What really, really turns you on...

[camjua]

well that sounds like some real shit right there, i guess as long as eveyone is having fun you may as well get some

Hahaha. Reading the "well that sounds like some real shit right there" made me laugh.

I personally don't get the whole "violence" and sex combo... Almost every ex bf and girlfriend I've had has been into that shit and I fucking hate it. Personally I have no desire to physically harm people I care about.. And I sure as fuck dont like being harmed myself. I associate violence with enemies. With people that are cruel, malicious and evil. Then again to each their own.. But I'm curious to how the fuck sex and violence suddenly became normal to combine. Maybe I'm the weird one.. But I'd never hurt anyone I care about physicslly. My ex tried to get me to bite her to the point of like bleeding once and it gave me horrible anxiety. My mind does not associate the 2 at all. When I think violence.. I think trying to hurt someone I hate.. Or defending someone I love. Not hurting those I love.

To each their own though.

 

[Birc0014]

I am in complete agreement with your sentiments here, its too weird to get my head around that shit and in the past when a sex partner has asked me to go beyond a little spank, or love bite, I get uncomfortable enough to lose wood. I have friends and have heard from numerous people that are into choking, slapping, spitting, etc but honestly it fucking freaks me out and try as I might leads me to form a judgement of those individuals on the spot...its part of the reason I dont entertain conversations about sex anymore with friends once they are in a committed relationship

 

[Birc0014]

Too weird to imagine that shit happening when you are at a dinner table somewhere with them

 

[camjua]

I am in complete agreement with your sentiments here, its too weird to get my head around that shit and in the past when a sex partner has asked me to go beyond a little spank, or love bite, I get uncomfortable enough to lose wood. I have friends and have heard from numerous people that are into choking, slapping, spitting, etc but honestly it fucking freaks me out and try as I might leads me to form a judgement of those individuals on the spot...its part of the reason I dont entertain conversations about sex anymore with friends once they are in a committed relationship

This x 200. I broke up with an ex once because they said they wanted to tie me up. At first I just said no ... But then I started having this reoccurring fear that I'd wake up one morning tied up and they'd torture me or something. It scared me. Literally. And it takes a lot to scare me to be honest. I've been in and seen some pretty intense shit in my life.. But that's one of my only phobias. Being tortured. I've seen hostel and many other horror movies "torture porn" if you will... Hell no. Hell to the no.

I mean.. Everything you said sums it up. If I start going on dates with someone and they express they want more than love bites, maybe very gentle spanking.. Etc. I'm turned off and no longer into it. With my ex fiance I couldn't please her because she wanted me to put knives to her, bite really hard... Be aggressive etc. I tried. I really did. But I'd be so freaked out before I could even go near as far as they'd want me to that I'd usually have to stop. No, correction.. Not usually. Always. Violence in my book should be left to enemies. If someone is trying to hurt me or my loved ones.. Then yeah I'll fuck em up. But when it comes to a romantic or sexual interest I'm not even slightly interested in that.

Of course to each their own. What 2 consenting adults want to do in the privacy of their bedroom is between them.. But I want to be left out of it haha. And I have a few friends that are into that stuff.. And I don't judge them.. But if its a significant other I see it as a huge compatibility flaw.

 

[facebookpussy]

It turns me on when he makes sexy breaths on the sides of my neck and also my ears.

 

[Birc0014]

no one is going to give you bank account info so fuck off maybe?

 

[camjua]

Oh I also love the emo/scene/goth styles. With boys I love fembois.. thin, love long hair on boys. If they cut their hair.. They're about 60-70% less attractive to me. I don't like super long hair or dreads.. But like emoish or long hair around the shoulders length. Also guy liner... -drool- and blue eyes! Fucking love blue eyes. Also I like pale or light skin. I especially love black hair. Pale skin, blue eyes... Black hair... Thin body... Fuckkkkkkk... Haha. Andy Biersacks music may not be my favorite but god damn is he hot. Probably the hottest male I can think of. More into guys than gals typically but all the same applies for them. Cute butts though...:3 haha.

 

[sailor bugg]

This x 200. I broke up with an ex once because they said they wanted to tie me up. At first I just said no ... But then I started having this reoccurring fear that I'd wake up one morning tied up and they'd torture me or something. It scared me. Literally. And it takes a lot to scare me to be honest. I've been in and seen some pretty intense shit in my life.. But that's one of my only phobias. Being tortured. I've seen hostel and many other horror movies "torture porn" if you will... Hell no. Hell to the no.

