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ever blown a good opportunity with a nice girl/guy through too much drugs/alcohol??

I'm starting to think I've been living a sheltered life. Been knocking about with a wee crowd for a while now (some I already knew) and its like a fuckin soap opera. Everyones knocking off everyone else and its starting to make me feel a bit uneasy lol. I don't know how they're going about it as I know 90% of the birds involved just as well as all the other fuckers do! I think I might just be a bit slow on the uptake maybe???
 
Not so much I screwed a relationship cause of drugs but one night out I saw this chick that I thought was hot for a good while. She worked in a pub I drank in and it was hard to get chatting to her and that might have been because she was foreign and not sure if her country were part of the EU at the time and maybe she was working illegalaly or something and didn't want to give much away cause whenever I asked where she was from she would say not from around here. Anyway, I saw her out one night in the local club and myself + mates were on Bangers (Ecstasy) so I had to get chattin to her when I saw her. So I went up to her and she wasn't giving me a sec as I looked at her beautiful neck and ears and face and overall (on the luv buzz from the pills!!!) but I kept trying and she seemed to finally open up to me looking even more beautiful and then her friend came along but just as her friend arrived I was still chatting away as my chewing gum fell out of my mouth and into my pint of water! I thought bollix as I kept looking at her and pretending nothing happened. Both of them saw what had happened and the friend grabbed her saying come on lets get out of here and that was it. She must have finished her job in the pub and I didn't see her around for ages after that which was probably best. Not sure if she was a pill popper so couldn't make a joke of it in case she disagreed with drug taking.
 
whitedove said:
Not so much I screwed a relationship cause of drugs but one night out I saw this chick that I thought was hot for a good while. She worked in a pub I drank in and it was hard to get chatting to her and that might have been because she was foreign and not sure if her country were part of the EU at the time and maybe she was working illegalaly or something and didn't want to give much away cause whenever I asked where she was from she would say not from around here. Anyway, I saw her out one night in the local club and myself + mates were on Bangers (Ecstasy) so I had to get chattin to her when I saw her. So I went up to her and she wasn't giving me a sec as I looked at her beautiful neck and ears and face and overall (on the luv buzz from the pills!!!) but I kept trying and she seemed to finally open up to me looking even more beautiful and then her friend came along but just as her friend arrived I was still chatting away as my chewing gum fell out of my mouth and into my pint of water! I thought bollix as I kept looking at her and pretending nothing happened. Both of them saw what had happened and the friend grabbed her saying come on lets get out of here and that was it. She must have finished her job in the pub and I didn't see her around for ages after that which was probably best. Not sure if she was a pill popper so couldn't make a joke of it in case she disagreed with drug taking.
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Half way through reading that mate... I could have sworn you where about to say she was really a fella... after the part about the beautiful neck and ears and stuff8( Blaming it on the pills and such.
 
whitedove said:
Not so much I screwed a relationship cause of drugs but one night out I saw this chick that I thought was hot for a good while. She worked in a pub I drank in and it was hard to get chatting to her and that might have been because she was foreign and not sure if her country were part of the EU at the time and maybe she was working illegalaly or something and didn't want to give much away cause whenever I asked where she was from she would say not from around here. Anyway, I saw her out one night in the local club and myself + mates were on Bangers (Ecstasy) so I had to get chattin to her when I saw her. So I went up to her and she wasn't giving me a sec as I looked at her beautiful neck and ears and face and overall (on the luv buzz from the pills!!!) but I kept trying and she seemed to finally open up to me looking even more beautiful and then her friend came along but just as her friend arrived I was still chatting away as my chewing gum fell out of my mouth and into my pint of water! I thought bollix as I kept looking at her and pretending nothing happened. Both of them saw what had happened and the friend grabbed her saying come on lets get out of here and that was it. She must have finished her job in the pub and I didn't see her around for ages after that which was probably best. Not sure if she was a pill popper so couldn't make a joke of it in case she disagreed with drug taking.
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tm1210mk2 said:
Half way through reading that mate... I could have sworn you where about to say she was really a fella... after the part about the beautiful neck and ears and stuff8( Blaming it on the pills and such.
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Not that exciting!
Funny looking back but not as easy to get the story across properly typed out to be honest
 
Argh it seems so easy for most people on here, easy to meet girls, to get into all the one night stands, or longer term reliationships, casual or serious. It isnt easy for me, being one of those sad bastards who finds it hard to talk to girls. I had my fair share of girlfriends in school, but that was always easy "my mate fancies you" etc, and ive only had one long term relationship in my adult life.

Countless times on nights out, i would say drugs/alcohol have helped create opportunities for me, as when i'd taken any substances i would generally have been having a good time and looked approachable, and i would get plenty of hints from the opposite sex ranging from the subtle to the very obvious that i was welcome to talk to them. Shyness has always held me back though; and when i hadnt made my move after a little while, they always moved on ofcourse.

