I am famous on BL for being 100% open, my real name, my real adress, etc. It has caused problems in the past, including a police raid, but I made a conscious decision long ago that if I were to begin inteacting online in any meaningful way, I would not hide behind anonymity. I find that far too often people engage in immature and obnoxious behavior simply because hiding behind that cloak of anonymity emboldens them. I understand that most cannot afford to be AS open but IF they could, BL and the net at large would be a much more civil place.