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DonMakaveli

DonMakaveli

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When this somewhat new friend of mine, well shes more of an acquaintance right now cuz I only see her about 2-3 times a week n dopnt have her number yet only met around about 2 weeks ago. Well what does it mean when everytime I DO see her in person & start to talk she can never & barley look me in the eyes or somewhere on my face when shes talking ? Like whenever shes with her girls or guy friends I see her talkin n she looks at them directly all the time, but not with me.. This is mainly when its just me & here 1 on 1 but say when we are around my or her friends just a few of them she will mainly look at them only when talkin n occasionally just glance at me during that.. So what does dat mean? Does she think I'm ugly or somethin n repulsive to look at ? :( lol Or what ?

Thanks.
 
I'd guess either she finds you annoying and her body language is trying to give you hints to leave her alone. Or she's really into you and you make her nervous.
 
Does she blush at all too? I'd say she might like ya, and she just has a hard time looking hot people in the eyes for more than a split second.

Either that or she likes you as a friend, but doesn't know you well enough to get all the eye contact often - I have a friend who does this wit me - it's unnerving sometimes.

You could ask her, after playing it by ear for a while, if it still sticks in ya mind...then again it's only 2 weeks - dude she probably just nervous.
 
Hmm both u & 'Coolwhip' said about the same thing, also so did a close friend of mine too.. Thinkin about it she does blush at times while we talk but it confused me cuz i also know some people do dat from just bein nervous about talkin to ppl or knowin they arent lookin at them so other person probly thinkin they weird etc, but didnt think she could be into me..

I'll definitely check more into this & maybe try to start seeing her more, & try n ask her (: Thanks
 
Coolwhip said:
I'd guess either she finds you annoying and her body language is trying to give you hints to leave her alone. Or she's really into you and you make her nervous.
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Basically. Although I'd put my money on her being into you and therefore being shy about the whole thing. Other than that, how does she act around you?
 
If you say something to her and she doesn't look at you--she's not interested. Thats body language for, "don't talk to me".
 
^not necessarily - hence why I asked "does she blush".

Mak - she's all blushing and shit? yeah bruv she likes you man! Now do what ya gonna do - sweet talk that shy shorty ;)
DonMakaveli said:
Hmm both u & 'Coolwhip' said about the same thing, also so did a close friend of mine too.. Thinkin about it she does blush at times while we talk but it confused me cuz i also know some people do dat from just bein nervous about talkin to ppl or knowin they arent lookin at them so other person probly thinkin they weird etc, but didnt think she could be into me..

I'll definitely check more into this & maybe try to start seeing her more, & try n ask her (: Thanks
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It could be a "trust" issue.
Sometimes people are reserved until you build up your trust with them.
(i'm not saying that she distrusts you. there is a difference)
She could just be shy and start to feel awkward when she's with you.
Start to observe her actions each time you see her. Pay attention to the rest of her body language.
 
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