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Anyone else on here childfree?

Thats all well and good if the child is born to stable, loving supportive parents. Unforunately where i live theres more single mothers on the breadline than ever before, who probably still need mothering themselves.
That's all the more reason to have your own kids. As my mum always said,"there are more of them than there are of us, and they're breeding twice as fast". You can't complain if the world turns to shit and you don't do anything to help.

my girlfriend doesn't want kids of her own because it would ruin her vagina. That is fine by me, she is lucky I already have two awesome kids that she can help shape and mould into super humans together.
 
I don't think I'm in a rush... Ehh maybe 30 did have something to do with it tho - Is one year older than 29. ;)

I guess I should have gave more background leading up to 30 for the understanding of my change of heart. I'm not going to go into a historic wonder bus of the hell I put my body and life through but I'm sure everyone can imagine what lies there. Anyway a few years ago I started trying to clean out the bad and that's when I changed my mind about kids. I, yes I deserve to have a child and would be a great mom and teacher. Now...... my 25 year old ass would have been in the breadline, lol. That's what I meant I guess.

Perp Indul: I so respect people that "know". I think everyone has the right to be happy and if you know what makes you happy then your ahead of the game. I just think its sad when people know its not for them and have them anyway for the wrong reasons.
 
I dont want to turn this into some sort of conspiracy, but:

I find it quite interesting, that the majority of people who use drugs, do not want children. However, the majority of people i know who do not use drugs, definitely want kids at some point. I find it odd that while you may believe it or not, the Illuminati wants as many people on drugs as possible, and they also want to depopulate the planet. Preventing the inner, built in desire to have children from effecting us, is definitely playing into there hands...

just something to think about? I dont think its a coincidence. And if you dont believe the world is ruled by elites then w/e, your just ignorant.
 
I don't think I'm in a rush... Ehh maybe 30 did have something to do with it tho - Is one year older than 29. ;)

I guess I should have gave more background leading up to 30 for the understanding of my change of heart. I'm not going to go into a historic wonder bus of the hell I put my body and life through but I'm sure everyone can imagine what lies there. Anyway a few years ago I started trying to clean out the bad and that's when I changed my mind about kids. I, yes I deserve to have a child and would be a great mom and teacher. Now...... my 25 year old ass would have been in the breadline, lol. That's what I meant I guess.

Perp Indul: I so respect people that "know". I think everyone has the right to be happy and if you know what makes you happy then your ahead of the game. I just think its sad when people know its not for them and have them anyway for the wrong reasons.

We get wiser and know for certain what we want. For me anyway. Maturity thats all and maybe youve seen what others have. Maybe, i only said the 30 thing because thats what happened my friends almost straight away. 5 years ago though, i would have had a conniption but now i would embrace the shit out of it :)
 
I turn 30 in a few months and kids have never been on my radar. With working towards my career starting a family won't be a realistic possibility for at least another 6-10 years. By then I will be too old. Plus if my brother has kids (which he's planning on doing in the next couple years) I'll have nieces and nephews which is probably good enough for me. I've never really been a family man and have a hard enough time keeping a girl for more than a month or so, so there's no way I could hold a family together. Plus its too much fun being selfish and self centered. :p
 
I dont want to turn this into some sort of conspiracy, but:

I find it quite interesting, that the majority of people who use drugs, do not want children. However, the majority of people i know who do not use drugs, definitely want kids at some point. I find it odd that while you may believe it or not, the Illuminati wants as many people on drugs as possible, and they also want to depopulate the planet. Preventing the inner, built in desire to have children from effecting us, is definitely playing into there hands...

just something to think about? I dont think its a coincidence. And if you dont believe the world is ruled by elites then w/e, your just ignorant.

Looks like I'm in the minority, then. I have never done drugs and will never do drugs lol. I've never even had a drink! Wtf is an illuminati?
 
I dont want to turn this into some sort of conspiracy, but:

I find it quite interesting, that the majority of people who use drugs, do not want children. However, the majority of people i know who do not use drugs, definitely want kids at some point. I find it odd that while you may believe it or not, the Illuminati wants as many people on drugs as possible, and they also want to depopulate the planet. Preventing the inner, built in desire to have children from effecting us, is definitely playing into there hands...

just something to think about? I dont think its a coincidence. And if you dont believe the world is ruled by elites then w/e, your just ignorant.

its good that ppl who do drugs dont want babies. and i have noticed that most sober ppl do what kids at some point in their lives all the ones i know do lol
 
I dont want to turn this into some sort of conspiracy, but:

I find it quite interesting, that the majority of people who use drugs, do not want children. However, the majority of people i know who do not use drugs, definitely want kids at some point. I find it odd that while you may believe it or not, the Illuminati wants as many people on drugs as possible, and they also want to depopulate the planet. Preventing the inner, built in desire to have children from effecting us, is definitely playing into there hands...

just something to think about? I dont think its a coincidence. And if you dont believe the world is ruled by elites then w/e, your just ignorant.

