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Single? For how long?

Hmmm, I've had girls feel uncomfortable with my number of previous partners, and the depth and breadth of my sexual experience. (threesomes, larger groups, fetishes, BDSM, strange locations, etc) quite a few of them actually. Even my current one, as awesome, open minded and well experienced as she is, gets a little uncomfy with it sometimes.
 
Hmmm, I've had girls feel uncomfortable with my number of previous partners, and the depth and breadth of my sexual experience. (threesomes, larger groups, fetishes, BDSM, strange locations, etc) quite a few of them actually. Even my current one, as awesome, open minded and well experienced as she is, gets a little uncomfy with it sometimes.

Would you wanna develop on any of that? I'm kinda curious (partly being nosy and partly looking for ideas). But I geddit if you don't.
 
i've had flings and friendship/fuckbuddies and lots of sex but only one relationship when i was 18. seems weird but i'm just not that into one person. if i was straight i would have lots of different women and maybe a few children but i'm not that into relationships. the people i have fallen for are not the ones that fell for me. and i'm very happy at the mo.

also when in a relationship i have a huge urge to cheat and thats not really fair on the other person
 
Would you wanna develop on any of that? I'm kinda curious (partly being nosy and partly looking for ideas). But I geddit if you don't.

What do you want me to go into more detail about? I have no problem expanding on it, beyond typing out tl;dr shit that no one cares about... but if you tell me what it is you wish to know, I'll gladly expand...
 
LOL what about it?

Broadly, I guess just that I've done a lot it, with a good number of partners. Like, almost always as a sub, except for the odd scene here or there where I've topped either at their request (like a service top) or because I wanted to teach them something (as in, teach someone who wants to Domme by showing her in the form of having her sub to me and doing whatever it is she was curious about.) or just for the lulz/general sexual exploration (Actually am planning one for next week with Ms.G :) ). Oh, and lots of scenes where there's been more than 2 people and I was subbing to one but topping the other along with her.

Rope work, restraints, canes, crops, whips, open hand strikes (like face, and the obvious palm of the hand spanking) water sports Sensation stuff like pin wheels, ice, blah. A few forays with electricity, I've administered water-boarding before in a kink context (Have only had it done me in the context of a S.E.R.E. course) and of course the softer stuff that overlaps with more or less regular sex like "forced" nomming of vagoo/pooper (not that it really requires any coercion to get me to do that) otherwise kissing/licking/sucking body parts (fingers, toes, nipples, whatever...again, its something that really falls into regular sex, at least for me) plugs/strap ons/etc, tease and denial, choking, blindfolds.

again, if you have a particular question about any of that, ask away or PM me.
 
You remind me of an ex Po.

It is good to be single then.

I am going on, I guess, 7 years single. I don't count the couple belly flops in the shallow end since my last commited relationship.
 
If you have a girlfriend before the age of 21 youre a sucker in my opinion. Never again is it going to be as easy to pick up chicks and you locked yourself into one puss that doesnt even know what a real relationship is like.
 
^Have you considered maybe some people prefer relationships?
I was in one from when I was 15 to 18 and I was considerably happier then rather than having regular random hook-ups at 19 as I am now. The sex was also much better with my ex and it's been mostly shit in my single life :p
 
If you have a girlfriend before the age of 21 youre a sucker in my opinion. Never again is it going to be as easy to pick up chicks and you locked yourself into one puss that doesnt even know what a real relationship is like.

It's better to have one AWESOME, tight, clean, tasty puss than 20 loose, smelly, cottage cheese discharging, roast beef looking puss's.

Like think about it this way: Would you rather have one 2013 Mercedes SL 65 AMG
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Or a Hyundai Pony, a Corolla, a K car and a Camry?

Not to mention...at least for me, my relationship before I was 21 did not lock me into one puss...it locked me into 2 puss's that liked to do stuff to each other (and to me) and sometimes invited 3rd party puss in to play with us too. One was an SL65 AMG, the other was a Gallardo and third party puss tended to be at least an M5.

But my current puss that I'm locked into? It's not even street legal...actually, it's not even a car...It's a Saturn V.
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You can see why I don't really want to ride in anything else then, yes?
 
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I said in my opinion, what else do you want me to say? I know there are people who agree with me too.
 
If you have a girlfriend before the age of 21 youre a sucker in my opinion. Never again is it going to be as easy to pick up chicks and you locked yourself into one puss that doesnt even know what a real relationship is like.

If you can't pick up chicks after 21, your game is awful.
 
As I said, it got easier for me as I got older. I pulled more ass in the first 8 months of being 25 (after which I wound up happily in my current relationship) than I did between 16-21...and I pulled A LOT of ass in during that period.

Like it's just so much easier once you're a university grad and in a Masters program (Because, lets face it, being smart and educated makes your conversation skills better.) Having been promoted from the ranks to being an Officer and having amassed a good deal of shiny things to hang on my chest ( Chicks did decorated military officers a little bit more than they dig high school kids.) Along with that, came more money (self evident why it helps) and otherwise, just having more experience at macking and more experience in bed.
 
You remind me of an ex Po.

It is good to be single then.

I am going on, I guess, 7 years single. I don't count the couple belly flops in the shallow end since my last commited relationship.


i'm very promiscuous given the chance. which lately i have but as i'm not with anyone i'm free to be irresponsible.
 
I feel sick to my stomach just thinking about how it's been almost 2 years since I've had real sex or a significant other. A 4 year long strange love affair ended and w/ it so did the sex. Going from regular amazing sex to zilch was agonizing. Th heart break and pain of being best friends who would talk everyday to her telling me never to contact her again, and hating me, and blaming me for everything, and then basically being gone overnight just about killed me.

I was left alone with my alcoholism and addiction to heroin and I moved back home with my parents w/ my tail between my legs and was damaged goods at the age of 25. I got a part-time job busing tables and spent a very hard year saving up money to move out of my parents house and into a house w/ my buddies but rent is so expensive around here that it took forever. Those were such dark days as I now had to face life alone and was left alone with all my problems. She finally gave up on me and jumped ship. That was 2 years ago and I still cry. Her leaving was the best and worst thing for me. It forced me to learn how to be a man and live on my own, it also got me to get help and now I have 5 months sober. Being 27 living at home, single, is so unnatural and it really brings me down somedays. At least now I'm building character and graduating from college this year. So it's not like I just gave up on life, although many times I tried by using heroin and considering suicide.

I think about sex all the time and considering it was just valentines day, I do feel extremely lonely. But I'm learning to enjoy being single and see this time in my life as a time for ME, and developing character and examining my mistakes from past relationships. It's encouraging to know that the next girl will be treated right, and I'll have all my personal issues worked out so they won't be carried into the relationship. But gods its been hard, getting sober from heroin and loosing the love of my life and best friend has been the hardest shit I've ever gone through. Working dead end jobs and going back to college at 27 has been brutal but I can no longer say I'm a lowlife loser because I'm going to graduate and grab life by the horns. I'm in the best shape of my entire life and am such a better person now. Anyways, I just needed to get that off my chest, the pain is unbearable somedays, i miss her so much, she left so a huge hole to be filled by me. This is the longest I've been single since I was a teenager in high school.

I could seriously use a hug right about now.
 
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I've been with more women after 21 to be honest. its more fun when both people got a vehicle, money, a place to fuck, etc.

Yeah, because you're more experienced with talking to women, and older men have more charisma usually. Just like 16 year old girl, 18 year old dudes are annoying.

Although, I always do enjoy teasing the interns. lol
 
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