I mean.. Everything you said sums it up. If I start going on dates with someone and they express they want more than love bites, maybe very gentle spanking.. Etc. I'm turned off and no longer into it. With my ex fiance I couldn't please her because she wanted me to put knives to her, bite really hard... Be aggressive etc. I tried. I really did. But I'd be so freaked out before I could even go near as far as they'd want me to that I'd usually have to stop. No, correction.. Not usually. Always. Violence in my book should be left to enemies. If someone is trying to hurt me or my loved ones.. Then yeah I'll fuck em up. But when it comes to a romantic or sexual interest I'm not even slightly interested in that.

Of course to each their own. What 2 consenting adults want to do in the privacy of their bedroom is between them.. But I want to be left out of it haha. And I have a few friends that are into that stuff.. And I don't judge them.. But if its a significant other I see it as a huge compatibility flaw.

Heh me and my ex used to love holding carving knives to each others throats while having sex on occasion. Although I got a little weirded out when my ex said she'd be really turned on if we held a handgun to each others heads while having sex. That was a bit much for me even… although I'd probably still like it

 

[camjua]

Sounds scary to me :/ as a timid emo boy I fear such things haha. Though I've dealt with a lot and have seen some pretty crazy shit... I'm a pretty timid person in the sack :/ I tried though haha. But violence is not my thing. Unless I'm defending myself or someone I love.

 

[sailor bugg]

Heh my ex still does the whole slapping me in the face until my ears ring all the time. Like we'll be on the bus and she'll smile at me and **whack** as hard as she can. Then everyone gives us a funny look and it's even better that my response back is a huge grin on my face ^^. Actually we were hanging out with a mutual friend last night drinking and she was half a bottle of wine in and told me to face her and then all of a sudden she started hitting me in the face over and over until I had to tell her to stop because she popped my ears and they were ringing and I could barely hear anything. What made it funny is that our friend had no idea I liked it and was like wtf?! why are you hitting him? heheh Then when he left we had sex and she choked me until I almost passed out heh, good times heh.

Oh another thing that I love sexually is feet :D Not just any feet tho, I like small feet that are well kept and very soft/smooth. While my ex was over she made me give her a foot rub and I absolutely loved it^^.

 

[camjua]

Heh my ex still does the whole slapping me in the face until my ears ring all the time. Like we'll be on the bus and she'll smile at me and **whack** as hard as she can. Then everyone gives us a funny look and it's even better that my response back is a huge grin on my face ^^. Actually we were hanging out with a mutual friend last night drinking and she was half a bottle of wine in and told me to face her and then all of a sudden she started hitting me in the face over and over until I had to tell her to stop because she popped my ears and they were ringing and I could barely hear anything. What made it funny is that our friend had no idea I liked it and was like wtf?! why are you hitting him? heheh Then when he left we had sex and she choked me until I almost passed out heh, good times heh.

Oh another thing that I love sexually is feet :D Not just any feet tho, I like small feet that are well kept and very soft/smooth. While my ex was over she made me give her a foot rub and I absolutely loved it^^.

Interesting.. Haha. To each their own. I could never muster up the strength to hit someone I love or care about unless I was protecting myself. I wouldn't be able to tolerate being hit or choked. It makes me sad because I wish I could learn to tolerate such things in the case I fall for someone who needs those things to be sexually satisfied but let me tell you. If you're not into that kind of stuff... It is torturous to try to be. It makes me almost sick to my stomach. One time I was trying to bite my ex and she kept saying harder... I got to a point where I knew it must hurt pretty bad and I felt nauseous.. Anxious.. My boner was non existent... I would try though because I wanted to make them happy. But then they wanted to hurt me... And it made me nervous as hell.

 

[sailor bugg]

Interesting.. Haha. To each their own. I could never muster up the strength to hit someone I love or care about unless I was protecting myself. I wouldn't be able to tolerate being hit or choked. It makes me sad because I wish I could learn to tolerate such things in the case I fall for someone who needs those things to be sexually satisfied but let me tell you. If you're not into that kind of stuff... It is torturous to try to be. It makes me almost sick to my stomach. One time I was trying to bite my ex and she kept saying harder... I got to a point where I knew it must hurt pretty bad and I felt nauseous.. Anxious.. My boner was non existent... I would try though because I wanted to make them happy. But then they wanted to hurt me... And it made me nervous as hell.

