Stop excusing myself for who and how I am, and telling people to go fuck themselves if that's a problem.
My stance on most things is a lot more radical than my swedey-swede friends, same goes for moral and core values.
If you ask me for my opinion then get all butt-hurt when hearing it, not in a hostile tone, but polite and factual, then maybe the problem is you, not me.
I've cut out alot of people from my life the last year because I can't stand preachers who gets weepy when you call their bullshit.
For example; two of my best friends (the dude has been my closest friend since grade school and his GF is awesome, and we've become very close) are planning on having a baby soon. I'm full-blown antinatalist, but if people don't ask me, I don't spew my opinions all over the place.
But they asked my opinion and I'm not gonna pretend I think that shit is somehow sanctimonious when it's not.
Their arguments where based on emotions and selfishness, mine weren't. They got really fucking pissed and grumpy.
It took me a long time to accept and embrace all of me, the fucking demons and their legions aswell, but I've reached a point where I'm simply to exhausted tryin to act in accordance to norms and shit. Everybody is tryin to be so fucking P.C in Sweden about the pettiest shit it makes me nauseus.
Oh, and yeah, I'm gonna quit smoking. I haven't smoked since new years, so that one is a walk in the park.
I probably come off as an asshole, but like I said, I don't spit my opinions in anybodys face unless they ask for it;
if they do, I ain't gonna sugarcoat it to protect their fragile egos.