Pr0n. (real questions!!!)

[Jabberwocky]

I very recently began dancing with a friend of mine (as in, dancing in a jockstrap, doing lapdances, etc etc ;PP ).

The idea of shooting a video came up last weekend. He's done this before and said he got $1k for a guy-on-guy flick. The proposed flick would be MMF (does the order of the M's and F's matter when I write that?) It would be more of a 'bi' porn than a '2 on 1' porn. I've met the girl and she's absolutely 'my type' for this kinda fun, and i already know my buddy gets me to make exceptions to my "hetero"ness (okay, i like making said exceptions ) for him, so with the idea of $ on the table I'm thinking this is a great idea!!

My concerns are that, several months ago, I had never touched/been touched by a guy. I had never danced. I had never shot any (publicly circulated) porn. I've been having a blast with my new friend, and a blast dancing. I just worry that maybe it's all too new and I'm jumping in too quickly....

any thoughts/concerns would be greatly appreciated!!

((OH- I should mention that the dancing/porn is NOT to feed a habit or any "pressured" situation like that. My needs are comfortably met before dancing and I've been "weekend warrior", if I'm lucky even to get there, wrt drugs for quite a while, like way longer than this whole situation. For example, last weekend's dancing $ was given, 90% anyways, to my mother lol. Even if I had to dance for free, i have such a blast going with him and doing this that i'd still go)

 

[Pagey]

If you're comfortable having sex with a guy, I say why not. So long as, you know, you don't mind that there will be a movie of you having sex on internet, and you could be recognized, and stuff.

 

[Jabberwocky]

I wonder at the 'being recognized' thing. that's definitely a huge aspect, given that he's the ONLY person (except that female friend of his I had mentioned) that knows I've messed with a guy. I gotta say that i'd be playing the odds with the whole "there's sooo much porn out there, who would ever notice it??"

 

[i against i]

in my head, i could be gay-for-pay. i've got with a guy before, i'm not freaked or weirded out by it, it just doesn't turn me on that much when it's actually happening.

i don't think you need to worry about jumping in too quickly. more the impact this could potentially have on future relationships/jobs, in theory it shouldn't affect them, but in realpolitik it probably will.

 

[1394]

1k? Fuck, that sounds like a rip-off.

I think you're beeing a bit too hasty, and I wouldn't shoot porn if I was scared of being recognized.

 

[RedLeader]

The best pornography is that in which the actors/actresses genuinely seem to be enjoying themselves (as opposed to just faking it for the money). It sounds to me like you're enjoying yourself thus far with your experimenting, so I have faith that you'll make an entertaining video if you go through with it.

If you get recognised, then one of two things will likely happen: 1) The person will think oh my god, dream come true...best masturbation session ever!!! or 2) The person will think damn, I recognise him and this is kinda awkward...but I'm really sexed up right now so I'll just switch videos and finish what I started.

Here's how I'd probably do it. I'd make a video, either just with the other guy or with the guy and the girl, and then show it to some random person to kinda get feel for how you'd react to this stuff being out there for people to watch. Or have sex in front of other people.

 

[llama112]

The best pornography is that in which the actors/actresses genuinely seem to be enjoying themselves (as opposed to just faking it for the money). It sounds to me like you're enjoying yourself thus far with your experimenting, so I have faith that you'll make an entertaining video if you go through with it.

If you get recognised, then one of two things will likely happen: 1) The person will think oh my god, dream come true...best masturbation session ever!!! or 2) The person will think damn, I recognise him and this is kinda awkward...but I'm really sexed up right now so I'll just switch videos and finish what I started.

Good post

Anyway, I'd say think it out for a while. Give it a bit of time. But hey, you can always make the video now and not publish it. It could just be between the two or three of you for now, until you are all comfortable with it being more.

And do a bit of research. How much could you REALLY make from this? Make sure you don't get ripped off ... because there are lots of people that will be more than willing to do that lol. But do a lot of research.