SLR Social vs. Hello Nurse

[Beachcat]

Beachcat, I'm late to the thread. I feel your pain, and in no way did I just done a massive fucking LOL or anything like that reading about your sexual misfortunes, honest. That's you out of the fap thread for a while then, huh?

Ahh, Sepher my friend, you would tend to think that, huh? But indeed I have made a way...could not go that long without. Hand is doing ok...actually itches like crazy, so probably healing.

Cohesion, I am not sure about the Skype thing. I don't think it is shallow at all to show a little something something, but why does it feel weird to you? I ask because it would feel weird to me if I was in your spot...I am pretty bold in writing, and in person as well, but I have never ever felt comfortable doing things like phone sex, or naked Skype. I don't know why....I could probably get into it if I tried, it is just outside of my box for sure.

@B1tO'RoughJack....thanks, love. I have not yet showered today. I may possibly reread what you wrote and go take a shower in the downstairs bath, which has......a detachable shower head. I will let you know if your tricks worked. If they don't, then I may have to request a demonstration in person.

And for the record, did anyone else after reading what Pagey posted about that douchebag think about all of the men that would probably walk over broken glass just to get a glimpse of her perfect naked body? I sure did.

 

[Pagey]

So

I have my love across the ocean right? 8000 miles to be precise. I can't see him until May... 4 months...he often nags me to show him my body on skype. I refuse. Once I showed him my boobs but it felt weird. He says that "this is all we have".

To be fair, he hasn't had sex for over a year. In fact he has only had sex with one person in his life, maybe one time or very few times. I am still taking care to get laid at least once a month (until we are together). So I guess he is not getting all my sexual energy, and I don't want to give on camera. Seems so shallow. But maybe he is right. Maybe it will be good to give him something. He's not getting anything anywhere else.

Thoughts ?

I think you should try it out!
I used to have 'skype sex' with my ex when one of us was away on vacation or something. It was a little weird/intimidating the first time but honestly, once you get used to the idea it's lots of fun. And it really does make waiting for the real thing so much easier.

And for the record, did anyone else after reading what Pagey posted about that douchebag think about all of the men that would probably walk over broken glass just to get a glimpse of her perfect naked body? I sure did.

Aww

 

[B1tO'RoughJack]

"possibly"? haha yeah right B

@B1tO'RoughJack....thanks, love. I have not yet showered today. I may possibly reread what you wrote and go take a shower in the downstairs bath, which has......a detachable shower head. I will let you know if your tricks worked. If they don't, then I may have to request a demonstration in person.

And for the record, did anyone else after reading what Pagey posted about that douchebag think about all of the men that would probably walk over broken glass just to get a glimpse of her perfect naked body? I sure did.

demonstration in person coming iiiiiiiiiin a few years I reckon. Might have to walk across some broken glass first tbh

 

[Sepher]

Ahh, Sepher my friend, you would tend to think that, huh? But indeed I have made a way...could not go that long without. Hand is doing ok...actually itches like crazy, so probably healing.

I very much thought you might. Where there is a will, or an itch in need of a scratch, there is usually a way.

And for the record, did anyone else after reading what Pagey posted about that douchebag think about all of the men that would probably walk over broken glass just to get a glimpse of her perfect naked body? I sure did.

Something very nearly that, yes. But in an age appropriate way you understand, nothing creepy, obviously. Glad we cleared that up.

Cohesion, do it. It's not bloody seedy or humiliating or anything, it's fucking horny, so long as you let yourself go and run with it. Don't get your tits out then go all shy, this is about you too, yeah? What do you want out of it? Could work for you just as much as it does him, oh yes indeedy. My ex and I started seeing other when we were 50 miles from each other. Casual at first, we might see each other every coupla months to start with. We kept the horn and what became the love interest going very nicely with cams over MSN. Phone sex, cyberring, cams, whatever, just keep that fire burning for both of you. Stick the cam on record next time you have a wank FFS, send him the video if the live one on one thing freaks you. That's him sorted with wank material for when you're offline for months, forever probably. Two-way is better though. Things like that.

 

[morpher001]

So

I have my love across the ocean right? 8000 miles to be precise. I can't see him until May... 4 months...he often nags me to show him my body on skype. I refuse. Once I showed him my boobs but it felt weird. He says that "this is all we have".

To be fair, he hasn't had sex for over a year. In fact he has only had sex with one person in his life, maybe one time or very few times. I am still taking care to get laid at least once a month (until we are together). So I guess he is not getting all my sexual energy, and I don't want to give on camera. Seems so shallow. But maybe he is right. Maybe it will be good to give him something. He's not getting anything anywhere else.

