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boltfan909
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Congrats! When you find the yin to your yang, it is very important to show her that you want her to be yours forever. Marriage is CONSTANT work; if I could offer advice, id say to never settle with feeling 'content'. Keep doing new and exciting things in bed, surprise her with flowers (or balloons etc), go buy her a massage just for the hell of it, NEVER stop telling her how beautiful she is to you (without being all clingy and pathetic 
), and just stay close by her side.
I think the VAST majority of marriages end up being two people, with kids, content, living as room mates essentially. They lose the intimacy (I am SURE you've heard the cliche, once you get married, the sex stops) and just get too comfortable. You only live once, so always remember what triggered you to pop the big question, and use that as fuel when times get tough down the road.
Congrats, and best of luck
), and just stay close by her side. I think the VAST majority of marriages end up being two people, with kids, content, living as room mates essentially. They lose the intimacy (I am SURE you've heard the cliche, once you get married, the sex stops) and just get too comfortable. You only live once, so always remember what triggered you to pop the big question, and use that as fuel when times get tough down the road.
Congrats, and best of luck
marie.claire
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Congrats that's so exciting! All the best!
that's so exciting! All the best!
Perpetual Indulgence
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When is the date? LOL. Lots of bullshit planning goes into a wedding. Stay true to your needs.
Marriage is work. Work worthwhile.
I am happy that you found your partner in life.
Marriage is work. Work worthwhile.
I am happy that you found your partner in life.
congrats
care to share the details of how you proposed?
We stayed at JesusGreen's house in Poland for the week of our 4 year anniversary, 22 June, as a holiday. On the night of our anni we went down to the local pub and rolled on mdma, while a freind of ours DJ'd. At about 11pm, everyon gathered round us and I got down on one knee. After she said yes I jumped up and hugged her while everybody in the pub sang the Polish congrats song "Sto lat". Then the DJ played this song for us and we got on with our night to everyone shaking my hand and hugging us xD
Perfect :D
neoblazing
Bluelighter
Congrats marriage is alot of work but is worth every bit never take for granted what makes you feel this way as it is such a rare thing be true, kind and always remember to consider each others needs but still be individuals
Sepher
Bluelight Crew
Aw, you big old romantic you!
Congrats. Hope your marriage brings you both everything you could wish for, and more.
aww
my husband proposed to me while we were both rolling at a rave on our 9 yr anniversary. it was at like 4am tho. i called my best friend to tell him and his first question was "are you two sober?".
hmmm, what a great night
I actually play a very small role in animal_cookie's beautiful story (and life), because her hubby (just boyfriend at the time) and I carpooled to said rave to where he then proposed to her... and during the car ride over he told me about his plans, what I thought about it, and so on...