Yea I can imagine if you're not into that kind of stuff, it would be pretty off putting to have a partner who is and wants you to hurt/dominate them. I've been lucky that my last two gf's who I had long relationships with (one was 6 years, the other one year) were totally cool with hitting/choking/cutting and didn't get weirded out. I'd think a lot of girls would be like wtf if I told them to hit me as hard as they can or choke me out and they'd especially be like wtf if I asked if they would cut themselves and me and have sex in our blood heh.

 

[bigstank]

Hmm ill list I guess..

- Bondage.. Like tying up.. Gags.. Toys.. Apparel.. Anything but heavy pain... Makes me instantly turned off.. Idk why
- Dominate/Submissive.. I normal am the Dom.. But I fucking go crazy and love when she does.. And uses the straps and has complete control over my naked body... (if were on crystal.. Or lord it gets wild)
- open minded.. I'll do anything once.. And if something turns on my wife ill keep doing it even if its not my cup of tea)
- cock teasin/orgasm play/sadistic games.. Like if I'm tied all the way and I don't cum from her slow teasing HJ gas enough I get punished.. Two nights ago I had 7 min.. If I didn't I had two diff.. Before 9 min I got post orgasm torture til I busted again.. After 9 she said prostate massage til I quit dripping.. Happened once.. Took almost 25 minutes and she got mad and threatened to leave to buy the biggest strap on/dildo/vibrator..
- a little anal play.. She gets so turned on doing it I have to.. If she's dominate I get plugged..
- smoking.. Idk always loved the bag girl image.. And shows they put pleasure over harming themselves.. My wife chain smokes(about 1 1/2 packs a day). I just love seeing her sexy lips around something.. I think ita just more of a mouth fetish for me
- hair.. I love unatural crazy colors.. Alternative style cuts.. I think its so sexy fucking sexy when a woman is so confident in herself to do that and openly love it.. (wife controls the cuts but she will bleach and dye any color I bring her.. Currently a medium purple)

HMM idk I'm a fucking freak I like everything but pain.. Cross dressing.. I wont let any other man touch my wife. And no man is touching me either fuck that

Oh yeah.. I love doing public or home humiliation if I'm the Dom.. My wife will do anything when we play like this.. One early after she took the biggest loaf.. 9 days brewing with teasing constantly everyday and I just did my first shot of crystal in 9 days....but she took it rubbed some in her hair and went outside with cum on her face/neck/clothes and ran up to get cigs.. Or when I put her in a corset and slutty makeup and went shopping at the mall..mmm

Oh yeah and I love tying her up ass up and using my cock and toys to atretch her little tight asshole til its gapping.. She loves being daddy's little slut most of the time.

 

[AcidOctopus]

held a handgun to each others heads

Haha. Oh god. Thought I was the only one.
I've got a fantasy where a female has sex with me at gunpoint. Always thought it would be one hell of an adrenaline rush having a gun pointed at me during sex.

 

[ForEverAfter]

I suspect that, in reality, if somebody was holding a loaded handgun to your head, you wouldn't be aroused.
I mean, what if they slip?

I wouldn't be comfortable with somebody I trusted holding a gun to my head, when they're not fucking me.
It seems like a recipe for disaster, to me...

And, why stop with the handgun?
Why not douse your balls with petrol and have someone play with a lighter?
Or have your partner shave your asshole with a rusty machete?

Better yet, you could fuck on top of a nuclear missile like that rodeo scene in Dr. Strangelove.

 

[sailor bugg]

I suspect that, in reality, if somebody was holding a loaded handgun to your head, you wouldn't be aroused.
I mean, what if they slip?

I wouldn't be comfortable with somebody I trusted holding a gun to my head, when they're not fucking me.
It seems like a recipe for disaster, to me...

And, why stop with the handgun?
Why not douse your balls with petrol and have someone play with a lighter?
Or have your partner shave your asshole with a rusty machete?

Better yet, you could fuck on top of a nuclear missile like that rodeo scene in Dr. Strangelove.

If we ever did it the gun would for sure have no bullets in it. If it did, I'd hate to think of what could happen…...

 

[tonja]

I am female. I love the sound of thunder and the visual of lighting the touch of rain on my body my senses become aware when kissed on the neck a sensation runs from my neck to my toes that immediately make be wet and bothered i feel a sense of lightness

 

[TomK]

No laws. No limits.
Oh, wait. You're choking me, bitch!

 

[Erikmen]

I wish I could tell..

 

[tonja]

Are you saying you want to be choked??