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So whats the trick to talking to decent attractive girls

If I were you I'd go out to a bar, have a few drinks and check out the talent.

You'll undoubtedly stumble across some semi attractive chicks in their 30s who love taking advantage of shy young men. Esp if they're drunk.
It could be the perfect solution for you to gain some experience/confidence & it wouldn't even take much effort.

$0.02
 
beamers said:
Don't compliment them, that's what everyone else does.
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that's shit advice.

Stop playing games. Make them smile.

OP - Chin up to start with. Don't mumble. Act like they're your family or friends - someone you would normally talk to.

Saw your FB page - you seem good looking - practice your banter with people you are NOT attracted to - like the woman who works checkout. Maker her smile, then work your way up til you can make the most gorgeous gal you have ever seen blush.
 
Cornishman said:
If I were you I'd go out to a bar, have a few drinks and check out the talent.

You'll undoubtedly stumble across some semi attractive chicks in their 30s who love taking advantage of shy young men. Esp if they're drunk.
It could be the perfect solution for you to gain some experience/confidence & it wouldn't even take much effort.

$0.02
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I like that... I'll try clubbing I never been. that might be the best idea Just to meet people hahah%)
 
monkeydluffy said:
I like that... I'll try clubbing I never been. that might be the best idea Just to meet people hahah%)
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That's definitely a way to get in the scene. You may find it's not for you but you can definitely get some great sexual encounters that will pick you up and make you feel less like a virgin. I took my bro clubbing for the first time when he was 17, and he met this 25year old aussie bird who was seriously hot and funny, and he had a great time with her - they were both a bit drunk.

I have found clubbing to be hit and miss - good to find someone to shag, but if you wnna meet someone for more, then best bets are places like the library, the park, the swimming pool, there's too many people out in clubs who are literally just looking for someone to fill a hole, searching for a connection, instead of just having fun, and attracting the right people.

Still a great experience and I highly recommend trying it.
 
B1tO'RoughJack said:
That's definitely a way to get in the scene. You may find it's not for you but you can definitely get some great sexual encounters that will pick you up and make you feel less like a virgin. I took my bro clubbing for the first time when he was 17, and he met this 25year old aussie bird who was seriously hot and funny, and he had a great time with her - they were both a bit drunk.

I have found clubbing to be hit and miss - good to find someone to shag, but if you wnna meet someone for more, then best bets are places like the library, the park, the swimming pool, there's too many people out in clubs who are literally just looking for someone to fill a hole, searching for a connection, instead of just having fun, and attracting the right people.

Still a great experience and I highly recommend trying it.
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i will but does it matter if your black or white.. Im not sure with chicks though now a days. Im a black dude thats mixed im not super dark but will that play a factor haha? do girls now a days hate black guys or hate dark skin :p?
 
Cornishman said:
If I were you I'd go out to a bar, have a few drinks and check out the talent.

You'll undoubtedly stumble across some semi attractive chicks in their 30s who love taking advantage of shy young men. Esp if they're drunk.
It could be the perfect solution for you to gain some experience/confidence & it wouldn't even take much effort.

$0.02
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^agreed.
 
monkeydluffy said:
i will but does it matter if your black or white.. Im not sure with chicks though now a days. Im a black dude thats mixed im not super dark but will that play a factor haha? do girls now a days hate black guys or hate dark skin :p?
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I think these days you have the upper hand...if you're looking at things like that anyways - it's all about being passionate and having swagger coming from the heart.
 
monkeydluffy said:
Girls are just too messed up today! so I listened to some advice here and called this girl. Im gonna meet her monday Im pretty decent at the math they throw at me. I mean i got like a 84% not super high *sorry im not asian* My picture is on my home page on my profile just click to see it.. If i help this chick she better put out im just saying. Most chicks apparently want some bad ass guy and the nice ones are boring to them and when the bad guys hurt them they leave the nice guys in the friend zone!! :X
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lol Oh dear. That's so cute. Listen, you're an engineer, so you got what a lot of people don't have: brains. Even if this girl doesn't appreciate you, you know what? LOTS of girls appreciate someone with a brain. You know why? Because it's really hard to find someone with motivation and goals. Most people just want to skimp through life getting whatever life throws them and they don't have any ambition to be more than what they already are. YOU, however, seem like a funny guy with a brain on his shoulders.

