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I don't really like this girl but we're dating...

Nahhh don't be there for her to "support her," that's full on boyfriend shit, which you are clearly not trying to be. Who hasn't known a suicidal friend? She needs her REAL friends in times like this. She doesnt need some ballless little boy to try and help her process one of the most difficult things she's probably ever faced at this point in her life. I think the more distant you try to be the better before you actually bite the bullet.
 
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@ CoffeeDrinker You don't need to insult me, people picking on me my entire life up until recently is why I struggle to be strong. I'm not a little boy. If you knew what I've been through, you'd be more respectful. I have been around a lot of mentally ill people and being around them can sometimes be like walking on thin ice. As far as a friend, it wasn't clear that she had spent much if any time with this person in at least a year.

@NeuroDaemon, you seem to speak quite well! I appreciate your advice.

and I'm essentially done with this thread, seems like the responses are universal.
 
Yeah I was hoping my edgier comment didn't make it through because I try not to say overly douchy things at the end of the day, but whatever, I wasn't trying to be mean. All I'm saying is her real friends ought to help her though this, not people she gives blowjobs to that secretly hate her.
 
Dude just dump her with a text message, it's a lot easier if you don't care for the person.
She sounds like a hot bag of mess and trouble, just get away.
 
LogicSoDeveloped said:
@ CoffeeDrinker You don't need to insult me, people picking on me my entire life up until recently is why I struggle to be strong. I'm not a little boy. If you knew what I've been through, you'd be more respectful. I have been around a lot of mentally ill people and being around them can sometimes be like walking on thin ice. As far as a friend, it wasn't clear that she had spent much if any time with this person in at least a year.

@NeuroDaemon, you seem to speak quite well! I appreciate your advice.

and I'm essentially done with this thread, seems like the responses are universal.
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I realize that I was harsher than I intended to be, you're not a ballless little boy for going along with what you've gone along with so far. She's cute, you got those fresh hormones raging, and she put in you awkward positions that you didn't really know how to handle. Sorry for the tone of my original post I just wanted to make myself clear that you're not gonna ever have a good relationship with her, and the sooner you got out the better.

I'm sure this was a crazy experience for you but I'd be willing to bet you've gained some real wisdom just from having to deal with a girl so obviously insane. Good luck man!
 
eughh do whatever.

anyone who is easily manipulated into a relationship they dont want because "other people were looking at me" needs to grow a pair.

you'll probably stay with her and get married even though you dont really want to...
 
End it....in any way you can. The relationship is so young, that I don't think wasting your gas and time is even worth the drive. Life is way too short to stick around in an unsatisfying relationship.
 
I have no idea. I asked for her number but she has yet to respond. I learned my
lesson though. I need to be stronger when it comes to the ladies so this doesn't happen again.

Not really looking to date for a while, I just want to fuck this new girl.
 
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