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Why don't women have paraphilias/fetishes at the rate that men do?

ChemicallyEnhanced said:
Well, that's everybody isn't it? I remember in my (Catholic) school they were like ANYTHING BUT MISSIONARY-POSITION SEX BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN IN WEDLOCK FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROCREATION IS A SIN AND IMMORAL.
I was like LOL OK.
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I edited my post - it wasn't accurate.

I'd say anything you don't tell a casual friend. The magazine thing is 1 standard dev.
 
Gormur said:
Not true. I discuss sexual stuff with guys and never with women
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Well, you are a guy no? Sooo that would make sense.

I mean, it seems obvious to me that hetero men and women are probably gonna be more inclined to talk to the same sex about this stuff. I mean it sounds awkward to me talking to a casual male friend about sex with other guys.
 
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Gormur said:
Not true. I discuss sexual stuff with guys and never with women
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Yeah, I'd discuss (most) sexual stuff with another guy, but I'd feel uncomfortable talking about anything sexual with a woman, but that's mostly because I'm not sexually attracted to women and have no interest in discussing ANYTHING sex related with them unless we're close friends. Also probably partially become my mother is the biggest prude ever and anything even slightly related to sex was very taboo and not talked about.
 
They do but I am guessing most are not as open about it? Or it depends upon other factors, go on fetlife and you will meet lots of women who have fetishes.
 
This is a patent falsehood, women are 100% more kinky and have weird turn ons than men. Without fail.

I don't consider myself to be any cassanova but I've come across womenn who wanted to me to shout at them and call them my black bitch (I was uncomfortable with that), women that can't come unless I tell them they're an embrrasment and everyon'es ashamed of them, women that wanted me to choke them to death as I was fucking them, women that like being pissed on, women that wouldn't leave me alone until I fucked them so hard and they were so sore they were passing out during sex, women that I could make cum just by squeezing their things at the right time......

Honestly, women are WAY dirtier than men.
 
cos men are more horny bastards than women. Not me though fuckin meds wont get me a boner. all good ill just take 2 viagra pills shouldn't interfere with my beta blockers
 
Audiobook said:
We just don’t tell the entire world is the thing.
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I think this is pretty much the answer.

Women definitely have lots of sexual kinks and paraphilias. We are just good at making it seem like every individual woman with those desires is a lone exception. ;)

Whereas men do the opposite, they make it look like every man is a sexual deviant just waiting to unleash all his no doubt sick fantasies. :D
 
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For men sex is a bigger priority. Talk to any FTM trans person. They can tell you what changes when they become men.

When sex is a bigger priority, all their psychology gets wrapped up in it, which means all the unusual, eccentric or freaky deaky things in their subconscious get manifested through their sex nature.
 
Because men in their lizard brains are dogs...yes fucking dogs. When in situations where we can dominate one another we cornhole the shit outta each other. We cornhole our buddies. We fuck just about anything if we can and not get caught and shamed. Yup....fucking dogs!
 
cowardescent said:
Some people I know think that men and women aren't different besides men being stronger and women being able to get pregnant. It's clear though that when it comes to sexuality, there are major differences.

Someone on Reddit pointed out that you never hear about women who have foot fetishes or who are attracted to younger kids.

The main argument I've heard is that there are just as many women with paraphilias and fetishes as men but the social stigma prevents them from coming out. As well as that, society perceives women as being less sexual/innocent.

But this doesn't make sense. Many sexual predators/men attracted to kids have a high rate of reoffending despite knowing how stigmatized it is. Pedos know how bad they can be treated in prison but it doesn't stop some from acting on their desires.

Now, I'm not comparing something like a foot fetish to pedophilia. I'm just discussing the broad range of sexual behavior/attraction which seems WAY more common in men.
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Because women's fetishes are emotional rather than physical like feet so they are less visible.
 
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