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Admit something v. Sex, Lies and Videotape edition

^I've never tried it...it seems like a strange thing to do, but I'm sure in practice if done right it's erotic. Sharing that creative energy between you 2.

Yeah it's been a long drawn out process, we haven't really even worked out what it is yet - I call her my woman, which she doesn't feel uber comfortable with, but she's kinda less emotionally mature than me now, which is strange seeing as she's older, but it works out quite nicely - we're best friends, and we accept it might not be THE thing for either of us, but it's full of love, andf great sex, so for the moment, how it is, it works nicely.

It's quite unlike any relationship I've ever had before, it's ideal in the sense that it's very open. We can fuck anyone else - I don't see the point much anymore, I'm settling down more, and concentrating on other things, but it's nice to feel free to do what I want, as long as I'm honest and tell her what I've been up to. We have responsibilities to each other, but at the same time there's no strings. The whole thing is a bit of a paradox at the moment, but it feels like it's reaching some sort of climax fairly soon.
Cohesion said:
b1t that is so nice you are in some love tangle right now. <3

Good.
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I admit it took me until a month ago to be truly comfortable with my homosexual side, because I wasn't sure if it was just that - a facet of my sexuality instead of a potential repressed WHOLE.
 
amanda_eats_pandas said:
I have a super hard time communicating what I want, but next time we get down I'll try bringing it up.

I need to man up and tell him what I want.
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I used to find it very difficult too, either communicating what I wanted or talking dirty to a partner. I was brought up too gentlemanly for that kind of filth, had to practice long and hard to be a bit more dom about the whole thing but still doesn't come easily to me. Girl telling me how much she's enjoying things, what to do, to fuck her harder, just generally being vocal a massive turn on though, think it is for most men. We sometimes want our partners to be a slut in bed, but have this ingrained gotta-be-a-nice-sensitive-lover thing cos of how we were brought up. I was mid thirties before I got that talking dirty, pulling hair, slapping arses, that kinda thing very much has its place in the sack, it was a revelation that girls were into raw, dirty sex, probably more even than I was back then. Go figure. 8)

Beachcat said:
This is a little embarrassing, but hey, so is half the shit I post in here....

I admit that after I masturbate, I sometime like to smell my fingers for a long time after because I think my lady juices smell really, really good. I also like to taste them off my husbands cock. It turns me on.
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My ex would do that too, either lick her own fingers if she'd been masturbating for me or lick them off mine if I'd been the one doing the deed for her. I'd sometimes be dead selfish though and not let her have them, licking her juices off my fingers myself and making a big thing out of smelling them. Love it, the taste, the smell, the slight pervery of it, the lot.

Pagey said:
Oh okay thanks. Pretty kinky indeed.
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Too kinky for me Pagey and I have some weird ones. ;) I'll suck a guy off and swallow no problem, I love it but second-hand cum just repulses me, whether that's snowballing or going down on a girl after I've come inside her or what. Just can't do it. An ex tried to straddle my face once after sex so she could dribble into my mouth, damn, I nearly threw her off the bed, was no fucking way I could do let her do that to me. 8o

*shudders*

Right, I gotta admit something here, right? Ummmmm . . . . I really, REALLY want another guy to cum all over my face with me on my knees sucking him off to get to that point. It's a fantasy I've entertained for a long time but never yet been able to test. I've a feeling it's one of those things best left as fantasy, I'm not sure I'd actually enjoy it but sure want to find out either way. Looks like I might have the opportunity in a few weeks, a bi couple I used to play with regularly before getting with the ex have been back in touch recently, threesome with them for the first time in about seven years looks to be on the cards quite soon. Huzzah!
 
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China Rider said:
i admit that's pretty much how i 'con' woman into having sex with me

it's not something i do with any frequency, but i like to have sex once in awhile....

just make them laugh and laugh and eventually they'll turn the subject to sex, which occasionally leads to actual sex

it sucks i've broken hearts this way, so usually i'll just practice celibacy until i literally get lucky

i also admit i don't really consider any woman as my friend(not a term a use loosely),what i consider a friend is someone who i've created many memories with and mostly someone who shares a passionate interest, and usually they're extremely funny, rational and intelligent
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right, but it's not like that.

we call each other when we need to talk about relationship issues, when we need help moving, shit like that.

I'm pretty sure that if anything would have happened by now, it would have happened years ago :)

/i admit that i'm glad that I didn't hook up with anybody yesterday/ last night.
 
