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SLR Social vs. Hello Nurse

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If she's smart, the beautiful line isn't going to make a difference, but if you already passed the 3 second rule, it'll definitely help. ;)

It's easier to say "wow, you're a great writer" than it is to say "you are so beautiful," so I say you tell her that you think she is beautiful.
 
Well, it's a public library. She probably be sitting next over me. It would be kind of strange to formally say it in the middle of a conversation out of nowhere. Also there are other people arround, which can make the whole thing very awkward.

As a compromise, I might just bend the compliment to something more funny, and write her a little note "wow, I am going back home to read tomorrow's text. I really cannot concentrate at all with such a beautiful women over me. See you tomorrow!"
 
What is with all the fucking bull shit sexist comments I see in so many posts here in SLR. Like seriously...cak, vagoo, XY, XX, XXY, XYY, XXYY..whatever...everyone is a fucking human being. I'm sick of this "Bros before hoes" type of attitude..like fuck off...my "hoe" is also my best "bro".

In any case, fuck off with the hoes/bitches/sluts/whores/etc shit. Treat people like equal human beings. Not only will it make you less of an asshole, it will increase the amount of sex you get. Trust me on that.

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I know what your saying an agree in terms of the lazy, naieve and rather juvinile attitude some people can display. Mostly because they are terrified of women on some level, have no idea how to interact with them and so resort to being a 'bro'.

It is still important to call a spade a spade thought. Unless of course that spade happens to be a slut, in which case you would call it a slut.
 
I think slut or whore should be gender neutral tho. I was a slut and whore in my younger days. Slut is negative and player is positive and the distinction on them is only if you have a vagoo or a cak. That's not cool. Either being promiscuous is good or it's bad. Does not matter if you're a guy or girl...you're still a slut if you bang anything with a pulse.

As I said, I was a slut, but I'm not now. I love hanging out with my bros. My BEST bro happens to have a vagoo and I happen to be deeply in love with her. She's not a hoe just cause we have sex. She is still my bro. There is no false dichotomy between the two.

But referring to women at large with negative labels like slut or whore, is really not cool and I am wish some people would grow the fuck up.
 
Psyduck said:
As a compromise, I might just bend the compliment to something more funny, and write her a little note "wow, I am going back home to read tomorrow's text. I really cannot concentrate at all with such a beautiful women over me. See you tomorrow!"
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I would suggest saying that instead of writing it, but I do think that's a good idea :)
 
I believe there is a difference between a slut and a player. a player is the predator while a slut is the prey. the player knows what they want, gets it and leaves. a slut takes whatever it can get.
 
I guess maybe its a regional thing? here we differentiate a female or male as a slut or player. if either gender is defined as a player and it gets around its hard to find someone to date (I got labeled a player). slut generally is used towards women though, youre right, and guys are just called desperate lol. but we do have and recognize female players in my area.
 
Serotonin101 said:
I guess maybe its a regional thing? here we differentiate a female or male as a slut or player. if either gender is defined as a player and it gets around its hard to find someone to date (I got labeled a player). slut generally is used towards women though, youre right, and guys are just called desperate lol. but we do have and recognize female players in my area.
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Really? I'm happy to hear that, cuz I'd really never heard of a woman described as a player. Nor of a man described as a slut for that matter.
 
exactly - this kinda honesty will get you what you want - a good woman.
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Why wouldn't you want to tell her she's beautiful if you think she's beautiful? ;) It's not lame at all.
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Awwww yeah - I got some crazy lil pixie woman's phone number yesterday morning on my way to church - I bumped into these beautiful mormon missionary sisters in the street, started talking to them, eyeing the Finnish one up wow she was very very beautiful, and the other one remembered I had spoken to her before, and tried to give me this card with a website which again I refused - and then this woman walks up to them, starts talking and joking with them, and then we all stand and talk for a short while - they ask us both to church which I refuse, the lil woman skirts round the question, tells me I gotta cheeky grin, and tells me "I'll keep you warm in winter" and gives me a wink, and then gives me her business card!

I was considering it, umming and arring, she was quite heavily layered so it looked like she could've been fat, and so my question was answered when I saw her last night again, leaving our local Tesco, and I watched her from behind as she walked away - very tight ass, and definitely NOT fat hahaha - So gonna give her a call over the weekend, I texted her last night after seeing her again, with my name saying "speak soon, cheeky lil madame" to which she replied "look forward very much, tree hugger ;)" - scoooooore.
 
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Serotonin101 said:
I believe there is a difference between a slut and a player. a player is the predator while a slut is the prey. the player knows what they want, gets it and leaves. a slut takes whatever it can get.
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Then there should still be female players and male sluts... some females going hunting too, some males take whatever they can get. One should then be positive and one should be negative, and female hunters should be positive just like make hunters...
 
rangrz said:
Then there should still be female players and male sluts... some females going hunting too, some males take whatever they can get. One should then be positive and one should be negative, and female hunters should be positive just like make hunters...
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I think all players and sluts are negative. I got played last month and it sucked. I played women and regret it. I just think its a smaller demographic of female players and male sluts. though I've known my fair share.
 
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