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Ah. My apologies SplatChrome. That was a dumb mistake on my part to make. 8) Don't know where that assumption came from, cos I've even posted on here before that the transgendered are not generally conflicted as to their sexuality, so that truly was a schoolboy error! :doh: Think I was maybe looking to post the above and you seemed the best intro into it so it still looked on topic and didn't come right out of leftfield? ;)
 
My brother in law was a cross dresser but straight, rugby playing butch bastard. He did not look very pretty in a frock and would glare menicingly if you mentioned his 5 o clock shadow.
When i watch Little Britan (we're two ladys) im reminded of him.
He came to dinner once in his alter-ego and i had to warn the other guests not to say anything in case he got moody.
He punched me in the arm because i said his hairy leg was visible through a ladder in his tights. I was so glad when they devorced.
 
hgwells said:
Were you in the army?
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Yes I was....got banged up so they tossed me out...lol nownI can be wild and have fun. Read your post and it is hard to find a guy that is faithfull but they are out there! My BF and I are at 8 months and doing great. The one thing to be carefully is meth as it makes everything seem ok and pow....orgy time lol
 
Armydiver said:
Yes I was....got banged up so they tossed me out...lol nownI can be wild and have fun. Read your post and it is hard to find a guy that is faithfull but they are out there! My BF and I are at 8 months and doing great. The one thing to be carefully is meth as it makes everything seem ok and pow....orgy time lol
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Yeah, I have been with some great guys, but the last one ruined so many parts of my life, lol.
haha, "pow...orgy time"
I have had some...ahem...group sessions, but when I am in love with someone, I only have eyes for them, no matter what kind of boner inducing substance I take
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porn fill a lot of gaps for me
lol

btw, congrats on an 8 month relationship, not kidding, that is a long time for someone like me :)
 
I just want to clarify that the comments above refer to an ex family member who was genuingly a nasty piece of work. They did not mean to ridicule all c.d's.
People can do what makes them happy and i am the last person whn should or would be critical of anothers life choices. Live and let live shall be the whole of the law etc. X
 
I've been in intimate and sexual relationships with men before, though I have lost interest since I have found my fiance (she's a she, born a she, etc). I guess you could say that I am bisexual, but I think that has changed in the past couple of years. I find men to be just as sexy as furniture lately, though there was a time that I loved to bottom. Perhaps I am a freak, but to me, sexual orientation isn't entirely fixed, and changes with time. However, I do agree that sexuality is biological in origin. I cannot explain the mechanism by which mine has changed, so I will leave it at that. Anyway, ahem, hooray for accepting one's sexuality for what it really is. Welcome to bl.
 
Apostacious said:
I find men to be just as sexy as furniture lately . . . Perhaps I am a freak, but to me, sexual orientation isn't entirely fixed, and changes with time.
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Most definitely not a freak Apostacious. I move from very nearly entirely straight to very nearly gay and every point in between over time all the time. I'm in full on bi mode of late which made things difficult with the GF cos I'm not feeling much of a need for hetero sex. That's not what's turning me on right now.

It's not the lack of bi opportunities that lies at the root of that. It's been a coupla years or more since I last slept with a man, but the movement from one end of the spectrum to the other and back again has been marked over the period since. Then again sometimes I'm entirely asexual and just can't be arsed with it either way. That's tricky too. Strange thing sexuality. I've given up trying to think it over much. I just accept wherever I am at any one point.
 
Hello everyone,I am new to BL and I am Bisexual as well...glad I found this thread...you guys are funny! I was in a relationship for 9 years I met him when I was 19.,fell in love blah blah,but his addiction to Oxy led me to break up with him but we are still friends and I supported him on going into treament for a year..anyways it's nice to meet everyone here!!
 
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Apostacious said:
I've been in intimate and sexual relationships with men before, though I have lost interest since I have found my fiance (she's a she, born a she, etc). I guess you could say that I am bisexual, but I think that has changed in the past couple of years. I find men to be just as sexy as furniture lately, though there was a time that I loved to bottom. Perhaps I am a freak, but to me, sexual orientation isn't entirely fixed, and changes with time. However, I do agree that sexuality is biological in origin. I .
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yeah, right - I think everyone is born with a certain body/mind type - and this can contribute to being more or lesss submissive or dominant animalistically than the next guy or gal - pretty much all have it in us to be bi, but most people don't accept it - or are too full of testosterone to feel the urge to be dominated as such.##

I also think there are a lot of women and some men who describe themselves as gay, but actually it's due to them having something emotionally and psychologically wrong with them - like with women, they got beaten and raped by family/too many people; and for men - they didn't have a strong father figure accompanied with other shit (look at the bears and cubs bollocks as an example - male oedipus complex eatyourfoulheartout!)

Sometimes I myself can feel totally into women and sometimes I will feel like just being buggereed by a strong muscley dude for a few hours - it's instinctual...mixed with how you are psychologically, IME.
 
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I certainly have an appetence for guys and nasty sex... so I feel it's appropriate I post here too! Lol! :P

*waves rainbow flag doused in liquid LSD* The flag for gay bluelighters :3
 
Bearlove said:
This seems like a great thread to ask - as a 'Gay' person do you find the term 'So gay' (when used to describe something as stupid/lame etc) as homophobic/offensive?

For years people have struggled (died) so people can have Gay rights / Gay marriage and now it seems that its almost acceptable that the term 'Gay' = Wrong/lame/stupid etc.

I have asked the question before,

What is the difference between

That person is so gay - has sex with the same sex

That person is so gay - lame, stupid, idiot

I have received mixed reactions from around the globe / age groups - so I'm curious to hear your view.

(Do I feel a poll coming on?)
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Early twenties here. I'm gay, but I've never been offended or thought anything of the term used in the way you described. Occasionally I even say it without giving it any thought.
 
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