Hi bl
First some background information maybe. I'm in highschool and my girlfriend's in college in a different city. She sleeps there in some sort of dorm/appartment from monday to friday. Her best friend (girl) sleeps in the room across her. We've been together for almost 8 months.
So, thursday we went to a birthday party of her nephew's and we were waiting for the train to go to her city to go to a party and to then sleep in her bed at her dorm. She was telling some story about her going out tuesday. She said tuesday was the first time ever that she didn't know a part of the night (for like half an hour, while she was at the party) because she was drunk. She then told me that she let some guy sleep at her place. I said 'haha, he slept on the floor right'. 'Uhh no, he slept in my bed...'
I was then pissed off and didn't say anything for like 20 minutes and she was like 'talk to me honey' blabla. Apparantly she had talked a lot to him that night and he had no place to stay so she offered him to sleep at her place. Luckily she has a bed for 2 persons so there's plenty of room for them not to 'touch' eachother. She said she slept with all her clothes on though. I asked her why she didn't let him sleep in her friend's bed across the hall but she said she only has a 1-person bed.
I was pissed off because
1) they slept in the same bed.
2) they were drunk (atleast she was...)
3) that guy's brother was hitting on her before. She knows I don't like his brother because there was this time that he was always looking for trouble with some of my friends. And ofcourse trying to get with my girlfriend
4) she didn't know him before that night. I mean come on, he's a fucking stranger. He could've raped her or something..
5) hes italitan and you know how some italians can be (no offense lol)
After talking to her about it for a bit I just decided to let it go and we haven't mentioned it since.
I told some friends about it now and they told me they'd be waay more pissed off than I am so i'm starting to think about it again and thinking that there might be the possibility that she cheated on me. I don't think she cheated on me though cause I know she's super in love with me, but still.. I guess I should trust her but IDK.
Opinions? idk BL
First some background information maybe. I'm in highschool and my girlfriend's in college in a different city. She sleeps there in some sort of dorm/appartment from monday to friday. Her best friend (girl) sleeps in the room across her. We've been together for almost 8 months.
So, thursday we went to a birthday party of her nephew's and we were waiting for the train to go to her city to go to a party and to then sleep in her bed at her dorm. She was telling some story about her going out tuesday. She said tuesday was the first time ever that she didn't know a part of the night (for like half an hour, while she was at the party) because she was drunk. She then told me that she let some guy sleep at her place. I said 'haha, he slept on the floor right'. 'Uhh no, he slept in my bed...'
I was then pissed off and didn't say anything for like 20 minutes and she was like 'talk to me honey' blabla. Apparantly she had talked a lot to him that night and he had no place to stay so she offered him to sleep at her place. Luckily she has a bed for 2 persons so there's plenty of room for them not to 'touch' eachother. She said she slept with all her clothes on though. I asked her why she didn't let him sleep in her friend's bed across the hall but she said she only has a 1-person bed.
I was pissed off because
1) they slept in the same bed.
2) they were drunk (atleast she was...)
3) that guy's brother was hitting on her before. She knows I don't like his brother because there was this time that he was always looking for trouble with some of my friends. And ofcourse trying to get with my girlfriend
4) she didn't know him before that night. I mean come on, he's a fucking stranger. He could've raped her or something..
5) hes italitan and you know how some italians can be (no offense lol)
After talking to her about it for a bit I just decided to let it go and we haven't mentioned it since.
I told some friends about it now and they told me they'd be waay more pissed off than I am so i'm starting to think about it again and thinking that there might be the possibility that she cheated on me. I don't think she cheated on me though cause I know she's super in love with me, but still.. I guess I should trust her but IDK.
Opinions? idk BL

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