Unlike some of the sex gods in this thread ive only had a girl literally throw herself on me once; i was in a band at that time, allbeit one of the most awful bands you would ever have heard, but that didnt seem to matter to her lol.

My last night out was very depressing in terms of generating any interest from the opposite sex. I did get one tasty young girl in her early twenties dancing next to me and giving me the come on until her mates quickly dragged her away. I'm trying not to read too much into that lol, but the implications are pretty obvious. The only other come on i got that night was from a much older woman who reminded me of my Gran.

It seems the key is to feel and look together and confident. Neither of which i am at the moment, so ive rarely being going out atall recently. I keep telling myself that i dont care and that im happy on my own. To an extent that is true, i am very self-sufficient but still i miss not having my share of one night stands and relationships.
 
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Not so much I screwed a relationship cause of drugs but one night out I saw this chick that I thought was hot for a good while. She worked in a pub I drank in and it was hard to get chatting to her and that might have been because she was foreign and not sure if her country were part of the EU at the time and maybe she was working illegalaly or something and didn't want to give much away cause whenever I asked where she was from she would say not from around here. Anyway, I saw her out one night in the local club and myself + mates were on Bangers (Ecstasy) so I had to get chattin to her when I saw her. So I went up to her and she wasn't giving me a sec as I looked at her beautiful neck and ears and face and overall (on the luv buzz from the pills!!!) but I kept trying and she seemed to finally open up to me looking even more beautiful and then her friend came along but just as her friend arrived I was still chatting away as my chewing gum fell out of my mouth and into my pint of water! I thought bollix as I kept looking at her and pretending nothing happened. Both of them saw what had happened and the friend grabbed her saying come on lets get out of here and that was it. She must have finished her job in the pub and I didn't see her around for ages after that which was probably best. Not sure if she was a pill popper so couldn't make a joke of it in case she disagreed with drug taking.
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Sorry if this sounds like I'm being a dick but it sounds like a lack of enthusiasm for the task at hand and a lack of persistance were your problems.
 
My most recent cock up: Texting someone at half 4 in the morning to say they're as good as smack.
As someone relatively drug naive, she was less than impressed.
 
lol meeting the ex again was a mistake, just a day and night from the past then shes gone again, makes me want escapeism in any/every form
 
MyDruggyBuddy - "aye up beautiful! fancy a night to remember?"
average looking girl - "ummmm NO!"
MyDruggyBuddy - "...fine, rohypnol it is then!"

:D
 
i was out in a club at the weekend, this fit good looking girl came up to me she was bumping and grinding against me and said "so are you gonna buy me a drink then?"
I ran to the bar came back with a drink for her, she necked it. So being the gentleman i asked "fancy another?"... "yes" she replied. so i ran to the bar again...
This went on about 10 times! so i said to her "i bet your the kind of girl who gets lads to buy them drinks all nights and gives them nothing in return at the end of the night huh?"
"oooh youve worked me out already, yeh ill be honest i always do it"
I whispered in her ear "well... not tonight" as I waved an empty bottle of Rohypnol in front of her
 
I was away with a friend in Cyprus at the time sweet age of 16. was at one of the hotel bars when we came across a couple of 25 year old ladies from Glasgow. was extremely happy with myself when i managed to convince one back to the room (the other was engaged) anyway didn't manage to get back to the hotel room ended up on the floor outside a chapel but my little soldier was not standing to attention believe me we tried for a good while. was shocked abit but took her back to the room anyway to try again. my friend was shocked when i came in grinning looking for a high 5 when i told him what had happened (she was in the toilet) anyway cracked open another beer from the mini fridge which probably didn't help but still couldn't get it up. me being the friend i am i let my mate have ago leaving the room for a fag, said i may come back in and join them if they get started. i came back in but that was the last thing on my mind, was violently sick over the two of them as i was unable to make it to the toilet. still piss myself laughing at this 2day that was definitely a first time he wont forget hahaha (fortunately haven't had this problem since but every true man has a soldier down story)

also was with my friend at a club a few month back in the beer garden. there was a girl he liked of. this was excessive drinking and half a gram bomb of mdma. one minute he told he me was going to speak to her i stood up to see how he got on and moved closer to get a better look. next thing i see him leaning against the side of her with his trousers half way down!! loool the look on this poor girls face was unforgettable
 
I've done the clever thing this time and been totally honest with this bird I like that I've had my problems with drugs since the last time we met. Told her all the stuff about court and that I'm potentially looking at a few months sometime soon for dealing. Also she knows it was me was the other boy admitted to intensive care when the lad she was in school with died on those Einstein pills. So at least this way I'm not trying to duck and dive about like I have attempted to do previously. Can't be fucked with being dishonest about stuff anymore plus I really like her so no point messing around. Just have to keep my drug use in check and not be a completely unreliable idiot, shouldn't be too hard though since I kicked the stims! :)
 
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