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Would you date women who are racist against Blacks?

hunterxhunter

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For a very long time, I would join those online dating sites, be it honest dating or swingers (sex hookup) sites. Can't count how many times I would read women's profiles, prohibiting any relationships with black men. Know the real sad part? It's not just white chicks who do this. To make matters worse, I can find a large number of internet sex workers (called escorts) who will blatantly state they will not provide service to Black gentlemen. I'm not asking why women are doing this as I have a fairly good idea why. The question is: Men, would you date/hire/marry someone like this? Is it a choice? A preference? Or just plain unfair? Or something else?

Your answers please.
 
Well, some women say they only date black guys... Does that make them prejudice against white guys? No, not really. They just have a preference and attraction for black men. It's nothing against white men.

It would be like me saying I like Corvettes, but I have no interest in getting a Mustang.

By the way, a lot of women won't date Asian guys. I know several white women who won't date white men. And there are a lot of women who only date Hispanic men, and any other race is down the list.

This same concept can go with height. A lot of women won't date a guy below 5'9 ft. It's pretty much the same concept. It's a preference.

I don't date obese women.. Nothing against them, but that's my preference. I won't date anorexic women either.

Maybe on these dating sites, these women are getting a lot of hits from black men. So, in their profile, to make things easier for everyone.. If they don't have a preference for black men, they just say it up front.

I would rather a girl say she didn't date white men on her profile vs. me hitting her up and finding out. Do I get offended? Not at all... I think I would be a little hyper sensitive if I did.
 
hmm it does seem racist BUT i am more attracted to certain races- i rarely find black men attractive but i often find orientals hot.

at the same time i wouldn't put it up i.e. dont bother me messaging me if you are *insert race*.

A. because people ignore what you read and message you anyway
and
B. because its a nasty attitude to put out there

who gives a shit if you get messages from people you dont fancy. do people not understand dating sites? 90% of messages fall into this category
 
The question is: Men, would you date/hire/marry someone like this? Is it a choice? A preference? Or just plain unfair? Or something else?

We don't live in some multi-cultural paradise where all creeds and colours live beneath a rainbow of orgasmic wonderment.. the world just doesn't work like that. People have preferences. It doesn't bother me if a woman has that preference at all. Personally I'm not interested in black women or women with darker skin, I just don't find them sexually attractive.
 
hmm it does seem racist BUT i am more attracted to certain races- i rarely find black men attractive but i often find orientals hot.

at the same time i wouldn't put it up i.e. dont bother me messaging me if you are *insert race*.

A. because people ignore what you read and message you anyway
and
B. because its a nasty attitude to put out there

who gives a shit if you get messages from people you dont fancy. do people not understand dating sites? 90% of messages fall into this category


You gave a good point pofacedhoe. I'm really the most attracted to Caucasian women, but I would never put that on my profile that I have a racial preference. It does set off a certain tone that isn't nice but... I don't mind reading a woman's profile saying she didn't have a preference for me because of my race, height, or status. It would save some of my energy.

hunterxhunter uses the term racist which I think is incorrect. A racist is someone that despises another race. I wouldn't go that far with it.

I think most people in general are a little biased and prejudice. When I say prejudice, it doesn't necessarily mean against a particular race.. but it can be a combination of things like: Someone being different than you, different culture, political, religious, gender, sexual orientation, etc., etc.

I find myself being prejudice against particular white groups. It's usually the white trash "often meth heads or drunks" living in trailer parks. And the typical white man in a wife beater that abuses his wife. So, I'm technically prejudice against my own race. I'm being very stereo typical here.
 
I wouldn't date someone who was racist like that.

I get it, some people find other races more attractive. But saying no just because someone is a race? There is a difference.
 
i have kids of different races, so no to long-term dating or marriage.

short term? idgaf!
 
Not dating black men is not necessarily racist.

As for a girl who is definitely racist she could get a.pump and dump if she's hot but that's it i have no respect or time for racists.
 
You gave a good point pofacedhoe. I'm really the most attracted to Caucasian women, but I would never put that on my profile that I have a racial preference. It does set off a certain tone that isn't nice but... I don't mind reading a woman's profile saying she didn't have a preference for me because of my race, height, or status. It would save some of my energy.

hunterxhunter uses the term racist which I think is incorrect. A racist is someone that despises another race. I wouldn't go that far with it.

I think most people in general are a little biased and prejudice. When I say prejudice, it doesn't necessarily mean against a particular race.. but it can be a combination of things like: Someone being different than you, different culture, political, religious, gender, sexual orientation, etc., etc.

I find myself being prejudice against particular white groups. It's usually the white trash "often meth heads or drunks" living in trailer parks. And the typical white man in a wife beater that abuses his wife. So, I'm technically prejudice against my own race. I'm being very stereo typical here.


basically i have my preferences but if i read "blah blah no blacks" i'm like why would i date that dickhead?
 
basically i have my preferences but if i read "blah blah no blacks" i'm like why would i date that dickhead?

Yeah, I definitely hear you. It is a turn off to see someone making a laundry list of personal preferences. I'd much rather see someone saying, "I'm just looking for a genuine person who I have chemistry with." Much better..

I've actually seen highly unattractive obese women on dating sites making personal preference lists ranging from: status, income level, height, race, and even penis size. I'm like seriously, you're probably a 2 on the scale of 10, and you're limiting yourself to 1 out of 50 men. Are you freakin' serious?!

I think dating sites are a joke. The ratio to men to women is like over 5 to 1, so it doesn't work. I'd much rather approach a woman in the public and ask her out. At least she can see my personality from the get go.
 
Well its their choice with whom they want to be with and have sex. Its their own decision , I don't see any racism in this.
 
only if she was black...

Sitting here typing this answer while discussing this with my mulatto half black half mulatto friend saff - she's racist against black people coz well this "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g6fUwPHMUt0"

Nah other than this no for sure not - seriously, I do not like to date actively ignorant people.
 
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I know some guys who only date Asian women. They will not even try to approach anyone else. Without exception they are rather nasty types - their choice of women is not based on the person but on the concept that Asian women are more readily subjugated to their men.

It's an almighty shock when they bring such women to Australia and find 12 months later the women have discovered they do not need to be slaves. :D

Any time someone uses a stereotype or anything except 'Who is this person" to judge another, there is something wrong... in the Judger, not the person being judged.
 
Anybody see the nobel peace prize for equality with Islam going on right now? lol.

Super dope. Sitar on CNN introducted by a black man serving second term.

Yup.

8:)D
 
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Would it be prejudice if I put on my profile, "I only date women with hairy pussies!"

Would I be discriminating against clean shaven pussies?

Maybe I should put I date all pussies of age 18-99. So, I could make everyone feel equal & happy :D

PLUR :)
 
It would not turn me away, no.

It is definitely not "unfair".

Fuck this PC bullshit.
 
Political Correctness is "Hip" these days!

It changed The Lounge for the greater good!

PC thrives in the P&CE forum!
 
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