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Cane2theLeft said:
On BL we don't like sticking gay people in their own little areas. We allow them right out in the open! ;)
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I love this. I'm a straight female but most of my male friends are homosexual or bisexual. They're just like everyone else, really, regardless of who they have sex with. Everyone needs to just come together and spread the love. Ahhhyeahhh.
 
yeah I'm a gay male and I was looking around for the same thing- it's pretty easy to find gays here, they are mingled in with everyone else :)
 
< is a bisexual man. It's not something I make a big deal of, and haven't found a need to. If I'm in on a topic where it might be relevant to declare that I'm bi I do, but they've been very few, countable on the fingers of one hand. In the main it matters not at all. Can't say as I've noticed much in the way of a negative reaction when I have declared that so far. Most are pretty cool and non-judgemental on here IME. How could they be otherwise? Most are bloody drug users, so hardly in a position to judge others choices. ;)
 
I'm a straight male but am "gender fluid", a light version of transgendered, or whatever you want to call. I enjoy being a male, but also feel that there is a part of me that is female/has the desire to be female. The female side of me is interested sexually in females, so I could be considered a lesbian male at times haha. But yeah, I am outside the traditional bonds of gender/sexuality.
 
I'm tranny-sexual... That is I'm fiercely attracted to trans people transwomen more than men. aside from that I don't really care the gender of my romantic interests as long as they fulfill my criterion. And I'm not attracted to white men.
 
I'd love to be in a relationship with a bisexual women who has a preference in forming a serious relationship with a male, but would let me be a women and her lesbian lover. I know the women in me can't be presented in the most desirable/attractive form that would excite probably most bisexual women. However I feel that the women in me does exist, so can actually seen, and with the emotional connection it could allow my temporary female form to be that women you'd love to have a homosexual relationship with. I feel this is extremely complicated, and going to be hard for me to find a women that loves every aspect of this, both the male and female, seeing it as a perfect relationship (even though I actually did find someone, but..... maybe it'll happen, maybe this is just the way it has to for it to become a total reality)

It has only been in the last two year that I've become completely comfortable with myself and the gender fluidity/type of transgenderism. I've told a good friend (the one I kinda mention here) back late late year, and one male friend some of the smaller details over the summer. I'm starting to "come out" to an extent. I mean, I wan to remain a male for main body, as I do love being a man, so some people it might be easier to just not bother telling because it wouldn't make any difference. My best friends I will eventually tell over the next few years (maybe within 2 years). I have no issue with them knowing, but of course still nervous. I know it wouldn't actually change any the dynamic of any of our relationships, as admitting it to them wouldn't mean I'm going to be a women around them. Maybe they will just have to deal with me wearing a cute skirt, or some other womens clothes one in a while if they stop by my place of residency (I don't plan on ever leaving the house as a women, as I don't have very feminine characteristics to make it feel like I would really be perceived as women while out and about. Its not a problem though. I like just keeping it inside or around the yard, etc.).

I look forward to finding someone to have "lesbian" sex with me, or better yet a lesbian date. I feel that would really open up a bigger understand of my gender fluidity/type of transgenderism. Hehe, this is all some stuff I've become really comfortable saying to myself and admitting that just typing it out to this forum makes me happy to be this weird (in a good way) individual.
 
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I been with my boyfriend for 20 years, my previous was with me for ten so, truthfully, ive had 2 sexual partners in 30 years. I broke up with the last one coz he couldnt handle my drug use, so he had to go.
My present bf is bi sexual and at clubs i have got use to him getting hot and horny with any up for it girl. Funny thing is when they meet me they allways want a 3 some, me, him and them in the middle. Its not my thang so i just let him get on with it. He always comes home eventually. He doesnt want to live with a woman because of the drama. We use a lot of everthing and most domestic situations abide by some rules. We roll spliff on our rulebook.
 
damn, I haven't ever been able to have a relationship last longer than a year. ever.
26 years old here, gay

My last one cheated on me, and that was the first time something like that has ever happened to me. He ruined everything- but im not going to bitch
about it.
He fit all my guidelines too! he was HOT and skinny and funny and everything-

that's what I thought...he turned out to be really boring. He left me because he said he couldn't control me.
HA!

Anyways. It's good to hear posts from other gays here on this cool site
:)
 
I'm gay (well homosexual) so guess I should post here. Not much happening on any relationship front at the moment though...
 
SplatChrome said:
I'd love to be in a relationship with a bisexual women who has a preference in forming a serious relationship with a male
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Meh. It's overrated mate. Constant arguments about what sort of porn to watch yer see. She always wants girl on girl, which does nothing for me. ;) S'ok being able to compare notes on hot guys and hot girls though. None of that jealousy thing you get with some when your eyes start to wander, ya know? That's cool. :)

Seriously, a heterosexual relationship between two bisexuals is not without its difficulties. The main difficulty is being able to give proper, full expression to our bi sides. Play-acting, sub/dom role reversals, cross-dressing and strap-on sex don't quite cut it because the headspace is different. They're still heterosexual acts ultimately. Finding people we can express our bi sides with is tough. We don't do solo so have to share, but we have very different tastes and a slightly different circle of potential playmates. Where there is overlap and potential something always seems to get in the way. Neither of us have had much opportunity to indulge our bi sides for far too long. :(
 
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Guess we are lucky as we are both into the same thing. It can get a iittle tense when we are down to the last pipe sometimes. Currently BORED STIFF (xcuse the pun) with shitty opiates. Over NYE tried something new in a club and now want to do that for a bit. We have been messing about for so long lost those sort of contacts. Its so hit and miss scoring in clubs but i am up for a change.
 
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Sepher said:
Meh. It's overrated mate. Constant arguments about what sort of porn to watch yer see. She always wants girl on girl, which does nothing for me. ;) S'ok being able to compare notes on hot guys and hot girls though. None of that jealousy thing you get with some when your eyes start to wander, ya know? That's cool. :)

Seriously, a heterosexual relationship between two bisexuals is not without its difficulties. The main difficulty is being able to give proper, full expression to our bi sides. Play-acting, sub/dom role reversals, cross-dressing and strap-on sex don't quite cut it because the headspace is different. They're still heterosexual acts ultimately. Finding people we can express our bi sides with is tough. We don't do solo so have to share, but we have very different tastes and a slightly different circle of potential playmates. Where there is overlap and potential something always seems to get in the way. Neither of us have had much opportunity to indulge our bi sides for far too long. :(
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I'm not bisexual. I may crossdress and have a part of me that I feel is female, but I do not find me attactive in the least bit. I will not nor ever plan on engaging in sexual activity with a male, even when I'm a female during a period of time (like the day, or the night [not just during sex])

So, they don't nesscarily have to be bi, but it would be nice in some way because I'd like to be a lesbian at times with my partner (when I'm a female). I've actually find one person who this appeals to and would have worked out well (atleast potentiallyrea, wouldn't know till we tried). However, I think that person is out of the question atm which is sadly really unfortunate.
 
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