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Fave Sex Position

What is with everyone and doggy?

Doggy fucking sucks balls. Like seriously. No grinding mon pubis and clit against mans pelvis, making it hard to get girl off from banging in that posn. No eye contact or petting or squishing, making it kind of like having prostitute or a fleshlight for that matter.

Seriously, the appeal: what is it?
 
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- hair pulling

- ass-bouncing & booty waves of hitting that ass

- you can fuck her very hard from that position
 
I prefer being on top but I sometimes like getting hit from the back if I'm subbing, like face down ass up. Not for too long though, because even though it feels good I can't cum from it. It's almost kind of teasy.. I don't have a ghetto booty so it's not really like it jiggles in waves ,and my fiance prefers eye contact (I like eye contact but it's not as big of a deal to me) and as for hardness, I feel like I can go faster/harder on top. He can also slap my ass when I'm on top, usually at a better angle actually, as when its from the back is more like a slap on the side of the ass which doesn't feel as good to me.
 
No one has mentioned side-to-side while both laying down? Holy wow! You can be as lazy or as active as you both want, it's a comfortable position that's also conducive to snuggling. You can kiss/fondle boobies/grab hips/whisper filthy talk or my personal favorite, when he grabs my hair and thrusts deeply. :)
 
kaywholed said:
I like to raise my left arm above my head and use it to rest my body against the wall of the shower, while I jerk off with my right hand. Aim for the soap dish/shelf.
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EPIC!!

mine is with my penis in the vagina....

Honestly my "favorite" position changes... I've done just about every single one, and I can't really say I have a long-term preference. Like I said, penis in the vagina is good no matter what position lol

Just depends on the mood, yaknow?
 
my girl is very bendy... She seems to like her legs up over my shoulders with her ankles clasped around my neck... Works good for hitting it deep...
 
rangrz said:
What is with everyone and doggy?

Doggy fucking sucks balls. Like seriously. No grinding mon pubis and clit against mans pelvis, making it hard to get girl off from banging in that posn. No eye contact or petting or squishing, making it kind of like having prostitute or a fleshlight for that matter.

Seriously, the appeal: what is it?
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Women need to learn to stop being so shy and how to play with their own clits...


I'm sick of these arguments about how "regular" sex does not please women. dick = vaginal opening. dick does not = clit. Clit is the ugly third wheel at the party for two. Sure, men and women can both equally treat it with kindness but I don't think that it should be the norm. Women need to care for their own clits. And it should be welcomed.

All that said, doggy is liked because man and woman can enjoy deep penetration without all that which prevents it... also, its a good position for the woman to enjoy penetration and rub her clit all at the same time.
 
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love doggy!!! i love it when my g spot gets hit instantly!!!!
 
nooneanymore said:
Women need to learn to stop being so shy and how to play with their own clits...


I'm sick of these arguments about how "regular" sex does not please women. dick = vaginal opening. dick does not = clit. Clit is the ugly third wheel at the party for two. Sure, men and women can both equally treat it with kindness but I don't think that it should be the norm. Women need to care for their own clits. And it should be welcomed.
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Am not quite sure what you mean by this. Since blow jobs are considered somewhat of a requirement (I mean when two straight people are having sex it's basically understood that the guy's gonna get given head at some point) why wouldn't the same be thought of women getting oral/clit stimulation? I feel like it's a huge double standard. If we should be caring for our own clit, then, to put it crudely, find a way to suck your own dick :)
 
Oral sex is always different (see the US Clinton pesidential scandals of the 90s ). I'm just talking about sexual positions and those that stimulate clitorous response - and the concept men shouldn't be held 100% responsible for clit responspe.

And to be more refined, dick does does nor = vag or clit. In real terms, dick can only = dick.

But in any event, I hope that these terms are not too hash or oppoaitional soudinging.
 
nooneanymore said:
Oral sex is always different (see the US Clinton pesidential scandals of the 90s ). I'm just talking about sexual positions and those that stimulate clitorous response - and the concept men shouldn't be held 100% responsible for clit responspe.

And to be more refined, dick does does nor = vag or clit. In real terms, dick can only = dick.

But in any event, I hope that these terms are not too hash or oppoaitional soudinging.
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Hmm... And you say all your relationships were bad? Lol.

Actually, I would say that dick = vagina and clit = head/glans of dick

I prefer being taken from behind, and I have no problem at all touching my own clit, but I expect my partner to at least attempt the reach around.
 
nooneanymore said:
Oral sex is always different (see the US Clinton pesidential scandals of the 90s ). I'm just talking about sexual positions and those that stimulate clitorous response - and the concept men shouldn't be held 100% responsible for clit responspe.

