Why don't women have paraphilias/fetishes at the rate that men do?

[cowardescent]

Some people I know think that men and women aren't different besides men being stronger and women being able to get pregnant. It's clear though that when it comes to sexuality, there are major differences.

Someone on Reddit pointed out that you never hear about women who have foot fetishes or who are attracted to younger kids.

The main argument I've heard is that there are just as many women with paraphilias and fetishes as men but the social stigma prevents them from coming out. As well as that, society perceives women as being less sexual/innocent.

But this doesn't make sense. Many sexual predators/men attracted to kids have a high rate of reoffending despite knowing how stigmatized it is. Pedos know how bad they can be treated in prison but it doesn't stop some from acting on their desires.

Now, I'm not comparing something like a foot fetish to pedophilia. I'm just discussing the broad range of sexual behavior/attraction which seems WAY more common in men.

 

[jhjhsdi]

The main argument I've heard is that there are just as many women with paraphilias and fetishes as men but the social stigma prevents them from coming out.

Maybe social stigma, more like women are better liars/better at keeping a secret or being secretive

They definitely have their kinks just as much as men ime lol ymmv

 

[Gormur]

I'm sure they do. I didn't know there were women predators till I read about it on here. Men may tend to be more vocal about their preferences, although I'm not sure. It's just that society is prone to labeling men as perverts while in reality there are horny women all over the place. It's all nonsense to me

 

[20PrivacyIsOurRight21]

I'm going with the influence of society, yall are just secret freaks shhhh its secret.

 

[jhjhsdi]

there are horny women all over the place

 

[Gormur]

I'm going with the influence of society, yall are just secret freaks shhhh its secret.

I wouldn't even call it a secret

 

[MsDiz]

Just to say that pedophilia is not a fetish, it’s a mental disorder, pedophiliac disorder in fact. That needs to be very clear.

 

[20PrivacyIsOurRight21]

I wouldn't even call it a secret

Lol I was attempting sarcasm. You gotta play along with their logic. Women are intelligent. To a naive man they will appear clueless of their manipulation techniques

 

[20PrivacyIsOurRight21]

Just to say that pedophilia is not a fetish, it’s a mental disorder, pedophiliac disorder in fact. That needs to be very clear.

I agree with this. That's the worst possible thing a human being can be known for and they knowingly continue. Its gotta be a compulsion

 

[mtu mwendawazimu]

Everything beyond two standard deviations of "normal" is boxed in as a dysfunction. We have a word for everything.

I don't think men care as much if they're outside the range. I tend to find women more shy than me in the bedroom.

 

[MsDiz]

Let’s be honest, what are the percentages of women making money on only fans to men? I’d say it’s fairly fucking high tbh. Women are going through a sexual liberation at the moment. I think women are more capable about being open to stuff than men personally.

 

[20PrivacyIsOurRight21]

Women are going through a sexual liberation at the moment. I think women are more capable about being open to stuff than men personally.

I agree with this.

But then again if I mention to a women that shes spending a lot of time on makeup everything unravels Obviously makeing generality statement. Theres most definently genuinely secure women out there who will tell you straight up what they want.

 

[mtu mwendawazimu]

Let’s be honest, what are the percentages of women making money on only fans to men? I’d say it’s fairly fucking high tbh. Women are going through a sexual liberation at the moment. I think women are more capable about being open to stuff than men personally.

Hmm maybe ultimately. But i feel like their first priority is intimacy more often than it is mens.

 

[20PrivacyIsOurRight21]

Just seeing the word intimacy makes me a tad uncomfortable.. lol

 

[MsDiz]

Hmm maybe ultimately. But i feel like their first priority is intimacy more often than it is mens.

Maybe, it’s swings and roundabouts though.

 

[Gormur]

Let’s be honest, what are the percentages of women making money on only fans to men? I’d say it’s fairly fucking high tbh. Women are going through a sexual liberation at the moment. I think women are more capable about being open to stuff than men personally.

It goes both ways, from what I've seen

 

[MsDiz]

It goes both ways, from what I've seen

I’ve been on the net since the net existed nearly, the early msn chat, mIRC days. Women are dominating at the moment in regards to selling sex. Kinks earn big money. New era. Men love it yet still call the women giving them what they want sluts and whores. Figures. It takes a lot longer for males to evolve.

 

[Gormur]

I’ve been on the net since the net existed nearly, the early msn chat, mIRC days. Women are dominating at the moment in regards to selling sex. Kinks earn big money. New era. Men love it yet still call the women giving them what they want sluts and whores. Figures. It takes a lot longer for males to evolve.

I was looking at Internet porn in 95' too. As to the other stuff it depends who you hang out with. I wouldn't doubt somebody comes along in a minute and says that women have far worse words for men. That's why I think it's all nonsense and doesn't mean anything. You are who you hang out with. Some people have a mob mentality and some don't. Individuals vary, basically

 

[stardust10]

The woman that know and cover up are just as sick as well and why do a lot of men love a ladies feet

 

[Gormur]

I realized a while back, maybe around age 20, that I drink because I have pent up sexual desire. I've been drinking a lot lately (I strictly drink beer since 2015) but keep noticing that I get turned on by just seeing cute women doing things in public; it's worse now though because I can't see their faces. Faces mean a lot to me, dude =/

Anyway I'm curious to hear your guys' take on that, if you're female. Especially a beer-drinking girl. Do you feel like drinking more to feel like you're going to get laid?