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Maniaz

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how do i last longer in bed??? i lost my virginity in march and iv been having sex regularly ( several times a week ) for about 3 months with my gf. I can only seem to last 5-10 mins. I used to masturbate 3-5 times a week for nearly 5 years and at the start when i started masturbating it used to take me 20mins to cum when i was 14 and i worked that down to 5 mins now ( im nearly 19 now ) what are some tips??? when im really drunk or on E or Acid i can go from 20-60mins but i cant always do that for sex. Ideally i would like to last 20mins
 
second time around you should last longer so just jerk it a shirt while before sex.

alcohol can help last longer but not too much though
 
Maybe don't think that the purpose of sex is to come.
Have sex for a while, and when you get close to coming, take a break from thrusting. Pull out, if you want to.
Continue to pleasure her, though. You could eat her out, or lick her nipples...
At least continue kissing her.
Once you recover a bit, you can go back to thrusting etc.
Repeat for an hour or so. When you get close to coming, stop. When you get farther from coming, start again.
At the end, you don't even have to come (though you may want to in the beginning, when you are not used to it).

Or, alternatively, you could just think of England.;)
 
5-10 minutes is about right, going full steam. Welcome to the real world of sex! Lot's more sensations than with masturbation so obviously you won't last as long. You can manage the sensations a bit by not just pumping continously but grinding against her instead.. you won't get too much from it but she will. Slow down as others suggest, or pull out before you reach the tipping point. Thinking of England is also a great strategy, London in particular.

Alternatively you could look into tantra and that stuff, but i've not heard any success stories with that from real people :/
 
When you jerk off, make it last. You've probably trained yourself to nut as fast as possible. You gotta break that.
Practice getting close to nutting, stop, wait, continue.

Opiates will make you last a lot longer.

Think of something random while making love, then start spelling in your head whatever youre thinking of.
State capitals, etc. Wisconsin, Madison....w.i.s.c.o.n.s.i.n. m.a.d.i.s.o.n....etc

Be on top, go all the way in, and instead of thrusting, just move your hips. Ladies love it and it provides minimal over-sensation for men.

My only issue is when my hot mama is riding me. I cant control what she does, so it makes it tougher to let her cum before me.
Thats when randon spelling helped me in the past.


And yeah, if you need to stop and pull out for a minute, finger or lick her so you keep her going

Enjoy....and good luck to ya
 
I've got the opposite of this problem. My first time it took my two hours of being on top, bottom, behind.. my shortest time was twenty minutes and that's because we had a heart to heart talk, very serious stuff. Then we went at it. I would rate myself as a smaller than average guy, so that may be why I'm able to last longer (average is about an hour, maybe hour and a half), maybe it's because I was heavily medicated through out my life, 6 yrs old to 18 yrs old. Most of the time when I've had sex I've had to finish myself off. Not sure if this helped, probably not..
 
Edvard Munch said:
You all give awful advice. At least this advice mildly helps, if not procrastinate the problem.

Ask your doctor for a low dose SSRI, or buy Benzocaine aided condoms which reduces the sensitivity towards the penis.
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Haha you're joking right? Benzocaine aided condoms? You're out of your mind mate.
 
Edvard Munch said:
You all give awful advice. At least this advice mildly helps, if not procrastinate the problem.
Click to expand...
I have no idea what you are trying to say here. But I see that you are still mad at me from our conflict in another thread!

Edvard Munch said:
Ask your doctor for a low dose SSRI, or buy Benzocaine aided condoms which reduces the sensitivity towards the penis.
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That's a great idea. :|
Instead of building up the ability to last longer naturally, take an SSRI - an antidepressant that comes with suicide warnings on the box, known to frequently cause sexual dysfunction, and also known to cause these symptoms:

anhedonia
apathy
nausea/vomiting
drowsiness or somnolence
headache (very common as a short-term side effect)
bruxism
tinnitus
extremely vivid or strange dreams
dizziness
fatigue
mydriasis (pupil dilation)
urinary retention
changes in appetite
insomnia and/or changes in sleep
excessive diarrhea
weight loss/gain (measured by a change in bodyweight of 7 pounds)
increased risk of bone fractures and injuries
changes in sexual behaviour (see the next section)
increased feelings of depression and anxiety (which may sometimes provoke panic attacks)
mania and psychotic disorders
tremors (and other symptoms of Parkinsonism in vulnerable elderly patients)[16]
autonomic dysfunction including orthostatic hypotension, increased or reduced sweating
akathisia
renal impairment
suicidal ideation (thoughts of suicide)
photosensitivity[17]
Paresthesia
dissociative disorders, cognitive disorders and loss of contact with reality
Syndrome of inappropriate antidiuretic hormone hypersecretion
 
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Maniaz, try pulling out when your right there and squeezing your shaft for 10-15 seconds while fingering her at the same time. It will cut the feeling off to your nerves dramatically which will give you the feeling of just having a hard on and not like your about to bust one. Works for me dude, hope it helped.
 
ya, careful what you think about. If I think about continuous non linear partial differential equations, I bust in my boxers. On the other hand, If I think about poetry and paintings, all the viagra in the world won't keep me hard.
 
Why would you want to last longer? You're young just go twice, or maybe thrice if you're lucky.
Respect for efficiency *thumbs up*
 
Even in my teens I had a tough time getting horny again after getting off. Maybe like an hour later I could be good, but definitely not right away.
I know it's an awful thing to suggest, but if you take like 15mg hydrocodone or 10mg oxycodone or something along those lines (to your comfortable tolerance) a few hours before you do it, you'll be king shit Ron Jeremy in no time. (your results may vary).
I used to have a prejack issue (or so I thought I did at least), then my current girl introduced me to opiates over 7 years ago. (i only use sparingly).
Like the 2nd or 3rd time we had sex I was going at her, and mind you, I found(find, still do) her incredibly sexy, especially naked, so I figured I'd make an ass out of myself and nut in a few minutes and need to make up some BS excuse as to why.
Low and behold I was hitting it like a champ with no threat of prejacking. I, at the time, had no idea what the deal was, since usually I wouldve busted even at the sight of her naked. It wasnt until later experimentation that I noticed the opiates made it a lot tougher to nut.
So, forgetting all the bad things that surround opiates and their abuse, they're good sexual tools to get you on (or off, lol) your feet until you gain the skills and confidence.


EDIT of course, that is a slippery slope using opiates in any fashion, but I did also notice that after a weekend binge, I am incredibly sensitive down there again (after a day or two of not using)
So it's a double edged sword.

but try it if you find yourself with some pills. Even jerking off if you have to, you may notice it's a lot easier to last longer
 
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