Don't look at it as "this girl better put out." Instead, find someone you can talk to and I promise you the sex will come. Not only will you get the sex, but you'll have someone you actually can talk to and laugh with.

I guess before I give you my lecture (lol) I should ask, are you only looking for sex or are you looking for a GF type?
 
Lysis said:
lol Oh dear. That's so cute. Listen, you're an engineer, so you got what a lot of people don't have: brains. Even if this girl doesn't appreciate you, you know what? LOTS of girls appreciate someone with a brain. You know why? Because it's really hard to find someone with motivation and goals. Most people just want to skimp through life getting whatever life throws them and they don't have any ambition to be more than what they already are. YOU, however, seem like a funny guy with a brain on his shoulders.

Don't look at it as "this girl better put out." Instead, find someone you can talk to and I promise you the sex will come. Not only will you get the sex, but you'll have someone you actually can talk to and laugh with.

I guess before I give you my lecture (lol) I should ask, are you only looking for sex or are you looking for a GF type?
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Im not just looking to bang a chick and forget about her. But that would be nice to but That will come in time. Im looking for a gf chick thats nice hold hands :)!! haha and play a round of golf etc stuff like that :(!! but what you said surprised me... dont alot of people want to be something when they get older? I mean wth lol? What else is there to do if you dont go to school and get a degree... now a days everything is college/university or I dont even know...


EDIT and thank you. your so helpful ;p. I probably came of rude saying she better put out i was joking :(
 
You are in engineering? You should be reasonably smart then. If you are smart, it should be not too hard to be quick witted and humorous, be amusing and funny, most people -guys and girls- like someone who can make them laugh and smile.
 
rangrz said:
You are in engineering? You should be reasonably smart then. If you are smart, it should be not too hard to be quick witted and humorous, be amusing and funny, most people -guys and girls- like someone who can make them laugh and smile.
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what...Just because I take this program that means im smart lol? i have a tutor and practice my ass off pshhhhh, maybe if i was asian id be like yeah thats steam roll this shit but no way
 
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In order the grasp the material even with the aid of a tutor and study requires a fair bit of intelligence. You do not have to Steven Hawking, but likely need to be at least modestly above average.
 
monkeydluffy said:
what...Just because I take this program that means im smart lol? i have a tutor and practice my ass off pshhhhh, maybe if i was asian id be like yeah thats steam roll this shit but no way
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There is nothing wrong with needing a tutor. Every degree has some course that is difficult for the student. For instance, I dated a computer engineering student and he was smart as hell and the main reason I passed one of my courses, but C++ was really hard for him to pick up. Electronics was his thing, and he did eventually get it, but the first C class he took with me, and he had a hard time picking up the concepts at first. Doesn't mean he's dumb or anything like that. It was just his rough course he had to get through.
 
Confidence, humor, pointing out things, being different/unique and not complimenting her like everybody else
 
Good sense of humour, and be confident and just a tad arrogant. Usually works on me ;)
 
Lysis said:
There is nothing wrong with needing a tutor. Every degree has some course that is difficult for the student. For instance, I dated a computer engineering student and he was smart as hell and the main reason I passed one of my courses, but C++ was really hard for him to pick up. Electronics was his thing, and he did eventually get it, but the first C class he took with me, and he had a hard time picking up the concepts at first. Doesn't mean he's dumb or anything like that. It was just his rough course he had to get through.
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do you wanna date lysis? I can take you to a bar buy you a drink and we can watch twilight ;p. I'll drive down to florida :)
 
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