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Do men who like huge tits have mother issues?

In answer to the OP: not necessarily. I know a guy who fetishizes "big MILF tits" because he lacked an appropriate, meaningful relationship with his mother. The 'tits' are peripheral. I hate the word 'tits'.

I would like to give a man more credit than to judge a woman by the size of her breasts. I think men appreciate a nice rack on a pretty lady. whether she has A cups or D cups. It's all in the way that the woman dresses and conducts herself IMO.
 
B1tO'RoughJack said:
that soundz very much like a PERSONAL ATTACK to me...defamation of chaRacter against someone wbo, fair enough, didnt even bother to search for any studies to back up their theory...i expect more from zomeone of your intelligence bro...obviously notgetting enough foot action.

i take exception to 3 mods passing over it too...sort it out guys, you have warned me for much less.
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Did you miss this old chap? www.bluelight.ru/vb/threads/659362-...her-issues?p=11189904&viewfull=1#post11189904
 
Mariposa said:
I would like to give a man more credit than to judge a woman by the size of her breasts. I think men appreciate a nice rack on a pretty lady. whether she has A cups or D cups. It's all in the way that the woman dresses and conducts herself IMO.
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The majority of straight men will take a longer look at a woman who has big, bouncy breasts.
 
lol yeah but I dunno where the "mother issues" thing comes from. We know men like boobs. Even gay dudes have enjoyed looking at my boobs, but I don't get the "mother issues" thing.
 
Mariposa said:
In answer to the OP: not necessarily. I know a guy who fetishizes "big MILF tits" because he lacked an appropriate, meaningful relationship with his mother. The 'tits' are peripheral. I hate the word 'tits'.

I would like to give a man more credit than to judge a woman by the size of her breasts. I think men appreciate a nice rack on a pretty lady. whether she has A cups or D cups. It's all in the way that the woman dresses and conducts herself IMO.
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idk how you can out the words "A cup" and "pretty rack" in the same sentence. A cups are not pretty nor is it considered a rack much less a pair of boobs. theres not even anything to really grab.

to contribute to the thread, no i dont think they have mom issues its just that most people dont like a girl with no tits. being tied down in a relationship and never being able to grab a boob cuz theres nothing there would suck. if she has no ass on top of that its a lose lose situation and would be like dating one of your bro friends. her personality better offset her body alot.

on that note this thread is pointless and stupid IMO

edit: i know looks arent supposed to be everything in a relationship and personality should be a factor to but if you got a girl with no ass or tits wheres the benefit in the sexual part of the relationship.
 
B1tO'RoughJack said:
that soundz very much like a PERSONAL ATTACK to me...defamation of chaRacter against someone wbo, fair enough, didnt even bother to search for any studies to back up their theory...i expect more from zomeone of your intelligence bro...obviously notgetting enough foot action.

i take exception to 3 mods passing over it too...sort it out guys, you have warned me for much less.
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i thought it was a reference to freud. this whole thread began with a freudian theme and then there was a freudian reference with the whole cocaine thing.

plus there were mutliple references to a lack of science which is one of the main things that modern psychology has beef with regarding freudian theory

^ also i went to school with a guy who liked girls with small boobs because he wanted to fit the whole boob in his mouth. he had a big mouth. so everyone likes different things. there are men who are crazy for big boobs and i think its just in their programming like men who adore giant asses
 
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^ahhhh I read it again.

Yes, Freud does jump out actually.

He had some good points but fuck it, he was much too interested in sex as a motivator for everything. However, he had many good points on it - it IS a motivator for a lot, sex, power and survival - 3 base chakras - compassion, love etc - Jung dealt with all of this.

STANDARD!
Illyria99 said:
The majority of straight men will take a longer look at a woman who has big, bouncy breasts.
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Rangrz - well done re: http://www.bluelight.ru/vb/threads/...her-issues?p=11189904&viewfull=1#post11189904 what what :p Now that I have realized you are making a reference to Freud, instead of personally attacking Illyria I actually find your original post to be apt, not harsh or something to be apologetic for.

Mother issues - a possible thing, oedipus complex, or Jung's mother complex (from his book the 4 Archetypes) - it does happen, but these guys spent a LOT of time thinking and analyzing to the point where I think they over analyzed this - it is natural to be attracted to someone who is like your mother IF that object of subsequent affection is only similar to one's mother in positive characteristics...After all, if you WEREN't attracted to these things, then that would A) mean you had more problems with your mother, and therefore yourself...

Therefore unless you are habitually drawn to someone who is totally like your mother, even the negatives, then there really isn't anything to be worried about.

This is unless you are utterly homosexual, but hold onto your mother as an unattainable sexual/love object, which impacts on all your heterosexual relationships - this is fairly rare though, as most homosexual people, from the research I have done into sexualities, know they are homosexual from an early age. MOST. Not all of course, due to developmental variations in awareness, and suppression/repression.

RE: the tits thing - I like a handful, optimally a touch more maybe, B cup MINIMUM, but big tits, meh - I am not bothered - too big and they lose their shape more rapidly.

I like a nice round ass myself, that is of course because I am a bit gay...lolz yeah right. ;)
 
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To the fellow who says A cups and pretty can't be in the same sentence: STFU. I LOVE A cups. I have a strong preference for them. I'm engaged to a very cute girl who has them. Your individual view, while as valid as anyones, is of course not defining all men's views.


Yes, the cocaine and neurologist comment was re:Freud.
 
Big boobs just feel better. They are more fun to taste and play with.
 
I never met a boob I didn't like. Big ones, small ones, pink ones, dark ones, firm and high, soft and low, milky white or nicely tanned, natural or fakes. They're all good. (at least the ones I've encountered)

Had nothing to do with mom.
 
rangrz said:
I LOVE A cups. I have a strong preference for them. I'm engaged to a very cute girl who has them.
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Small breasts are sexy. And not only because I have them.

Perky little A or B cups are adorable.
 
They are. I like how well formed they are compared to big ones, they have negligible distortion in their shape due to accelerations (be it gravitational or be it a non inertial frame resulting from sexing) compared to the larger ones.
 
Illyria99 said:
Small breasts are sexy. And not only because I have them.

Perky little A or B cups are adorable.
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But then again I think women are a bit biased on the subject.
I personally find big breasts more attractive and I'm sure it's because I've got them. Just like I find blondes more attractive, or curvy women. & a few brunette friends I've talked to about this find brunettes more attractive.
 
Tits aren't inherently sexual, western culture brainwashes people to think they are

Some study was done and only something like 23 countries in the world had the average person consider tits even remotely sexual. Sorry no source, was some netflix documentary

As for me, small ain't great, big isn't always great either. Shape/personality of tits is 80% of the battle
 
maybe i should rephrase myself a little. i dont speak for all men when i say that just most dudes ive met and i dont mind small tits but there has to be at least a handful to grab, i cant do shit below a B cup, unless her ass makes up for it then its cool i guess

there was a girl i used to work with and she had 0 boobage but she had a nice ass and pretty eyes tho so i liked her.
 
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