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How long do I wait after first.. 'date'?

Hmmmmm I had the same situation like me last ex we had sex then got together and I was also in school and so was she so I waited until she had free time and I asked her if we go out so I waited a week and a half really I went with my gut on that one and it worked. What I'm saying is if you like her don't be too clingy but show you care somewhat girls don't like guys that are too clingy and close. Talk to her get to know her and ask her out when your ready dude.
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Right OK so it doesn't matter what most people in town do - if you don't feel the need to go out and get wasted, and also think this lass wouldn't want that, then it sounds like you should go for it. Maybe just contact her and tell her you had a great time, and that you guys should hook up again real soon if she's game??

Depending on her answer then you can say "well in that case you're coming out with me on friday night to this show @..." - just have something to do. Otherwise it's just about sex, and it's evidently not, from what you say. So show her that.
 
secret_lurker said:
I'm torn between wanting to see this girl badly and not appearing clingy.
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the best way to not appear clingy is to not be clingy? :)

do you want to call her? so call her.

the moment you start second-guessing her response and altering your actions accordingly, you're playing games and, in my experience, you're (plural) doomed to failure...

alasdair
 
hiphophippy said:
She sounds like a ho.
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Then OP must be a ho too, then, right?
But on topic, I'm pretty sure that if you sleep with someone and want to see them again, it's not a good idea to play phone games. If you want to call her, call her. she might misinterpret your waiting as seeing her in only one way, or a lack of interest.
 
trooper7 said:
Then OP must be a ho too, then, right?
But on topic, I'm pretty sure that if you sleep with someone and want to see them again, it's not a good idea to play phone games. If you want to call her, call her. she might misinterpret your waiting as seeing her in only one way, or a lack of interest.
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Yes, OP is a Br-Ho. SMH
 
OP why don't you just say you fucked? instead of inferring it...you could've actually just chilled in bed all day and got to know each other for all we know.

RIIIIIIGHT - TOTALLY different ball game - if you wanna call her, call her!
I echo someone else's reply by saying she might think you're only interested in a booty call if you wait to call her, you're both gonna be thinking about each other - sort out another date, which doesn't necessarily have to end up at either of yours.

Make her see you don't just want sex. Or do you? You said you reaaaaally dig her though, so now you've already had your wicked way with her, cool it off a bit - seduce her slowly, and make her see that you respect her. Big ups dude - have fun.
 
Dude always expect the worst if she says she don't wanna see you or she does why it matter you already fucked her move on to the next if your serious try but don't too attached to where it could hurt you
 
No it's not too soon. If you want to call her call her. It's much better to not second guess yourself and she may appreciate your straightforward attitude, don't play games. I called my wife the day after my first date and we talked on the phone all week. She stayed at my place that weekend and we have been together since :)
 
women don't want to be "needed", they want to be appreciated. I have nothing else i can say.

edit: if you want to call, then call. If you like her, she probably likes you back.
 
Treat her like a Lady

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Courtship

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pueI9r7IvMo&feature=related :D<3
 
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Well maybe she might respond to you or I don't know due to the whole phone situation but don't be all like I'm gonna keep bugging til I get an answer send one last one be like message me if anything I'd you wanna talk or what not at you had fun with her I actually had a friend who met this girl this was recent and they had sex and he spent the night at her place and the next morning they woke up and went to go eat breakfast and now he's going to go all the way up to San franciso and go stay with her
What I'm saying is she might be ignoring you cause you just fucked her and left and she didn't like it
 
Well maybe she might respond to you or I don't know due to the whole phone situation but don't be all like I'm gonna keep bugging til I get an answer send one last one be like message me if anything I'd you wanna talk or what not at you had fun with her I actually had a friend who met this girl this was recent and they had sex and he spent the night at her place and the next morning they woke up and went to go eat breakfast and now he's going to go all the way up to San franciso and go stay with her
What I'm saying is she might be ignoring you cause you just fucked her and left and she didn't like it
 
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