Thoughts ?

y u so stingy

 

[Mariposa]

Pagey, I'd have kicked that dude out too. Any guy who insults a woman is shitty. Any guy who insults a woman right after sexytime deserves a troutslapping. What a douche, I hope he at least gets a dry spell out of it.

Cohesion, about Skype... I personally wouldn't in this day and age. Have you considered maybe writing him a fantasy-type story about all of the things you two will do when you reunite? While I realize men are visual, I imagine he'd be very, very aroused. The 4 months will go by quickly.

Everyone: this thread is awesome. Good to see both familiar and new participants.

I'm working out of town a bit too much to think much about dating. I seem to be doing something right; I feel a LOT less stressed. There's a nice dude up north I met about a year ago. Recently he e-mailed me to say hi. I kind of blew him off for recycled ex. I don't think I should have. When I get back up north late next week, we are going to go on a nice happy hour date to catch up. I still have feelings for recycled ex though... glad to be away from all of it for a little while.

 

[Sepher]

Have you considered maybe writing him a fantasy-type story about all of the things you two will do when you reunite? While I realize men are visual, I imagine he'd be very, very aroused.

We did exactly that too. Long porno PMs basically, erotic stories involving the other person and what you'd like to do to them, or have them do to you. Men are visual creatures I guess, yes, and PMs like that can provide for lots of very good mental imagery, which can sometimes be hornier than the sight of the flesh. You can run with the fantasies conjured up anywhere can't you, limited only by the imagination. Very good thing to be on the receiving end of as a nice horny surprise, guaranteed to get the juices flowing, build the anticipation.

 

[kaywholed]

awwwww, kaywholed. You are such a romantic here. I hope you express it IRL.

i dunno how. basically hoping someone eventually says 'i love you' so i can say "me2"

Aw kaywholed that's adorable, keep us posted

txt 1: i got a surprise parcel from *place of work*
txt 2: zOMG a dragon. i didn't know you were a talented artist
txt 3: ur too kind. i love this.
txt 4: this is beautiful. im having chills. thank you so much kaywholed
i said i was glad she got it, and told her i didn't draw it, i came up with the idea and had a friend draw it for me
she said it was awesome and thanks
i said your welcome

 

[rangrz]

Mehr. I feel like a jackass. Me and Ms.G had like a stupid (but huge) fight over trivial shit. It's mostly my fault. The only 'fault' I'd give to her was for not reading my mood/mindset at the start, cause I had been up all night and was like tweaked out on amphetamine so I was not interpreting things right, and she had kind of responded initially with a mix of dominance (including hitting me hard, *but* I had given her previous consent to do that, so she was acting perfectly acceptable) and otherwise being a bit harsh and all. I should not of taken it the way I did, but I was just legit tripping. We worked it out and everything and no hard feelings, but I still feel like a d-bag who should go eat a bag of dicksbig black cocks.

On a more cheery note: With Ms.G's permission, I'm going to the Hooka bar tomorrow to meet this cute, bi, submissive girl with purple hair. She seems like a really cool person who will be fun to be friends with, and if something winds up happening where Ms.G has her tied up and gagged, well, that would be quite win.

 

[Pagey]

Yaaay kaywholed! So are you gonna see her again soon? :D

 

[Sepher]

i dunno how. basically hoping someone eventually says 'i love you' so i can say "me2"


txt 1: i got a surprise parcel from *place of work*
txt 2: zOMG a dragon. i didn't know you were a talented artist
txt 3: ur too kind. i love this.
txt 4: this is beautiful. im having chills. thank you so much kaywholed
i said i was glad she got it, and told her i didn't draw it, i came up with the idea and had a friend draw it for me
she said it was awesome and thanks
i said your welcome

That would sound like a result fella, seems it worked out as intended on the warm fuzzies front all round. Nice one.

With Ms.G's permission, I'm going to the Hooka bar tomorrow to meet this cute, bi, submissive girl with purple hair. She seems like a really cool person who will be fun to be friends with, and if something winds up happening where Ms.G has her tied up and gagged, well, that would be quite win.

It would seem positively rude not to allow your wife some latitude here wouldn't it, churlish to stand in her way. Being entirely selfless thinking only of Mrs G's pleasure in this scenario, of course.

