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Say something you can't say to their face

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I'd say it to their face lol,, but I guess that's what gets me in trouble,,,Soooo, this is what I'd say.. "If you can't back your shit up and u know what the f your doing is wrong and you're confronted more than twice, bitch expect what you get. Don't fucking go crying to the wonderful law." If you're an adult, you know right from wrong. You make the choice and right or wrong expect the consequences. Fucking sucks on my end though ugh.
 
If you're going to drop out of university at the last minute, please kindly be a failure and a thieving scumbag somewhere else. Your attempt to cheat the landlord has cost us the flat and forced us to move in 2 months, while you drop out and fuck off to another city. I'm so glad that your year of preaching how hard worked and morally superior you are has ended with as much hollowness as I expected. You clearly don't have it in you to work hard, to be a man who pays his keep, and while we're at it, who remains faithful to his girlfriend of God knows how long (lying about being in an open relationship and cheating on her multiple times, while sneering at me because your a self styled feminist and LGBTQ representative makes you a hypocrite and a rat, next time you bemoan how men disrespect women look in a mirror and learn some self awareness you asshole. Regardless of my sexuality I know without being told that cheating is wrong and I don't need a medal for such an obvious conviction).

I can understand you fucking me over. You've always disliked me and bitched about me when you thought I couldn't hear you. But what really gets me is you could have collapsed my flatmates entire year of work, she is on the cusp of getting the best results in her year. You know what a star she is. And you fucked her anyway, without a second thought you just pissed all over her with her biggest work weeks away. You run the risk of causing a woman working at her degree 10 hours every single day to have a breakdown, because you are a selfish asshole. You don't care. And suggesting she ask for dubious student accommodation that costs nearly double what we pay in rent as an aside to get her to just forget your irresponsibility and selfishness...short and sweet because even writing this down is making me irrationally angry...go fuck yourself you snake.
 
I dont want to come to work because I am too lazy and you were dumb to employ me.
 
You're stuck so deep up your own ass you can't see life happening around you. It's passing you by.
 
Let's see YOU do this, you pussy.

Mine is absolutely worse, on every level. Yet here I am. You're just as excuse making little bitch who acts like a violent bastard yet deep down you're a fucking coward.

Kiss my ass.

Both cheeks.
 
Cogari said:
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That's minging. You deserve better than that. At first glance it's a little funny, but I wouldn't want to be like that with someone dirty, and if they think it's cool be repulsive on you then they're a dirtbag. But I'm no expert, sex to me is something you dance about because of the luck afterwards :L why the fuck would you not even clean your shit up XD
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Actively working on getting duckies in a row to divorce this jackass. Bad health problems have slowed my ability to walk away down but I'll get there.

Xoxo
 
I let it all out, all of my grievances about how you were in the past, and how you were bad for me. Asking how you could talk to me while apparently thinking reducing male domestic abuse centres was fine because straight men are apparently entitled and you've had it harder. And you falsely accuse me of raping you in the past and block me before I can respond. Lying about something as evil and as horrifying as rape is the lowest thing a person can do.

I was right to rid myself of you. I cannot understand why you would lie about that, why not just use any other insult? Even the accusation makes me feel filthy. I would rather die than abuse anyone. And unlike you, pretending that you have it hard with a 3 person polyamorous relationship lasting for years, I do actually know what real abuse feels like. You've hurt me beyond the capacity to even really react with emotion. You disgust me. The only think keeping me going is the fact that I know how many people would snigger at my passing, and I'm not letting my enemies crow over my corpse.
 
ABetterWay said:
Actively working on getting duckies in a row to divorce this jackass. Bad health problems have slowed my ability to walk away down but I'll get there.

Xoxo
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Good, best of luck to you getting away. I hope you do as soon as possible, and well done for sticking it out. I'm hoping if you choose another the next person will be worth your time.
 
That the man I dated who was 28 years younger than me was the best man I ever met. Goes out to both of our families. He tragically died last year.
 
^^ I'm so sorry, to hear that, love.

