hyroller
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Girth is pretty important, yup
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Does size matter? (girls please)
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Girth is pretty important, yup
Disraeli_Beers
Bluelighter
^but lung poking is the most enjoyable part of sex : ( I can cum unless I'm killing cilia!
I think it's really fucked up that she went around telling people that. I guess size does matter for most people, but it doesn't for a lot of people. Normal chicks have like...7 inches of space up there. No joke, if I was about to have sex with a guy and it just looked too long, I'd just be like.. No. haha. 
5 inches is just fine.
5 inches is just fine.
pharmakos
Bluelighter
I think it's really fucked up that she went around telling people that. I guess size does matter for most people, but it doesn't for a lot of people. Normal chicks have like...7 inches of space up there. No joke, if I was about to have sex with a guy and it just looked too long, I'd just be like.. No. haha.
how old are you
MikeOekiM
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im still collecting data
Jean-Paul
Bluelighter
yes, to a certain extent. it does. for those of you who say "not if you know how to use it", i do not think you are ever come across a truly tiny dick. it's not hot.
Droppersneck
Bluelighter
It all depends on how you measure.Length,shaft girth, and head circumference all come into play. And if you are still feeling inadequate And if you are still feeling inadequate
A. drop money on a decent hooker and make her tell you what you want to hear
B. buy a gun if you live in a free country
C. all of the above
A. drop money on a decent hooker and make her tell you what you want to hear
B. buy a gun if you live in a free country
C. all of the above
Jean-Paul
Bluelighter
^debasing yourself and others and overcompensating is totally hot though.
Droppersneck
Bluelighter
It really is. Women want you to think they want the quite nice guy who drives a honda civic with a small penis and a good family. Butt they really want that doosh bag in the sweet car dropping tons of money talking out of his ass at the bar imo
MrGrunge
Bluelighter
"That's what I love about high school girls... I keep geting older, they stay the same age, hehehe, yes they do, yes they do."
Droppersneck
Bluelighter
Its true if you have okay looks and a shit load of confidence from wherever; you can go far on any given night. IME I am just about 6 which is respectable. Id be okay if I were 5. If I girl is liking you and an inch here and there in not a deal breaker unless you are in HS maybe?
jazz hands
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That's funny because a Honda Civic has the complete opposite connotation where I live.
Sprout
Bluelight Crew
In all honesty, I'm around 9 inches and it's no better than 6 - I've only been with one girl I could fit it in without pain.
Hurting someone you love is not fun, regardless of how.
Plus I generally lack girth, but have length - pencil dick!!!!
Hurting someone you love is not fun, regardless of how.
Plus I generally lack girth, but have length - pencil dick!!!!
Lost Ego
Bluelighter
my present boyfriend is the largest I've been with, (out of 4 other guys), and after getting used to him I do like it bigger., But it's a part of a special guy, too
how you found this age-old embarrassing thread, is beyond me
pofacedhoe
Bluelight Crew
same as
PriestTheyCalledHim
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I agree, I feel bad for guys who are horse hung. Friends of mine have had sex with horse hung men and said how a lot of them have a lot of difficulty getting and keeping an erection, and how many can't even get fully hard or keep an erection.
My bisexual and gay male friends who've had sex with horse dicked men told me how almost ALL of them are total bottoms or they mainly just want to get receptive anal sex when they have sex, and that sounds boring to me and it's not something I'd want to do with a male partner. They also said how it was fun to jerk off a horse dicked man but how you can't suck the entire dick all the way down to the balls and my friends are Active/tops so there is no way they'd take a horse dick up their ass. One friend of mine told me how he thinks that men who are horse hung are freak shows and feels bad for them for the reasons why I listed and told me how a lot of them can't get full erections or keep them.
I know a guy who is bisexual and horse hung and he told me how it's very rare that he finds a male or female partner who can take his entire penis into their mouth, vagina, or anus. I have never had sex with him and it's stereotypical but he's a total bottom.
