My penis hurts my GF . Disclaimer: May contain TMI

[masumune]

So yea, my dick hurts when I put it in my girlfriend's Vayjayjay. We have been together 3 and 1/2 years and usually just get one another off orally. Since it is easier and works better for the most part. But sometimes you really just want a good old school fuck ya know?
She is always willing to try and even when she is in pain she'll keep going to please me but knowing I am hurting her just takes me right out of the mood, because I am not into harming the one I love. The times it hasn't caused her pain have been amazing, she has gotten off each and every time.
I should mention that I have an average size cock 6.5 inches, so I don't think that it is that I am simply too big. She was not a virgin before we met and has had many sexual encounters and while it would hurt with some of them it seems to hurt more with me.
To be honest I am happy just getting blown off but for her sake I want our sex life to get more interesting.
I am wondering if anyone here has had the same problem and has resolved it and give me some good advice. Also, we do not use condoms if that has any relevance to the issue.

 

[pokepoke420]

When you say pain, you mean that it stretches her so much that it hurts. A burning/stinging kind of pain, bladder infections/irritation? Be more specific. A lack of condom I don't believe would make any difference (except that its way better) lol

 

[tokenname]

has she been to the doctor??
there's several different medical conditions that could be causing her pain.

 

[Disraeli_Beers]

Do you have a chode-like penis shape?

(chode: http://m.urbandictionary.com/#define?term=Chode)

Because unless your girl has been solely attracted to guys packin .22's in the past 6.5in shouldn't be a problem. Unless the problem is girth and she is indeed very tight.

Has she tried dildos? Start small and increasing the length/girth slowly?

"the only way to loosen the hole is to use a bigger stick" -Theodore Roosevelt

 

[Termino]

I'm surprised that no one has mentioned lubrication. Do you engage in enough foreplay to get her really wet first? Or is she a girl who just doesn't naturally secrete enough? Perhaps try a good quality sex lube & see if that helps.

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

I'm surprised that no one has mentioned lubrication. Do you engage in enough foreplay to get her really wet first? Or is she a girl who just doesn't naturally secrete enough? Perhaps try a good quality sex lube & see if that helps.

Yeah do lots of foreplay first and make sure she's turned on a lot before you do vaginal sex with her.

 

[Lysis]

What kind of pain are we talking about here? Cramping style pain or it hurts as in virgin, stretching pain? She really should see a doctor.

 

[escapingwonderland]

I am a sick one I guess....I like to get fucked so hard it hurts. Although I know rough sex leads to UTI's... Maybe it is the position that you are using. I know if we are doggie style he is able to hurt me. If I am on top, I can control how deep and if I don't want too much I don't take it all in. Lube is absolutely important too, maybe she isn't wet enough? Or dries up too quick? Maybe from being worried about the pain? Buy some lube to use and see if that works too.

 

[Josair]

lube is a good idea, doctor a better one.
In my experience, lack of lubrification makes also the penis holder disconfortable (but I don't know if it is true for everybody). Anyway, if lube is not working she should definitively see a doctor...

 

[masumune]

I'm surprised that no one has mentioned lubrication. Do you engage in enough foreplay to get her really wet first? Or is she a girl who just doesn't naturally secrete enough? Perhaps try a good quality sex lube & see if that helps.

What kind of pain are we talking about here? Cramping style pain or it hurts as in virgin, stretching pain? She really should see a doctor.

I am a sick one I guess....I like to get fucked so hard it hurts. Although I know rough sex leads to UTI's... Maybe it is the position that you are using. I know if we are doggie style he is able to hurt me. If I am on top, I can control how deep and if I don't want too much I don't take it all in. Lube is absolutely important too, maybe she isn't wet enough? Or dries up too quick? Maybe from being worried about the pain? Buy some lube to use and see if that works too.

First off you are not sick, every chick says that The thing is that she actualley gets naturally VERY wet, almost dripping wet. She likes to get fucked so hard ,like she fucks me so hard I feel like she is going to break my dick off when she is on top. I asked her to describe it but she really can't find the words she said it isn't throbbing or sharp but kind of a stretching pain. The pain is mostly in the vaginal walls.
She is seeing her pussy doctor soon though she made the apointment today.
She is indeed quite tight but like I said she gets so wet on her own and yes I make sure she is actually horny before I start pounding away infact it is usualley her who initiates sex, so we are at a loss. Also I am quite certain she has been with larger men and didn't seem to have such problems, I should note that when we first met we were able to fuck on a steady basis. This has been an issue only for the last 6 monthes or so. Hopefully the Ole Doc can conjure up a remedy *crosses fingers*
Any how thx all for your help :D

 

[PlurPsyed]

send her to a gyno?

 

[Lysis]

First off you are not sick, every chick says that The thing is that she actualley gets naturally VERY wet, almost dripping wet. She likes to get fucked so hard ,like she fucks me so hard I feel like she is going to break my dick off when she is on top. I asked her to describe it but she really can't find the words she said it isn't throbbing or sharp but kind of a stretching pain. The pain is mostly in the vaginal walls.
She is seeing her pussy doctor soon though she made the apointment today.
She is indeed quite tight but like I said she gets so wet on her own and yes I make sure she is actually horny before I start pounding away infact it is usualley her who initiates sex, so we are at a loss. Also I am quite certain she has been with larger men and didn't seem to have such problems, I should note that when we first met we were able to fuck on a steady basis. This has been an issue only for the last 6 monthes or so. Hopefully the Ole Doc can conjure up a remedy *crosses fingers*
Any how thx all for your help :D

I'm wondering if you are hitting the cervix? I've been with large men, and there is this pleasurable pain when it happens. It's when the guy goes deep. It can feel like pain like a cramping pain, but it feels good. Hard to explain to a guy.

Still though, please ask her to see a doc. There is nothing to be afraid of or ashamed of. My first gyno experience was with a girl, and I think it helps to go to a girl doc to help you feel less weird.

It would be nice if you went with her and waited in the lobby. Gyno experiences are ...hmm awkward and not fun. They don't hurt, but no girl wants a strange dude sticking things in her. You walk out feeling weird...a necessary weird, but it's still awesome if you went with her so she has someone out there waiting for her. It would be a really nice gesture.

 

[masumune]

I'm wondering if you are hitting the cervix? I've been with large men, and there is this pleasurable pain when it happens. It's when the guy goes deep. It can feel like pain like a cramping pain, but it feels good. Hard to explain to a guy.

Still though, please ask her to see a doc. There is nothing to be afraid of or ashamed of. My first gyno experience was with a girl, and I think it helps to go to a girl doc to help you feel less weird.

It would be nice if you went with her and waited in the lobby. Gyno experiences are ...hmm awkward and not fun. They don't hurt, but no girl wants a strange dude sticking things in her. You walk out feeling weird...a necessary weird, but it's still awesome if you went with her so she has someone out there waiting for her. It would be a really nice gesture.

Thank for your advice and helpful input I think I will acompany her to her apointment. We both actually have had the cervix theory thouh it would seem it is painful for her unlike yourself. At least not a good pain.