^ I agree... I'm 31 and really not sure. My parents divorced when I was 2 and when I grew up my mum had a string of relationships until she settled with her current husband. I felt like a suitcase even though she loved me very much (as did my father, and step-dads to be fair). Still, I wouldn't want to be a single mum if I can help it. It really takes over your life and can be sooo lonely and isolating. I live in a different country to where my family is and wouldn't move back there to bring up a child. I work with children in a therapeutic role and love it, but when I'm off work I like having my space... I also enjoy going out, doing drugs, being promiscuous and what would happen to that? On the other hand I'm torn because I can see this being something I'll regret on my deathbed, an experience I missed out on and can't even imagine what it'd be like, so tbh I am curious. So my stance is - if I end up in a relationship and a financial position where having children is a possibility, and if my partner and I decide we want to then I probably will. If this doesn't happen - nevermind, I love my job and my friends and I'm a happy person overall, it won't be the end of the world. I don't need children to give my life meaning. Ultimately, if it happens it happens, what I refuse to do is force it. I wouldn't become a single mum for the sake of it, and I absolutely refuse to do what some of my friends my age are doing - going on dates thinking "is he good father material" not "do I fancy him" 8)