 

[kaywholed]

Yaaay kaywholed! So are you gonna see her again soon? :D

meh, i dunno. I invited her to a lecture, but the timing wasn't good for her, and then we didn't talk for weeks, so im lost

i did this, cause I got her the book at christmas, and was tired of seeing it since we weren't talking.

dunno, gonna wait and see what happens.

 

[llama112]

meh, i dunno. I invited her to a lecture, but the timing wasn't good for her, and then we didn't talk for weeks, so im lost

i did this, cause I got her the book at christmas, and was tired of seeing it since we weren't talking.

dunno, gonna wait and see what happens.

Waiting hardly ever works ... just saying ... you have to go for it. The more you put it off ... the less likely anything is to happen.
She seems genuinely interested in you. She wouldn't say thanks multiple times if she wasn't at least kinda into you. If she wasn't into you at all, she'd just say thanks and that'd be all (if that).

 

[kaywholed]

Waiting hardly ever works ... just saying ... you have to go for it. The more you put it off ... the less likely anything is to happen.
She seems genuinely interested in you. She wouldn't say thanks multiple times if she wasn't at least kinda into you. If she wasn't into you at all, she'd just say thanks and that'd be all (if that).

well shit i can figure out how to move on from this step.

i do something nice.
you say thanks.
i ask you out or something???

dunno, were it me, I would say thanks, then lead the convo towards doing something together.

i think it seems like i did something nice, hit her feels, but she isn't really interested so isn't making any effort.....

 

[llama112]

well shit i can figure out how to move on from this step.

i do something nice.
you say thanks.
i ask you out or something???

dunno, were it me, I would say thanks, then lead the convo towards doing something together.

i think it seems like i did something nice, hit her feels, but she isn't really interested so isn't making any effort.....

Well if you're interested in her, then of course ask her out! Keep chatting with her and invite her to do something with you sometime! You seem rather shy and all, which is OK, but you need to initiate things to have them happen

 

[Beachcat]

Well,the whole shower head thingy is still a no go. I turned the thing on power shower and did my thing, and it felt good, but no where near that good.

But then I thought about the fact that I have a hard time making myself climax with a toy....if my partner uses one on me it is epic, but I would just so much rather use my hand, so I can't get into it.i think it is mental.

I am just sitting here trying not to be a grouchy wife. My husband went off to an oyster roast even though I did not really want him to go, because I wanted to hang out with him.

I am being ridicululous....he deserves time to go out, etc,etc. I didn't make a big deal out of it, I'm just pouting on the inside...and then laughing at myself for even pouting about it in the first place.

So, I took that shower and am laying here in my pink satin nightgown all clean and smelling good just waiting for him to get here...sigh.

 

[Serotonin101]

^stall him for about 14 hours and ill be there to take care of you

 

[modelskinny]

Well,the whole shower head thingy is still a no go. I turned the thing on power shower and did my thing, and it felt good, but no where near that good.

But then I thought about the fact that I have a hard time making myself climax with a toy....if my partner uses one on me it is epic, but I would just so much rather use my hand, so I can't get into it.i think it is mental.

I am just sitting here trying not to be a grouchy wife. My husband went off to an oyster roast even though I did not really want him to go, because I wanted to hang out with him.

I am being ridicululous....he deserves time to go out, etc,etc. I didn't make a big deal out of it, I'm just pouting on the inside...and then laughing at myself for even pouting about it in the first place.

So, I took that shower and am laying here in my pink satin nightgown all clean and smelling good just waiting for him to get here...sigh.

Sorry if this has already been posted, but buy a hitachi. Best thing I've ever bought and THE ONLY toy I will use.

 

[Serotonin101]

well its been 5 days of no orgasm, no masturbation, and no porn. trying this whole reboot thing.
might try masturbation tonight with only my own touch, no porn or pictures. just to see how my progress is.

 

[B1tO'RoughJack]

OK baited breath time then, lass - I'll show you how it's done in a few years bwahaha

Well,the whole shower head thingy is still a no go. I turned the thing on power shower and did my thing, and it felt good, but no where near that good.

But then I thought about the fact that I have a hard time making myself climax with a toy....if my partner uses one on me it is epic, but I would just so much rather use my hand, so I can't get into it.i think it is mental.

I am just sitting here trying not to be a grouchy wife. My husband went off to an oyster roast even though I did not really want him to go, because I wanted to hang out with him.

I am being ridicululous....he deserves time to go out, etc,etc. I didn't make a big deal out of it, I'm just pouting on the inside...and then laughing at myself for even pouting about it in the first place.

So, I took that shower and am laying here in my pink satin nightgown all clean and smelling good just waiting for him to get here...sigh.