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dog or girlfirend?

you should not put a dog down for biting once. you should however, make sure it is is constrained to your own yard and your own person. ie he should have at least baby gated off a part of his house for his girlfriend or whomever it was. not only if he cared about his girlfriend, but also for his dog. if it happens again, someone CAN sue and the dog CAN be put down.
 
StrutterGear said:
If a dog bites somebody it needs to be put down no fucking about. Had to go through with this already with a dog of my own, it's the only option. Blame your girlfriend all you want, break up with her if you want, but when the dog "is out of character" again and bites a small child then it'll be put down forcibly.
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so if i child is climbing all over a dog and aggravating it, then its the dogs fault??? sorry been through this before so i dont agree with you.
 
Even the nicest dog will bite if it feels threatened, or is hurt. I work in a dog daycare, and some of the dogs there do bite. Dogs are like people and have different personalities and moods from day to day, and one can't just invade any dog's space without knowing how the dog will react.

Since you said you are paying for the medical bills for this bite, it seems like you are taking responsibility for what happened, to a certain extent. I do think that your girlfriend may have been provoking the dog in some way, whether intentionally or not. Also, why was her face so close to the dog's that he was able to bite her directly on the nose?? Sounds suspicious to me. One of the big rules at my work is don't put your face in a dog's face. That is just asking to be bitten, especially if the dog is already excited/agitated, etc.

Also, assuming that you have had the dog longer than the girlfriend, I personally would have a hard time justifying getting rid of the dog, unless you were will to sacrifice such a thing for her, which it doesn't seem you are. It is not cruel to keep a dog in a crate at night, or when out of the home, but it would be when you are around it because dogs are social creatures and like to hang out with their packs.

Ugh....sounds like a real shitty situation. I would DTMFA.
 
Plain and simple, I think the dog knew exactly what you are figuring out right now. I would bite a total douche of a woman too, if I were a dog.

My dog passed away recently, but if he randomly bit a girl, even if it was his fault, the girl would have to go! That's my homeboy right there. He would die for me. :)
 
you should not put a dog down for biting someone, especially when you don't know the cause.

i do however think you should take certain precautions (not a muzzle or kennel) now.

one day i looked through my kitchen window to see a neighbors dog with the most beloved animal i have ever had in my life in between its teeth. apparently it was not a 'violent' dog. i had to throw a sprinkler head at this poor dog's head, and pry my cat from his fucking face. do you know how dirty cat bites are for your skin? i had to go to the ER, that is no bandaid situation. my cat was in a cast for a long time, we signed her cast and called it her pirate kitty. i would have killed that dog to get him off of her.

all i am saying is the OP needs to weigh both situations seriously instead of dumping all the weight on this girl.

that dog may have been provoked for some random, once in forever situation, and it may have not.

i am not voting girlfriend vs dog here, i am just saying use clear judgment and stop blaming the girl his dog bit. she could have his dog put down, and i wonder if she even knows that.
 
Dude dog bite or not, get out of the relationship. It's not doing either of you any favors. She has a lot of growing up to do by the sound of it.
 
^ And so does the OP. It's so childish and short sighted of you, silverman, to not realise you're just using this as another justification of why you don't like your girlfriend. Man up, and make the decision to get rid of her, without hiding behind the dog excuse. This whole thread sounds like a silly justification for you to break up with her, because you're too weak to do it otherwise.
 
I had to put my friends boxer dog down, his life long companion, a few years ago as he had a new son and the dog which had always been fine started going for him. He was heart broken but he knew it was the right decision....
 
footscrazy said:
^ And so does the OP. It's so childish and short sighted of you, silverman, to not realise you're just using this as another justification of why you don't like your girlfriend. Man up, and make the decision to get rid of her, without hiding behind the dog excuse. This whole thread sounds like a silly justification for you to break up with her, because you're too weak to do it otherwise.
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We all find breaking point in different ways. The op may have just reached the end of his rope with this all boiling over around exams. Either way it sounds like the relationship isn't healthy. He knows what to do.
 
Completely understandable about reaching his boiling point - but I still stand by my point, that he should focus on the real issue - he doesn't want to be with his girlfriend anymore, and that would be true regardless of whether the dog bit her or not. I feel like the whole thread on this issue is him trying to blame something external for the breakup, a reason for him to give her - in other words, an excuse for him to hide behind, so he doesn't have to tell her the real reasons for it, and face her possibly uncomfortable reaction. It's a side step, an avoidance of facing the full ramifications for what, deep down, he knew he had to do anyway.
 
llama112 said:
If I had a dog and it bit someone, I would get rid of the dog. Hands down. The dog should know better. You should have trained the dog so that the dog knows not to bite people..
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BS. The dog should know better? Seriously?

And the OP clearly stated that this was completely out of character of the dog. For example, I don't teach my dog to not bite people because he never ever does. But I imagine he would if he got in a pickle. Dog-blaming is seriously out of the question.

Silverman: Keep the dog, ditch the girlfriend. It is so clear to me right now.
 
one day i looked through my kitchen window to see a neighbors dog with the most beloved animal i have ever had in my life in between its teeth. apparently it was not a 'violent' dog. i had to throw a sprinkler head at this poor dog's head, and pry my cat from his fucking face. do you know how dirty cat bites are for your skin? i had to go to the ER, that is no bandaid situation. my cat was in a cast for a long time, we signed her cast and called it her pirate kitty. i would have killed that dog to get him off of her.
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Wow, I'm sorry about that. :( I am pretty sure I would cut a fucker if anyone hurt my dog. I'm an overbearing momma. :) I'm glad your kitty was ok though.
 
I bet the dog was just terrified of being at someone else's house and thought she was a bad person or something.
Looks like your relationship is bad anyway though, you need to find another girl. Maybe you should do something with your dog too.
 
Your gf is a bitch. Anybody else who advocates "getting rid" of the dog is a real fucking asshole (llama112). We should send llama112 to the pound for repeatedly giving bad advice to BL'ers on SLR. How would you like it?

Sometimes dogs get annoyed and they bite. Just fuckng deal with it. My dog bit the shit out of me once when I was asleep and rolled over on her. It didn't mean my dog was bad. Fuck all of you animal hatin' assholes.
 
If the dog was a pitbull, shit-bull, bullshit terrier, etc...I would be the first to say "get rid of the dog ASAP".

But a 30-pound Corgi??? A 30-pound Corgi is no serious threat even to children. How can she hate a dog like that??

Sorry dude, your girlfriend is a bitch.
 
Dre1990 said:
If the dog was a pitbull, shit-bull, bullshit terrier, etc...I would be the first to say "get rid of the dog ASAP".

But a 30-pound Corgi??? A 30-pound Corgi is no serious threat even to children. How can she hate a dog like that??

Sorry dude, your girlfriend is a bitch.
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I'm probably a wussy female, but holy shit those little shitheads can hurt when they mean it! LOL
 
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