If you where too drunk to notice youd taken "molly" (referring to MDMA?) then you didnt take MDMA, or you took a very very low dose, or more likely just some random chemical.
70mg MDMA and 30mg MDA is quite an average dose, depends on what kind of experience your looking for, 100mg MDMA and 50mg MDA would probably be a nice starter dose, then you can always redose if your not feeling it.
100mg MDMA and 100mg MDA if you want a full blown experience, would only take if your experienced with the chemicals though but cant really tell by your post.... but yeah ^ thats going to be intense.
MDA gives a worse comedown I feel though, but is more intense and trippy than MDMA, but a combination of the 2 is good.