I admit that I suck at friendships. I'm a great girlfriend but I'm not a great friend. Not a bad friend (like I'm not mean to people, etc.), I just avoid having too many friendships. I just don't enjoy it very much. I was like that before I started dating though, so it's not just because I have a boyfriend. I want to have a couple friends but it just never works out. There just aren't many people who I really want to spend time with. And who I feel comfortable talking to! Oh well. I still have some time, I suppose!
 
pastelcircus said:
I admit that my best friend ever is a guy, and that he's probably my best friend due to the fact that he's never flirted with me, or been sexual toward me in any way.

bros> hoes imo
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lol Like CR said, if you gave him any hint of a chance and he's straight, he'll take it.
 
Lysis said:
lol Like CR said, if you gave him any hint of a chance and he's straight, he'll take it.
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When I was single, there have been chicks who have wanted to bang me but I'm like "nope.avi" because I find them un-attractive either physically or because they are retarded/I would feel they are too beneath me in some mental way to want to defile myself.
 
rangrz said:
When I was single, there have been chicks who have wanted to bang me but I'm like "nope.avi" because I find them un-attractive either physically or because they are retarded/I would feel they are too beneath me in some mental way to want to defile myself.
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yup.
 
Lysis said:
lol Like CR said, if you gave him any hint of a chance and he's straight, he'll take it.
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Agree.

I guess 80% of my current female friends are those which who I wanted to have sex with from the very start, the other 20% are "friends of friends I wanted to have sex with."

Of course, when the chemistry doesn't work out at first I just "settle" for being friends, which is not per se a bad thing. I like them, they are cool. But I am not going to lie: when I was in a room with strangers the very first ime, I started talking to them because I was attracted to them rather than to others.

It's funny, though, most women think guy-friends have (or had) no hidden agenda.
 
rangrz said:
When I was single, there have been chicks who have wanted to bang me but I'm like "nope.avi" because I find them un-attractive either physically or because they are retarded/I would feel they are too beneath me in some mental way to want to defile myself.
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Yeah, I've heard that from men before. I figure it was a line they were giving me. pastel is pretty damn hot, so I don't think she falls into that category.
 
i'm pretty sure almost every man has declined open invitations towards sex, multiple time

surely there are 30something virgins by default and for the past 15 years have actively been seeking a one night stand with a woman that's willing, but have been rejected in over 9000 attempts
 
China Rider said:
i'm pretty sure almost every man has declined open invitations towards sex, multiple time

surely there are 30something virgins by default and for the past 15 years have actively been seeking a one night stand with a woman that's willing, but have been rejected in over 9000 attempts
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Not entirely sure what you mean - was your point that I'm being unfair to the single virgin men by pointlessly going after the unavailable ones?
 
Pagey said:
Not entirely sure what you mean - was your point that I'm being unfair to the single virgin men by pointlessly going after the unavailable ones?
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sorry for being lazy and not going back to quote

i was referring to what rangrz,kaywholed and lysis were talking about,regarding men rejecting sure thing sex

since you thought i was talking to you, i'll take the time to address whag you've said

nothing wrong with being attracted to unavailable men,you can't control it and it really sucks, but pretty sure most can agree that generally people who are married/serious dating are more desirable/generally more awesome than single people

i'm single and generally have a hard time connecting with other single men, IME almost all single guys make sure the theme of the night of every single social event is scoping out the babes, nothing wrong with it, just not my thing

i don't consider woman unavailable unless they go at lengths to prove that they're in a happy relationship or they are dating friends of mine
 
China Rider said:
i respect virgins, even if it's not by choice

people who make fun of virgins are low lifes
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Eh, it's not a matter of respect. It's a matter of something wrong. I did qualify my statement with 30+ men. Sorry, but that is not normal. The problem really just proliferates at that point. If you are 30+ and a virgin, there is something socially wrong with you, which becomes a red flag for women. At some point, who wants to bother with the "fixer upper" type person. If you're 30 and in a stable place in life, why take on that project into your love life? There's nothing wrong with wanting that normal person who just failed at his previous relationships.

Same with bitter people. Who wants a bitter asshole in their life? I realize we're probably all bitter in some respect, but have you ever known that girl/guy who just has nothing nice to say about anyone? It just sucks to be around that person.
 
yeah exactly, and people who struggle maintaining anything even remotely close to a healthy social life clearly struggle with pretty serious mental health complications/illness that they more than likely don't even realize, they don't deserve having to hear people saying things that result in making them feel like they're consciously doing something wrong and thinking that's why they've never had a sexual partner

people with major physical health problems don't catch slack for being virgins

after typing that, i realize when i said respect in my earlier post, what i meant to say is that i support them

i respect very desirable people in their early to mid 20s,who are virgins and have declined multiple sexual opportunities, and are not afraid to admit it

they are way cooler than people who liberally kiss and tell
 
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