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Threesomes, Sexual Exploration & Its Effects

I've had only FMF experiences, so I dunno.

The few FMF experiences did not change anything about our relationship, except make me appreciate how fucking hot my GF is.



Um does giving another guy a bj while your GF watches count as a Mfm?
 
Not so much. I am slightly above average at 6/6.5 (on a good day) and both times I did mfm, they were bigger than I. But I lasted longer than both and one of the guys was a little too long and I always wonder that it could be a bad thing to be 7+ for the average height woman because I sometimes hit the end of her vagina and she says it gets uncomfortable and were both 5'8" so she's pretty tall for a woman. I would think if you were any bigger that you would always have to be aware and not completely let go in the moment. Before I did mfm I thought I could be bigger but now after those experiences I don't want to at all. Made me feel more confident. Never had a girl unsatisfied really either.
 
It was pretty much what I'd expected. They were the couple. I was the third wheel. I was bigger than him, but that wasn't hard to do to be honest. Even he knew that he was less than average and joked about it.
Good times. We're still friends. I'd do it again. Maybe not with them, but with another couple if the moment was right.
 
Just because some guys like to be cuckolded? I don't know how to use cuckold in a sentence, but you can't say it's one of the biggest male fantasies.
With that being said, I have no business being in this thread.
 
DeathDomokun said:
Just because some guys like to be cuckolded? I don't know how to use cuckold in a sentence, but you can't say it's one of the biggest male fantasies.
With that being said, I have no business being in this thread.
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I am not super familiar with the whole cuck thing, its def not my deal; but do you 'cucks' only want to see your women with a man that has a larger tool than yourself? Is it the slight humiliation that turns you guys on? I am above average and (back in my single days) had posted some NSA stuff on CL. I can't tell you how many men I get recruiting me to bang their wife in front of them. They seem to be into younger, fit, hung guys... Different strokes for different folks, I suppose :)
 
If two men blow in a woman their sperm competes to fertilize the egg.

Whichever man comes first has a head start for his sperm.

Therefore whichever man is more turned on by a MFM is more likely to come first and more likely to pass on their genes and their genes contain the coding that makes them more turned on by MFM.

This evolutionary adaption to cheating polyamory and so on unfortunately has the unintended side effect of men seeking out that situation so as to experience the heightened arousal and pleasure.

However it must be beneficial more times than not otherwise evolution would've selected against it by now. Anything that is truly maladaptive is always weeded out by evolution so there must be more wife's cheating than men willingly sharing.
 
Comrade men produce a natural spermicide after they cum so if you cum first the likely hood of the second male be the father are fairly low, My first mfm threesome I about the same size but lasted longer as I always look after my partners needs first then mine I would love to try a fmf threesome but my wife is not really interested in anyone but me so makes it hard to introduce new idea's like this without time and discussion
 
Yet I'm still here

I just can't figure it out, I mean he could have had the MMF with another girl and then found his wife, but if the wife was the female in the MMF, I can't see how 'not being interested in other people' is an excuse to not have a FFM when a MMF is okay
 
"Comrade men produce a natural spermicide after they cum so if you cum first the likely hood of the second male be the father are fairly low"

If true it Supports what I said. Of course any spermicide only has a certain kill rate so the more sperm the second male produces the more likely he will have some remaining to compete.

Of course there's also the in out plunger effect as the penis scoops and sucks sperm out of the woman's vagina.

Oral sex may actually be an adaption from originally a man eating or sucking his competitors sperm from the woman's vagina before placing his own sperm.
 
nobodyspecial said:
Most guys say that FFM is the biggest fantasy but MMF is one of the biggest male fantasy's to see your woman with another man, but not many posters stepping up to this one, I am not surprised.
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FFM only really works well for everyone if the two Fs are bi IME. Kinda difficult for one guy to give full and equal attention to two girls so a helping hand's kinda required. Easier for two guys to give their full attention to one girl in an MMF but helps if both guys are bi there too. Opens up lots more interesting possibilities. ;)

I used to have a bit of a hang-up about my body generally, cock more specifically until I started swinging, yeah. Realised that being strictly average has never been a problem for the people I've played with, enthusiasm, inventiveness, a decent touch and a bit of finesse being way more important than size. I've come across guys who seemed not to get that, as though having more inches than is strictly necessary to hammer away with was the be all and end all, and they didn't have to put so much of their energy into good technique and attentiveness. As a bi dude who's put a fair few hours into looking for potential male playmates I have to say there's a lot of scabby looking sausages out there too! ;) Average and pretty beats massive and looking like a discarded set of giblets at the turkey packing plant every time so generally a lot happier with mine these days by comparison.
 
My only exp was FFM and dare I say it kinda sucked because they weren't bi. Don't get me wrong I had a blast it just was not what i was expecting
 
Sadly enough, I have had a MFM experience, with a girl that was just a friend, and a guy that was just a friend, and not to brag but I felt kind of superior. Not with me and the other dude touching each other, oh no.. mostly just taking turns and getting blown.
Had FmF as well and I wish I could have one every day. I have had nothing but compliments to the size of my thing. I can't even really do anyone doggy style, cause it's uncomfortable for me which sucks, other than that, I guess all the praise is good.

I won't deny that when I had a GF I would often fantasize about her being banged by another male.
And honestly, I really don't think size matters that much. When you're above average in size you're kind of inhibited when you're with certain girls.
 
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