Many drug users may not want a kid in the way to spoil the fun.

Others may realise their lifestyle is not presently well suited to raising small children.

Perhaps some, who but for drug use would need a kid to fill the hours of their lives to give themselves a purpose; perhaps they are content right now on their quest for the perfect toke.
 
It seems like many drug users have kids and want to have kids. Sure, bluelighters might not want kinds, over-all, but we aren't in the majority of drug users by any means.
The drug users who are successful in their lives usually are the ones who don't want kids, and those tend to be the ones aware of harm reduction, so go figure. It's a shame though, because like someone said, you don't have to be the single mom in the breadline, you could raise well-adjusted kids who are well informed about drugs and such.
Plus just think of it like another little human being to hang out with! Just be real with them.

Plus guys need kids because they need more hands to feed the chickens and milk the cows and plow the fields and such, so that makes sense. ;)

Moonyham, I think it's the opposite: elites want people to be so buried in the responsibility of feeding all these little mouths. That makes it so they feel the need to get in debt to get a house, credit card, spend more on random shit, etc.
I do agree that they want people on drugs though, especially opiates. Most highly creative people that are middle/working class, and reasonably intelligent and street smart, that I've known all got hooked on some kind of drug, usually it was painkillers, and they were too busy with that to pursue any of the dynamic ideas they would talk about.
 
Perp Indul: I so respect people that "know". I think everyone has the right to be happy and if you know what makes you happy then your ahead of the game. I just think its sad when people know its not for them and have them anyway for the wrong reasons.

Exactly. I will bear no child to primarily please another person or people. I have seen what it does to a marriage.
My neighbours of the same age appear to be in this situation with their 9 month old.
 
I've always wonder why people want kids in this day and age, they've become obsolete.
 
If I could adopt a teenager-13-14, I'd take them for their first tattoo, piercing, drink, strip club, etc. It could be fun. But as far as children? Noope. I have a nicece I honestly cannot stand. All she does is DEMAND, dragging you around by your finger and putting you in "time out" if you try to continue the conversation she interrupted. she's cute... In pictures. I feel so distant from my sister since she had her kid (she's 28, not a teen mom by any means) it's changed her. She knew she always wanted a kid, and I always knew I didn't. I love animals, and I satisfy my nurturing needs with a cat and my two beautiful girls, a chihuahua and shihtzu. teenagers are fun... But most of my friends (including ym boyfriend) act like they're 13, so I'm set. I'd be relieved if I found out I couldn't have kids. I wouldn't panic every time I felt nauseous in the morning or started a day late. Even with 3 combined methods of birth control I'm paranoid about ending up pregnant.
 
Can't even take care of myself, lol. Raising children is too much responsibility.

The future looks sooo grim now too, why would anyone want to bring life into this world unless they had lotsa $$$ or a nice home in the country.

I'd rather influence someone else's kids.

Not to mention how bad the schools are in my town.

A 35-year old friend of mine had a kid by mistake (she wouldn't get abortion), got divorced and now has to pay $800/mo.

Neither of my sisters have children either. Mom is a supporter of limiting population growth. She bought "The Population Bomb" in the 60s when the book was published.
 
i never wanted kids. im 32, my wife is 28 and we decided not having kids. our life is pretty fuckin amazing, if you ask me, and i really cant see how a kid would fit our lifestyle. we are considering adopting a kid in africa, like, changing someone's life for good. but not now. maybe never.
 
i recently registered to be a sperm donor, so from an evolutionary perspective, it's basically the same thing.

i'd like to have kids one day. emphasis on 'one day', i'm currently 18^
 
29 years old, no kids for me so far. My current stance on kids is still "Don't want one, don't want to be around them".
 
Actually, after having said "never say never", I reckon I can happily say that I will NEVER have children.
 
I have no kids, have no plans to have them, and would rather undergo a a root canal and a colonoscopy at the same time then have to deal with kids.

just as well, they don't like me either, and neither do their parents. Their parents can enjoy a Dodge Caravan and a stroller to go to a PTA meeting, I'll enjoy taking my Ducati 999 to an afterhours instead.
 
I have no kids, have no plans to have them, and would rather undergo a a root canal and a colonoscopy at the same time then have to deal with kids.

just as well, they don't like me either, and neither do their parents. Their parents can enjoy a Dodge Caravan and a stroller to go to a PTA meeting, I'll enjoy taking my Ducati 999 to an afterhours instead.

LOL!!! Amen brotha. I have a Ninja and a sports car. I would want to shoot myself if I had a van.
 
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