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I'll wear my best jeans, and my smart shirt that is also a hoodie on top of a plain white tee shirt, that is my favourite outfit, it looks good and will be good for a first date. not gonna overdress in a tux or anything for first date, lol.
 
I thought you initially meant smart pants - I must have missed the word jeans. Sounds good to me. Tell her all your pervy, druggy, internet mates want disgusting pictures.
 
Now, THAT is what they all want. She'll leave snail trails everywhere, if you whip that bad boy out.
 
lol, i wish i knew who she was so i could hook her up with a link to this thread! I would definitely have some viagra just in case she wants it, Cos I'm utterly fucking useless without it. But that's just me, go getta mugglez!!
 
Stay off the speed and diaz mate, gibbering a load of pish at a million miles an hour or falling asleep and drooling is not gonna be a good luck. Plus chuck some booze into the mix with the blues and you're asking for trouble.

A shirt with a hood Mugz, got any pictures because it sounds strange?
 
It's american, I'll try and find a pic

Much better colour than this, I'll take a photo of me in my outfit tomorrow with it on, but it's similar to this

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Mugz said:
I'm a nervous wreck around women sometimes/most of the time, well only with women that I fancy. I'm so excited.
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Oh my fucking lord, you big Jessie.

Promise yourself something: that you'll drop that shit right away.

It's all very well admitting that kind of thing to a bunch of druggies on the internet, but regardless of how nice you say this woman is, if she detects even the slightest hint that you're a nervous wreck she'll write you off as at best a puppy and at worst a paedophile.

Believe me, you want to put such horribly unsexy bullshit to the back of your mind or you're facing a solo takeaway, an agonising taxi ride home and a regret-ridden nightmare of a wank as a conclusion to the meetup you're so obviously looking forward to.

Seize the moment, be a man and make her feel she should thank her lucky stars that you're even entertaining the thought of speaking to her. Otherwise she has the one little bit of high ground that she needs to swing the battle her way, and you're either letting yourself in for a total washout or, if you're relatively 'lucky', some kind of warped relationship based on her thinking she somehow has the upper hand. Which I can assure you leads to a whole fucked-up world of female emotional voodoo shit.

Be a man. Or at least try.
 
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I could not agree with sam more on that last post. Especially paragraph 2, which is what I think you'll be in for if you take speed and go. If your going to need drugs everytime you meet her forget it. A diaz or 2 to take away the anxiety isn't that bad for you, but speed is a joke.

You need to just be confident and chatty. Forget the anxiety she'll be a bit nervous too. Don't get too drunk and be a cunt.
 
Treacle said:
You'll look like a cunt in bowling shoes, with smart gear on. Smart jeans and a smart top would be my choice
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Yes Treacle. That makes perfect sense.

What is Febreeze called these days btw?

TheSpade said:
A shirt with a hood Mugz, got any pictures because it sounds strange?
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Sounds horrific. Mugz get some pictures of this beast posted before you wear it tonight & make a fucking arse of yourself.


SamhainGrim said:
Oh my fucking lord, you big Jessie...

*Man Up*
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Paraphrased but I wholeheartedly agree.
 
He already posted a similar one, take a deek, looks like something a gay lumberjack would wear haha
 
It's understandable Mugz might be a bit nervous, he hasn't been in the saddle for a while now and soesn't want to disappoint the young lady...maybe engage the services of a local escort to "spice things up a bit"....?
 
haha take speed on a date.

he might get very lucky and then humiliated by having a whizz induced micro-cock. a few drinks should suffice to steady the ship
 
no speed will be taken, gummed or otherwise, just shoved two loads of laundry in the machines, including my favourite non lumberjack plaid shirt/jumper/hoodie.

Still need a haircut and to get to the train station before 4.30pm, that's still 5 hours away though so have plenty of time, unless I procrastinate too much.
 
Why can't I see the picture of the top? Mugzy, it's imperative that I do. You need to feel really comfy in your outfit as you don't want to be worrying about that, so if you feel good in that shirt-hoodie then wear it by all means.. As long as you won't be too hot in it? Don't want to be bright red and sweaty when you're trying to stay calm and relaxed..

You're going to be fine. Keep telling yourself that, don't set yourself up for failure! I agree absolutely on no speed, good work. Just think - if it's meant to be, it's meant to be; if not, it's not.. (I know you believe in all that bollocks ;)) Seriously though, if you guys hit it off then you will be fine. I was so nervous when I met Evad I was knocking back G+Ts on the plane and could hardly speak when I met him, apparently he was super-nervous too but I didn't notice :) conversation was a little slow til we'd got our first pints in our hands, then it went swimmingly :D

If it's becoming clear she likes you, take the initiaive and go for a kiss. Don't lunge for her if she's been cold-shouldering you all night obviously, but if you think she likes you.. go for it! :D
 
I would be a bit scared going for a kiss until the end of the night when I have to leave, I don't want to be too pushy or mess things up.

The hoodie looks kind of like this but still not totally, I'll take a pic of me wearing it with my webcam when I get dressed later on.

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How is that a shirt too, Mugz? It just looks like a plaid hoodie.. the T shirt's not inbuilt or something is it? 8o
 
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