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Single? For how long?

nooneanymore

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What's the longest you've ever been single?


I was reading this interview of this writer in the Paris Review and the guy said that for all his life he's never been single. He's always been in a relationship with someone. He got married young and after that fell apart he was able to find other long term relationships.

This probably shouldn't count high school years.


I'd say its pushing 5 years now. Moreover, I've completly given up the notion of being with anyone so I'm in it for the long haul... and I think I'm ok with it.


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If I don't count the years before I was 15, I've been single abouuut 5-6 months now. Although that relationship only lasted a few weeks, so if I go back to the one before it's been about 10 months.
Kinda ready to get back into one though tbh.
 
^ same here, I find myself wanting the idea of a relationship lately.

in all reality though, it's probably because I have been laid in 8 months and haven't been in a relationship in close to two.

I miss the sex but it's been so long since I've had to accommodate anybody that I've lost sight of how awesome it is to be single. Ha

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I have never been able to understand those girls that are constantly in relationships, usually I try to avoid them.
 
I'm 22, I've never been in a relationship, and will never be in one. I don't want to be tied down!
 
bagochina said:
I have never been able to understand those girls that are constantly in relationships, usually I try to avoid them.
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Why are they avoidable?

I'm only 22, but I've been in relationships since I was 17. I broke up with my ex the same time I started dating my boyfriend. Dated my ex for three years and my boyfriend for over two and a half years so far. It isn't my fault that I met my bf while I was dating my ex and we just clicked. I'm not opposed to being single. I just have had two relatively long relationships that happened to almost overlap. I kind of wonder what it's like to be sober but I'm happy in my relationship, so I'm not actively going to pursue it.
 
Well my other thread on here speaks for itself :)

At 23, Never. I've been with a couple of women for a few months over the years, but i wouldn't say that's long enough to be counted as a relationship. Lately i find myself wanting to be involved in one though, i miss the intimacy.
 
After my ex-BF died, I was pretty much out of my head for 2 years, so that is the longest. I'm kinda pissed at myself for it being so long, but it's hard to get that shit out of your head. I'm thoroughly enjoying myself for the last year or so.
 
haven't been single for longer than a two months total from 16-22 now. its different but not too bad being I guess you could say not being in a committed relationship now. though I'm working on getting into another.
 
I was single for maybe a week or to before i met the guy im with now,
5 years later and we're still going strong.;)
If we ever stop dating for some reason im planning on being single for as long as i can%)
 
I've been single almost 2 years now and also without sex... :\

Ever since I broke up with my last ex I replaced the void with a lot of drugs and alcohol. I'm just now cutting back and starting to get myself out there again. I'm sick of being single to be completely honest.
 
I was with the ex since I was like 17.. lasted about 7 years.. then 3-4 months of partying then fell on a really nice woman wich I live with now. It's been 2 years we are together...
but seriously, I would do some single time no problem... maybe it's less sex but it's fun to have sex with girls you don't really care about...
 
bagochina said:
I have never been able to understand those girls that are constantly in relationships, usually I try to avoid them.
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i would tend to agree

llama im sure your a nice girl n like you said its not your fault you met one person after one relationship. really i dont think stringing to relationships together is what bagochina or myself is reffering to

its the girls that litterally are unable to be single, will jump into a relationship with anyone so long as they dont have to be alone, i found girls like that have a whole set of issues (dependency usually just being the small one)

i mean it shouldnt be a deal breaker but IMO one should be cautious of these women
 
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