I'm not horse hung but I get told I've got a "donkey dick" and IME most men are not hung like I am, and most men in the United States are cut while I'm not. I have large low hanging balls but I guess it's an Italian thing since I'm the same size as Italian friends of mine and Italian male porn actors from Italy are; but while I am not from Italy I have that heritage/background. I remember when I was younger before I'd been active with men I thought I was average since I only saw men naked and hard in porn; but even still I worry about hurting men and women with my large and thick penis during anal or vaginal sex-I do not want to bottom or do receptive anal sex at all; but that's probably one reason why I am more into oral sex. I also know how to use it and last long but I prefer to only have sex with people who I am dating or in a relationship with, and we don't always do penetrative sex including oral sex. I've never had an issue with premature ejaculation but I hear some men can and I did have sex with one guy who sort of did but he was diabetic and on medication.
I have seen men who have a small penis or even one guy who had micro penis but I've never had sex with them. My ex was average but he didn't have a small penis or micro penis and I really liked to suck his dick for hours and days without him ejaculating and he did the same for me. No we didn't PNP or use drugs during sex even Amyl/poppers. I like to have sex like that with a male partner.
I think it's funny when Women try to estimate a guy's penis size. They almost always think average to above average ones measure bigger than they really do, which I'm sure most Men don't mind. I doubt many Women even know what an 8" dick looks like.![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
It's like this for men as well. I can't tell you the large number (no pun!) of times I have had men see me naked and aroused, and they think I'm 9-10 inches long. As I wrote above I have a large penis but I'm not horse hung or that large at 9-10 inches long.
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Know this is a sensitive subject, but aren't you being a bit unrelistic here. I mean, as a man can you honestly say you don't care about a woman's tits, ass, and the look and tightness of her pussy?
Don't even need to answear that one, but seeing as important the visual aspects are to men it's a bit hypocritical to say it shouldn't matter to girls at all. Even worse sayig a girl who cares about that is obviously a complete slut (double standards much?)
But I guess what it comes down to is that guys are in two camps - the ones happy with their size are okay with girls preferring a larger size. While the ones that aren't try to find a way to blame it on women. But come on - when men are so obsessed with female body parts it only makes sense that girls would be. All I can say with is if you have a small penis you just have to find a way to accept it, like a girl who has no breasts. We both have our worries. I'm happy with my breasts size, they're a small C, and can't really complain about that.
As for penis size, I would say - 5 is okay (anything less would be a bit unsatisfactory).
6 is average and good enough.
7-8 are ideal, that's all you need, anything else is unnecessary.
Well, that's how I see it anyway, feel free to disagree, just my hones opinion. It's just hard for women to come out and speak of these things without getting stoned as a whore for offending male sexual identity. What a silly world.
I also feel the thing about size is it makes it feel more intense and gives a stronger emotional experience, not so much about the physical stimulation. just gives you a stronger feeling of getting fucked.
nolys
Bluelight Crew
Bullshit to anyone who says size doesn't matter. Size definitly does matter as I've been told by a few girls.
Though, in saying that, 5 inches isn't particularly small, its just around average and should be enough for most women.
Even saying that, someone with a 3.5 incher could still pleasure a woman if they knew what they were doing.
So whilst it does matter, its not the number 1 defining aspect of sex and as I said, 5 inches is not small, its average. I'm a male but I speak from experiance. You don't want it too big either, I've got 7 inches myself and sometimes its actually been too much for some girls. Honestly its not a good thing, you want them to be enjoying themselves too.
5-7 inches is the perfect range I would think as someone else above posted + it will keep growing maybe another inch if your lucky.
Though, in saying that, 5 inches isn't particularly small, its just around average and should be enough for most women.
Even saying that, someone with a 3.5 incher could still pleasure a woman if they knew what they were doing.
So whilst it does matter, its not the number 1 defining aspect of sex and as I said, 5 inches is not small, its average. I'm a male but I speak from experiance. You don't want it too big either, I've got 7 inches myself and sometimes its actually been too much for some girls. Honestly its not a good thing, you want them to be enjoying themselves too.
5-7 inches is the perfect range I would think as someone else above posted + it will keep growing maybe another inch if your lucky.
