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I have strict age standards. That I want to break, but can't.

your making up some rigid shit in your head because everything else is so care free and momentarily flexible, you want to have a least one behaviour pattern that is consistent even though consistency bores you. hmm what an enigma lol
 
Your posts certainly seem to indicate a 17-year-old mate might be more aligned with where you are in life maturity-wise. I say go for it.
 
Lol, I must have been smashed last night. Everything I wrote is genuine, relative, and honest though.

Not going for it. This is something I can't break. Can't even believe I considered it.
 
Come on, a 5 year age difference is fine for a male and female. Beyond that it gets a bit much.
 
I really don't see the problem...I had 2 friends who had 22 year old boyfriends when they were 17 and they were very happy together, in fact today, over a year and a half later they're still with them. If I were you I'd go for it, I don't really think it's that big of a deal.
 
As long as there is grass on the field PLAY BALL!

If not roll over and play in the mud....





Lol! jk. The age difference is fine by moral standards, BUT KEEP IN MIND - that if her parents find out or get a bug up their ass about your age THEY can pursue charges against you without the girls willing consent. PLEASE BE SAFE!

After age 16 I don't think there is any reason why a girl can't make a decision on her own about her vagina. Honestly yes it would be creepy if she slept with some 30 year old dude, but at age 16 girls mentality is like 18, and at 16 I knew damn well what I was doing with my penis and who I wanted to do it with. Girls have the same right in my mind.

I hate people that follow laws like that is what is mentally right - No it's not.

Laws of society don't always follow what is morally right. Don't let society dictate what you feel is right and wrong. I would keep it at 4-5 years or less unless the girl is 18. After that she is obviously well grown up and can surely make her own decisions. Just again keep in mind the consenting age in your state (and I would read up it could be less than 18) and make sure that if it is illegal you keep it on the down low for a bit, or make sure her parents are okay with it.
 
Eyes On the Roll said:
Lol, I must have been smashed last night. Everything I wrote is genuine, relative, and honest though.

Not going for it. This is something I can't break. Can't even believe I considered it.
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if you meet a girl and she's 4 years younger than you, you won't even consider dating her. fair enough. so, she's got a friend who is 3 years and 364 days younger than you. you'll date her.

what is the significance of that one day?

alasdair
 
My longest relationship was 11 years difference, but I never even felt it When we split I was 33 and he was 44. Now I'm dating someone 5 years younger (younger than my youngest sibling!) and I love love love it! Makes me feel younger :) Feels great!
 
Like someone said before me, depends on state laws. I believe in missouri (I'm from St Lous) age of consent is 16, Illinois is 17, etc. The further south you go the age seems to go down. Also, if she is considered underage in your state, how long til she turns 18? She might really like the fact you're giving her the respect and willing to wait it out. When I was 20 I dated someone who was 17 (legal where I am) and it was a somewhat decent relationship aside from all the arguments spawned from drugs and money for drugs. I'm 21 now and have been with girls 10 years older and 4 years younger. For me personally, I prefer someone my age give or take a year, as we have more in common and similar maturity.
 
At: "whoever the kid that said ""get over it"" was".

Sorry, I know you're a mod and all, but your lack of general intelligence and open mindedness was greatly portrayed in your post. And this is crazy, but here's my kitchen, a sandwich maybe?
 
Eyes On the Roll said:
but your lack of general intelligence and open mindedness was greatly portrayed in your post.
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in what way is he not open-minded? it's quite possible to be open-minded and disagree with you. they're hardly mutually exclusive, are they?

i'm still interested in an answer to my 'one day' question.

alasdair
 
because everything I wrote was dismissed as something I need to "get over". There is no getting over it. From that post, I'd assume he just barely skimmed over everything I typed, and based his post off of his own subjective and completely individually asserted and confided opinion.

@ "get over it"
If you want to disrespect, then please, "sir", give me your reason for disrespecting. So I can analyze and assess your opinion, and possibly profit from your post. You wasted a spot on the first page that could have been taken by a post with substance. I didn't get anything out of your post, and therefore, it was a waste. I could care less of your view of me, go ahead and display it. I'm impartial. I just want to gain something from the time I spent passing my gaze over your damn section, and I didn't gain anything from yours. For that, I am disgusted. And you're a mod, a person in a position of power. Well, prove it. You pass judgment at the wave of a hand, therefore I don't respect you. I respect everyone else who has rude things to say towards me, but at least has a valid and sympathetic explanation.
 
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Well, my range is + or - six years (I'm 28 now.. starting today:P, but the -6 was when I was 25). Ok, here is my explanation about why you should not care for a number (and why you could)
you could because:
1) sometimes a large difference in years means that you're in different stages of your life (like: I was a phd student seeing a girl that had just enrolled in university). Sometimes the daily routine is so different that is difficult to spend lots of time togheter/meet the same needs
.. ok, no other reasons, beside the legality issue (which, btw, changes from country to country)

But listen, in my experience young people (expecially late teens) are much more variable than 'adults'. I've seen lots of people different (for better or for worse) than the 'average guy' when I was younger, and I see much less of them now. So a 17 yo girl could well be 'better' in your eyes than a 19 yo. (this becomes maybe less common as you get old, because with time other people can catch up with the little geniuses there where in high school :P).

You already know the girl, you like the girl. What can her age tell you about her personality (or whatever) that you don't already know and might not like? But if you are *really* considering to let her go just because of her age, let her go. You probably don't like her enough.
 
It's good to have non-negotiables. I have at least 5 of them. They may not make sense to others, but they don't need to. They're mine :)
 
Eyes On the Roll said:
because everything I wrote was dismissed as something I need to "get over". There is no getting over it. From that post, I'd assume he just barely skimmed over everything I typed, and based his post off of his own subjective and completely individually asserted and confided opinion.

@ "get over it"
If you want to disrespect, then please, "sir", give me your reason for disrespecting. So I can analyze and assess your opinion, and possibly profit from your post. You wasted a spot on the first page that could have been taken by a post with substance. I didn't get anything out of your post, and therefore, it was a waste. I could care less of your view of me, go ahead and display it. I'm impartial. I just want to gain something from the time I spent passing my gaze over your damn section, and I didn't gain anything from yours. For that, I am disgusted. And you're a mod, a person in a position of power. Well, prove it. You pass judgment at the wave of a hand, therefore I don't respect you. I respect everyone else who has rude things to say towards me, but at least has a valid and sympathetic explanation.
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you should be careful about asking for opinions on the internet as you will get them... you're criticising him for passing judgement but i'd say you're just as guilty of judging as well as assumption.

i'm still interested in an answer to my 'one day' question. third time of asking.

alasdair
 
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