse psychology (if she says it then surely she's not one of those girls!).
So I really don't know what to think... maybe she was going to tell me something completely different. Or maybe she's not pregnant but was going to try and scare me into giving her money, or what if she really is pregnant? If so does she have any way of tracking me down? She doesn't know my real name, but she does know what country I'm from, and she might still have pictures of me, idk. I mean if I find out I have a kid from her some day even if she was taking advantage of me I would do what I could to support the kid because it's not the kids fault. (I acknowledge partial responsibility even if she was being devious). But anyway I'm really worried and don't really know what to expect. What do you guys think, and what are my worse-case scenarios? Any advice would be greatly appreciated, and I have no idea how international affairs like this would work if indeed she could track me down and I do end up having a kid from her.
In Lima, Peru I met up with a girl and we went out for drinks. Both of us got a little drunk and she said that she wanted to have sex with me. Before this I had told her that I was interested in finding a Latina and she told me (which I thought was kind of strange after-the fact) "be careful because some girls will try to take advantage of that" meaning that some girls would try to take advantage of an american looking for a foreign girl.
We ended up going to some hostal to have sex..... on the way there I told her, "I need to stop somewhere first to buy some condoms." And when I said that she seemed a little upset and said something like, "I can just take the pill tomorrow" or something like that, I honestly don't remember exactly.
Anyway, we got to the room and I got on the bed and at first we were just kissing but our clothes came off and I was laying down and she immedietely sat on top of me so that my penis started entering her. Even though I was kind of drunk I quickly recognized this and pushed her off and told her I wasnt going to do anything without a condom. So then I put condom on and we had sex for only about a minute or two during which time she was repeating the same thing to me which I found to be very strange, she kept saying something like "are you going to stay with me through the good times and bad?" over and over she said that before she started complaining that it hurt, my penis is too big, and that it just didn't fit inside of her. So that was it, I ended up ejaculating on her stomach area some time later mostly from stimulating myself while she just layed there. I then told her that night to make sure she takes the day after pill, and she said ok (after asking me for money so she could get a taxi home). Then the following day I texted her to make sure she would take the pill and she said she would.
Then we didn't talk at all until about 2 weeks after this and I got some message from her that said something to the effect of, "Something terrible has happened and I want you to call me." That's all her message said. I kind of freaked out and honestly didn't want to find out what it was (maybe she was going to tell me she has an STD or something and that I might have one, idk) , and I had zero relationship with this girl and didn't ever want to talk to her or see her again... the day we had sex was the only day I had ever seen her...its not like there was on-going communication, it was mutually understood between the two of us that it was just one night for sex. So me (perhaps being an idiot) freaked out and deleted any way I would have of contacting her and pretty soon I will be going back to the U.S.
Now I'm really worried that maybe she was going to tell me that she's pregnant. But I don't know how that would be possible unless she got pregnant during that 1 second where she mounted me without a condom on and got pregnant from pre-cum right then and there because that was the ONLY time I was inside of her without a condom on, and when I did have a condom on inside of her I didn't even ejaculate.
What I've been thinking is that based on the signs she gave me is that she is either trying to scam me for money (child support) or that she really was trying to get pregnant in the first place.. and who knows, maybe she took some of the cum from her stomach when she went to the bathroom and put it inside of her to become pregnant. The reasons why I was thinking this is because of what she told me when the night just started, "be careful some girls will try to take advantage of you," then the fact that she seemed to be a bit dissapointed when I mentioned I wanted to use condoms, then the fact that she quickly mounted me before I had taken a condom out to put on, then the fact that she kept saying to me "are you going to be with me during the good times and bad?", then the fact that all of a sudden she decided that I was "too big" and didn't want to have sex anymore, and the fact that she seemed to really want money from me (asked me to pay for all the drinks/food we had, and her taxi ride home). I think SHE was one of those girls trying to take advantage of an american man and maybe she made that comment to me to put me at ease sort of like reverse psychology (if she says it then surely she's not one of those girls!).
So I really don't know what to think... maybe she was going to tell me something completely different. Or maybe she's not pregnant but was going to try and scare me into giving her money, or what if she really is pregnant? If so does she have any way of tracking me down? She doesn't know my real name, but she does know what country I'm from, and she might still have pictures of me, idk. I mean if I find out I have a kid from her some day even if she was taking advantage of me I would do what I could to support the kid because it's not the kids fault. (I acknowledge partial responsibility even if she was being devious). But anyway I'm really worried and don't really know what to expect. What do you guys think, and what are my worse-case scenarios? Any advice would be greatly appreciated, and I have no idea how international affairs like this would work if indeed she could track me down and I do end up having a kid from her.
