Renz Envy
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To give a back story, this girl had previously been in a 3 year long relationship with a guy.
She came out of it and immediately began dating a new, more attractive guy as rebound, but they broke up.
We met in high school, but didn't start hanging out until recently (I'm 21 now). Her main motive of us hanging out was sex, but she was afraid I wouldn't like her. We did have sex. We started getting to know one another and we have a lot in common. Same music tastes, shows, movies, anime. She's intelligent. I was the 4th guy she slept with.
After 2 months of hanging out, having wild sex and being best friends, she still does not want a relationship. She explains that it isn't because she wants to see other guys, but she doesn't want to fall back into the same routine she was in with her previous ex. She wants to be single for once. That and she does not want to see me as rebound.
I'm in pain over this. I love her and want to be with her. I've said no to several, much more attractive girls since dating her. I'm willing to wait, but I'm afraid she will eventually move on.
She came out of it and immediately began dating a new, more attractive guy as rebound, but they broke up.
We met in high school, but didn't start hanging out until recently (I'm 21 now). Her main motive of us hanging out was sex, but she was afraid I wouldn't like her. We did have sex. We started getting to know one another and we have a lot in common. Same music tastes, shows, movies, anime. She's intelligent. I was the 4th guy she slept with.
After 2 months of hanging out, having wild sex and being best friends, she still does not want a relationship. She explains that it isn't because she wants to see other guys, but she doesn't want to fall back into the same routine she was in with her previous ex. She wants to be single for once. That and she does not want to see me as rebound.
I'm in pain over this. I love her and want to be with her. I've said no to several, much more attractive girls since dating her. I'm willing to wait, but I'm afraid she will eventually move on.