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Dilima: seeking soul mate, but cant relate spiritually unless they have tripped b4

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mesmerizeme

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I am seeking a "friend" but i dont think i cant relate spiritually to someone who hasnt used psychedelics before. I guess that sounds silly, but im telling it like it is. This obviously limits my potential options of meeting anyone I go to school with, etc. Any opinions on this. Where do I look? How do i go about finding people that have shared similar experiences and spirituality as me? Im not a addict or anything. I have a lot going for me actually. however, this is the dilemma that i face in finding my special somebody.:?

I realize I spelled "dilemma" incorrectly btw :)
 
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That makes sense you want someone who you can relate to and share trip experiences and things you've learned while tripping to someone who will understand instead of think you're crazy and have lost your mind. good luck. This website might have a few people who live near you lol, though I'm not big on online meeting/dating. Maybe ask your drug dealer who else they sell to lol. and trip with them.
 
this is so narrow minded- whos to say you wont find someone who is open minded who hasn't taken psychedelics- it does happen
 
pofacedhoe said:
this is so narrow minded- whos to say you wont find someone who is open minded who hasn't taken psychedelics- it does happen
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I agree.

Or you could meet someone who has never taken psychedelics before and you're compatible with them on every other level and you pique their interest in psychedelics.
 
its kinda a complicated situation. I had to move and basically restart my life (psychopathic ex boyfriend). I dont know anybody. I live in lafayette, la. People are "special" out here for the most part. lol No physical drug dealer to hang out with...if that makes sense.
 
im a very open minded person btw. My point is people see the world differently once they have used psychedelics. so, in a way, it does make a difference.
 
true. I guess im just having a difficult time meeting people. Not that im not sociable...or outgoing.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
I agree.

Or you could meet someone who has never taken psychedelics before and you're compatible with them on every other level and you pique their interest in psychedelics.
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would you say that most people are open to experimental drug use? it seems like the average person is opposed to that kind of thing.
 
youdontknow said:
That makes sense you want someone who you can relate to and share trip experiences and things you've learned while tripping to someone who will understand instead of think you're crazy and have lost your mind. good luck. This website might have a few people who live near you lol, though I'm not big on online meeting/dating. Maybe ask your drug dealer who else they sell to lol. and trip with them.
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Ive never really attempted to find people online in that way. sites like match.com or craigslist just arnt my type of thing.
 
if you find someone you can relate to, then chances are they will be open to it...you wont be interested in someone who doesn't have the same mental vibrations (to be real hippie about it) as you.

but you are going about this wrong. no one seeks their soul mate...they find them. Seekers will find what they want to find, but it wont be true...they will ignore the incompatabilites and end up with someone who they think is their soulmate, but really is barely like them. I can say this cause i used to be like that. And honestly, i think you might be too, because no one ends up with psychotics unless they were willing to ignore signs early on.
 
rincewindrocks said:
if you find someone you can relate to, then chances are they will be open to it...you wont be interested in someone who doesn't have the same mental vibrations (to be real hippie about it) as you.

but you are going about this wrong. no one seeks their soul mate...they find them. Seekers will find what they want to find, but it wont be true...they will ignore the incompatabilites and end up with someone who they think is their soulmate, but really is barely like them. I can say this cause i used to be like that. And honestly, i think you might be too, because no one ends up with psychotics unless they were willing to ignore signs early on.
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I totally agree with you. And thats what i have been doing. Im not actively looking, because i have the same philosophy. As far as my ex goes...i was very very naive, and did overlook red flags unintentionally. ive learned a lot from that relationship. And about preditors. I was actually in a type of "Stockholm syndrome" for a long time. its a miracle i was able to break away from that vampire.
 
mesmerizeme said:
I totally agree with you. And thats what i have been doing. Im not actively looking, because i have the same philosophy. As far as my ex goes...i was very very naive, and did overlook red flags unintentionally. ive learned a lot from that relationship. And about preditors. I was actually in a type of "Stockholm syndrome" for a long time. its a miracle i was able to break away from that vampire.
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I relate a lot with people on this site (among a few others). if anything, I hope i can find a friend to keep in touch with near or far. :)
 
mesmerizeme said:
would you say that most people are open to experimental drug use? it seems like the average person is opposed to that kind of thing.
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It varies among people and among drug(s). I know people who are or were big into drugs like cocaine, heroin and other opiates, meth, benzos, ketamine, and MDMA (ecstasy) but they don't like pot at all. I know people who love pot but don't like mushrooms or LSD, or other drugs. I know other people who just like to get drunk and sometimes they'll smoke herb if it's around or a friend has some; but they don't want to use other drugs or they tried other drugs once or a few times but didn't enjoy them.
 
I totally agree with you. And thats what i have been doing. Im not actively looking, because i have the same philosophy. As far as my ex goes...i was very very naive, and did overlook red flags unintentionally. ive learned a lot from that relationship. And about preditors. I was actually in a type of "Stockholm syndrome" for a long time. its a miracle i was able to break away from that vampire.
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good for you that you did...it can be hard. I went through the same shit with one of my exes. You will find people, you just have to wait. Also, (and this may not be possible, i understand) but maybe you could try moving again? If you are looking for people who have tripped, North Carolina has a surprising number of hippes out in the hills, or New Mexico is cheap and we love our shrooms! Plenty of good people out here, especially if you move up to Taos, or even Santa Fe
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
It varies among people and among drug(s). I know people who are or were big into drugs like cocaine, heroin and other opiates, meth, benzos, ketamine, and MDMA (ecstasy) but they don't like pot at all. I know people who love pot but don't like mushrooms or LSD, or other drugs. I know other people who just like to get drunk and sometimes they'll smoke herb if it's around or a friend has some; but they don't want to use other drugs or they tried other drugs once or a few times but didn't enjoy them.
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right on. Ive known people with similar preferences/ responses to drugs.
i kinda wonder how many people actually do drugs vs those who are opposed to them.
 
rincewindrocks said:
good for you that you did...it can be hard. I went through the same shit with one of my exes. You will find people, you just have to wait. Also, (and this may not be possible, i understand) but maybe you could try moving again? If you are looking for people who have tripped, North Carolina has a surprising number of hippes out in the hills, or New Mexico is cheap and we love our shrooms! Plenty of good people out here, especially if you move up to Taos, or even Santa Fe
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Definitely will do that. I have been here in lafayette for a year and a half...im halfway thru with nursing school (applying for clinicals next semester) so as soon as im done with school, i plan on moving to a place that is more my speed. I just need to have patience (which i usually do) but sometimes it seems like the walls are closing in on me.
 
Go to a psytrance rave, you'll be spoilt for choice - as long as you're not put off by a rubbish taste in music ;)
 
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