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Is a rubbish blow-job better than no blow-job at all?

Is a rubbish blowjob better than no blowjob at all?

  • Yes

    Votes: 25 31.6%

  • No

    Votes: 36 45.6%

  • I am undecided

    Votes: 6 7.6%

  • I wouldn't know because I don't have a penis

    Votes: 12 15.2%
  • Total voters
    79
  • Poll closed .
I'm not sure? Then again I haven't had sex with anyone in awhile.

If I'm having sex with someone if they do something I don't like I tell them not to do it again, or at all.

A friend of mine who can be a complete dick (no pun) was telling me how he was with some woman in his college dorm and she was giving him a blowjob and how apparently to him it was terrible.

He asked her if it was her first time doing it and she said yes, and he told her "Well you're just plain bad at giving head!" and zipped up.

I hope that didn't scare her off from giving oral sex to men?
 
no. if its not pleasing to me, why do it? teeth suck (NPI) and having a girl just not know what shes doing? id rather just jerk off...or better yet, fuck
 
^^then you tell them so next time its better. thats what i did with my current gf....shes getting better, but when she started, she thought she was doing good, but she really wasnt. communication is key
 
That won't work with everyone. Telling some people they suck in the sack could really, REALLY fuck them off in the head with the value that is placed on sex in society.
 
Thanks for the input, everyone. It looks like the majority (at present) say that a rubbish blow-job is not better than no blow-job at all. Which is my sentiments exactly, looking at it from a female perspective.

I know a woman can be trained (I think I'm a prime example of this), but as a few have mentioned, it takes open communication and a willingness to put in the hard yards (and put up with the blowies during the learning stage).
 
C0TB, if it makes you feel any better.....plenty of guys are TERRIBLE at giving head, and you would think they know better because they HAVE a dick, amirite?? But alas, no.

If I was planning on having future meetings with someone or I was going out with him, then I would definitely be vocal, tactful and supportive about what works and what doesn't. If it is just a one-time only thing though (which tbh most of my encounters are), I don't have the patience to try and educate some dude to keep me happy when I can just go find someone else who already does.
 
Bad blow = no blow imo! Being too violent i.e they look like a nutter slamming their head down on me, or sucking too hard is a no. But teeth grating up and down my shaft!? Behave! I aint gunna go down on her n start gnawing on her bean so I expect as much from them! On contrast I was shaggin this older lass wen I split from my ex and she wouls deep throat! Now, that is good! Ony time a girl has proper deep throated my joystick but damn it was good! Mmmmm
 
Geez guys, if a girl's not doing such a great job, take control and try a different approach. Make her rub your balls while you jerk to her face or something...
 
Pegasus said:
Geez guys, if a girl's not doing such a great job, take control and try a different approach. Make her rub your balls while you jerk to her face or something...
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Or just kick her out, give it up as a bad job, steal her phone when shes not looking maybe her purse and call random girls out of her contacts and ask them to do a better job untill someone obliges!?
 
I guess it depends. I put yes because if I'm with a girl and she's not that great at it, I still appreciate the sentiment - but I've never had any bad 'too-much-teeth' experiences, the less good ones were more like 'bad-rhythm', so I'd probably feel differently if I got a *really* bad BJ.
 
Doesn't matter if you are cut or uncut. Toothy blowjobs aren't any fun. If a girl can't give decent head I'll tell her to stop and do something else. I ain't terribly fond of blowjobs anyway. From the right person in the right situation they are nice.
 
artic said:
Doesn't matter if you are cut or uncut. Toothy blowjobs aren't any fun. If a girl can't give decent head I'll tell her to stop and do something else. I ain't terribly fond of blowjobs anyway. From the right person in the right situation they are nice.
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OK I am not cut and I like it when a man gently chews on the foreskin, licks the inside of it, swallows it while licking the head and inside of my piss slit, or maybe lightly grazes the head of my dick with his teeth and lightly chews on the area where my balls connect to my penis. Then again I like CBT but I didn't like it when a woman tried to masturbate me and dug her nails into my balls and squeezed them tight through my pants. :(

I have never had sex with a man who wore dentures but a friend of mine has, and he said how it's a wonderful feeling when you get sucked off by a man without teeth at all.
 
artic said:
Doesn't matter if you are cut or uncut. Toothy blowjobs aren't any fun. If a girl can't give decent head I'll tell her to stop and do something else. I ain't terribly fond of blowjobs anyway. From the right person in the right situation they are nice.
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You've obviously never been given a great toothy blowjob - I know 2 chicks who can use their teeth to good use while giving head, and I never thought I'd like it either but wow...it can be awesome if they know what they're doing!!

EDIT: BTW I'm cut.
 
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