And to be more refined, dick does does nor = vag or clit. In real terms, dick can only = dick.

But in any event, I hope that these terms are not too hash or oppoaitional soudinging.
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Yeah, sure, the woman can do it herself a bit. But why wouldn't the guy help as well? I mean unless you're (as in a general you, I'm not accusing you specifically) super selfish in bed I don't see why it should be a problem.

I don't really see the point of the 'what dick equals' conversation because sex shouldn't be about calculating what your partner owes you because of what you've done or whatever. Again, that's a very selfish way to see it.
 
@noone:

But, a) I *want* my partner to get off. b) If she is enjoying it, she is more likely to want to often and be enthusiastic about it. c) Doggy with a guy pounding her balls deep while she rubs her own clit is kind of aesthetically off-putting and looks like a typical, raunchy cis hetero non kink porn. Like bang bros or brazzers. I hate that shit and don't want to re-enact it IRL.

@Pagey: I dunno, I never expected head in my relationships. On occasion, sure. But it's not really my thing, and I can see it being kind of unpleasant for the girl to do... like nomming a vagoo is a bit different than having a rigid cock in your mouth, hitting the back of your throat while the guy forcefully pushes your head around. I love to nom and do it without any expectation of, or really even desire for, reciprocation.
 
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@Pagey: I dunno, I never expected head in my relationships. On occasion, sure. But it's not really my thing, and I can see it being kind of unpleasant for the girl to do... like nomming a vagoo is a bit different than having a rigid cock in your mouth, hitting the back of your throat while the guy forcefully pushes your head around. I love to nom and do it without any expectation of, or really even desire for, reciprocation.
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See, this is why I like coming here...different perspectives.

I personally love everything about sucking my husbands cock, I love the taste, the feel, I love teasing him, I love it's hitting the back of my throat, or when it slides two inches down into my throat, I like when my nose can touch his body, I love when he comes down my throat and goes crazy in the throes of ecstasy...

Not at all trying to make this sound like a porn scene, just goes to show how different people can be really into their "thing"... How what some find meh others really get off on. I really appreciate finding out and understanding these other points of view!
 
rangrz said:
@Pagey: I dunno, I never expected head in my relationships. On occasion, sure. But it's not really my thing, and I can see it being kind of unpleasant for the girl to do... like nomming a vagoo is a bit different than having a rigid cock in your mouth, hitting the back of your throat while the guy forcefully pushes your head around. I love to nom and do it without any expectation of, or really even desire for, reciprocation.
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Yeah sure, I just meant as a general rule, it's sort of an unspoken consensus that the guy's gonna get head at some point, whereas the woman won't necessarily (I'm talking about hook-ups more than relationships here, obviously it's different when emotions are involved etc.). Don't get me wrong, I love giving BJs, it's just I do think there's a huge double standard there. I definitely wasn't saying I don't like doing it, because that's not true. I just don't see why we're unconditionally expected to do that whereas the favour's not always returned.
 
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I don't dislike it, and it's def fun sometimes, and it can be really hot in the right context/setting. I.e. I think it's really hot when Ms.G is subbing and gently esses my dee of her own volition, and I just pet and stroke her, not face fuck.

But I mean in general, why would I expect it? It's kind of not cool to expect or pressure someone for a specific sex act if they kind of are averse to it or not in the mood for it.
 
^Well yeah, that's what I'm saying. I'm really not talking about whether it's nice in general for the woman or what kind is better or whatever, and considering the fact that I like giving them I'm perfectly happy for it to be expected of me, I just think it should therefore be expected of men to give oral too. Or neither. That's really all I mean. Obviously I'm making a gross generalisation.
 
On my back with my knees up. Fastest way for me to come. I enjoy other positions for other reasons, but the fully body contact and angle of thrust in missionary is just perfect. <3 I also love feeling held down by his body and admiring his flexed biceps.

Doggy doesn't really work for me; it generally results in painful jabbing of my cervix. Even if it doesn't I'm constantly afraid that it will. :(

This clit-rubbing action during intercourse is analogous to ball/perineum-fondling on men. I've never seen a guy do it himself but I've been asked many a time to lend a hand. Girls are far more likely to touch their clits IMO. Personally I find such things distracting. I'm all about the penetration (vag or mouth).
 
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