It's coming up on one year that an ex of mine - who is dear to me and who I SHOULD HAVE made a go with it with - took his own life. The pain can be unbearable, the shoulda coulda woulda.... My God.

Wishing you peace and serenity. I know it hurts.

Xoxox
 
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Good, best of luck to you getting away. I hope you do as soon as possible, and well done for sticking it out. I'm hoping if you choose another the next person will be worth your time.
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Thank you sincerely. It's overwhelming but I can't fucking WAIT to never, ever, ever have to see him again.

And while I would eventually love to find love, that's going to wait until I'm all healed up and looking through confident, joyful eyes.

There are good men, good people, out there. And one day I'll have mine.

Best of luck to you in your struggles as well, dear. Xoxo
 
Cld say this to ur face, but I'm not contacting you again. Apparently, you're too "catatonic with anxiety",to call me & apologise. Because you were "high every time we spoke".

After a year of no communication, you got in touch gradually again through BL, then via mobile, as you so missed my "friendship".

After only talking several days,- albeit almost 24 hrs per day,(as over the 12 mths your marriage had turned to shit), you declared you had had feelings for me ever since we'd connected here. That you were falling for me.

I'd not consciously registered that id missed you also until we began talking again. While you said it first, I felt butterflies every time we spoke.

You told your wife you were speaking with me again. You told me she was not happy about it as you no longer cared.

You told her you were in love with me. That you wanted to be with me. Which, well, I don't know the truth, - you've made it sound as though you're truly done.

I heard about the fights, the "filth" the night u called them, the parents involved, arguments, lawyer etc,

It also just happened that close to my area you had not only some family, but the chance to finally get your shot at doing what you were most passionate about, music.

Oh, the things we talked about, you being the one to show me that not all men are arseholes. How I was your princess & even if my ring finger was bare.

As days grew into weeks, you said such beautiful things to me. I to you. You told me you'd always be with me. We spoke of converting my garage into a music studio.

Lol, even that my darling father, (rip dad), was talking to you in your dreams.,"Guidance".

A few days where you disappeared or neglected to answer the phone... Or made phony excuses why u couldn't talk.


From the printouts of our texts, (all 1062 that i could not stand to hv on my ph), you cannot decide if you manipulated me as to ensure their was no going back to your Wife, (as you continue to call her).

Or if you cannot look me in the eyes during FaceTime or Skype & tell me you do not love me, as that's not possible.

The heartbreak I felt that chilled me to my bones however, was that yes, you do have your own problems, and as I read our thread of msgs...

I occasionally used the words,- "really unwell", "rapid weightloss", "Karl the kidney specialist", "terminal", "malignancy", at times as I attempted to let you show some empathy/self awareness.

NOT ONCE DID YOU EVEN SHOW A SENSE THAT YOU HAD READ, NOTICED, UNDERSTOOD, INTERPRETED ANY OF THIS!

SO FUCK OFF. Already you mean nothing to me.

The BL guidelines clearly say, "Don't be a Cunt",
I'd say that applies to life in general too.

Mods, pls let me keep this one up, no personal details,����.

Rtp
 
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Yeah, it was kinda long. What gives u the authority to say "stop"?

Another person with too much time on their hands? AKA mod?

Rtp xx
 
After years of rejection from you and a mixmatched libido. I'm no longer attracted to you and often fantasize about the men I work with- old, young, fat, thin, -I could go for any. I catch myself imagining scenarios when I'm alone with one of them and how I would seduce them. Its messed up I know. I get myself wet daily daydreaming about sucking my bosses balls, haha. All of the sudden your face and body are not what turns me on, it actually does the opposite. This time last year I would beg for intimacy at least once a month (though I could have gone 2-4x's daily), but now the thought of you makes me queasy. For the past 10 years I have used my dildo much more often than we've fucked because of your low libido, now I use it because I like it better. The way you breathe turns me off, lmao. I still am a horny girl, just not for you.
 
You promised me that you'd change and I still have yet to see it. You're still everything I want
 
Is that true that people don't change. Or maybe they do in different ways. I'd prefer to think it's possible.
 
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