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What does a blowjob feel like?

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When done by someone actually good at it.

With enough suction do you actually feel it internally? Through your urethra, all the way to your balls?

Or is it all about the touch, external stimulation?

This is a genuine question, feel free to make fun of it/me but I would appreciate serious answers too. Don't plan to give or receive one but for some reason I've been curious about this.
 
It really depends on how good the person blowing you is. Regardless its obviously always warm and wet, and toothy is usually not good.
If I get a really good blowjob it makes my nose tickle . I'm not even kidding.
 
I actually love giving blowjobs if I have strong feelings for a guy. It can put me in a state of emotional ecstacy. Not so much horny, almost more spiritual, like I feel so close to them and enjoy being giving.

I also have bigger lips than normal and was teased for it growing up. Now everyone pays to have even bigger lips. Ridicilous.

But I'm careful to avoid anyone who would just abuse these qualities. He has to have something of worth to give in return.
 
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There is nothing quite like the feeling of your dick being swallowed. when my penus is down a ladyies throat I say it can be close to paradise.
 
See, that's why I like giving it, because I can feel him enjoy it so much.
I also like to feel it down my throat, that is a very intense sensation.

It reminds me of...self-sacrifice.
 
Ninae said:
I actually love giving blowjobs if I have strong feelings for a guy. It can put me in a state of emotional ecstacy. Not so much horny, almost more spiritual, like I feel so close to them and enjoy being giving.

I also have bigger lips than normal and was teased for it growing up. Now everyone pays to have even bigger lips. Ridicilous.

But I'm careful to avoid anyone who would just abuse these qualities. He has to have something of worth to give in return.
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This is how i feel about eating pussy and not that licking BS full suction mouth to place of creation, as far as a BJ well its rather hard to describe but if done right it can by far cause the most powerful orgasm, and the big lips are a huge plus. Best bj i ever got was from this fine black women with big lips oooo man i want to go again just thinking about it :)
 
IMHO a good bj is more about the visual experience. I love to look down at my lover and see saliva dripping from her mouth to my cock and the stroking action of her hand is actually is what most gets me off physically. There is nothing like a big lipped woman with red lipstick looking at you while she takes care of you, half sucking and half jerking you off. Ive only had one woman who truly gave a proper bj without using her hand. She made me wear a condom and I was like "this isnt gonna work" but she was the one woman who knew how to use the suction as a way to get me off, prob the best I ever had. She happened to be black too, little tiny curvy thing.

The next best bj I ever had was a large white woman. Large white women always seem to be sooo eager to please so Im into them. Just as I was coming she put a finger up my ass. I swear I about blew the back of her head off. She told me not to cum in her mouth but I couldnt help myself, it was too good.

The nose tickling thing is right on the money, never thought about it till you mentioned it VitimaN
 
There is actually an art to it & I can tell you most girls actually aren't that good at it.

I think a lot of chicks have the misconception that guys want it done porno style, deep throatin' & slobbering everywhere, but that is far from true.
 
silas GUY said:
This is how i feel about eating pussy and not that licking BS full suction mouth to place of creation, as far as a BJ well its rather hard to describe but if done right it can by far cause the most powerful orgasm, and the big lips are a huge plus. Best bj i ever got was from this fine black women with big lips oooo man i want to go again just thinking about it :)
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Now I'm really missing a boyfriend (though my lips are small compared to the ducklips of some celebrities, thank God).

Yes, it's kind of hard to explain, but if you feel close enough to someone you can almost feel their pleasure as your own. Like you're at one with them. That's what makes me into it, not that whory pornstar thing, where "a dick is the most wonderful thing in the world coming from any guy".

A woman is a woman after all. We'll never feel about dick like you feel about pussy. No matter how much you fantasise, or there'd be no need for porn or hookers.
 
I have to disagree Teabag. I love the slobbering. Im a bit older, didnt grow up with porn everywhere like we all have at our fingertips these days so maybe its just something new for me. I have to agree with you though, its an artwhich most women just dont grasp. I have to also admit I kind of dig a little bit of gagging. Does that make me a pig? I dont feel like a pig. I mean hey, I stick my tongue up my girls ass and she goes nuts lovin it, shouldnt she go the extra mile for me too ;)
 
Ninae, I also agree with you in some ways. I would do anything to make my woman moan and feel that connection.
 
My only experiences have been with women who did not enjoy it and only did it to please, but it's not very pleasing to see someone looking disgusted (or even scared) by my dick so pretty much I just asked them to stop and didn't ask for it again. None of them really sucked it in the literal sense of the word, it was more like moving their mouth on top of it. What's funny is one of them had a tongue piercing - talk about false advertising. She said she only does it out of some kind of fairness thing because she likes receiving oral, lol, well fair's fair I guess.
 
One of the most disappointing things about a guy, sexually, is realising he has bought into the whole pornstar thing and thinks sex should be that way.

Sad, many of those women are Ketamined out of reality to dissociate enough to believe they enjoy it.
 
Ninae said:
One of the most disappointing things about a guy, sexually, is realising he has bought into the whole pornstar thing and thinks sex should be that way.

Sad, many of those women are Ketamined out of reality to dissociate enough to believe they enjoy it.
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It sounds like you have some kind of deep-rooted hatred for men (daddy issues) and are projecting it onto some crazy pornstar theory. You want a submissive bitch instead of a confident (even dominant) man that's not ashamed of his body. Fortunately for you there are plenty of men like that in today's society and porn (which is disgusting, yeah) and the normalization of masturbation has played a big role in that.
 
421, did you read Ninaes earlier post. Seems like shes just wanting a connection with the man she is with. I totally agree with her. You have to have that intimate connection to please and be pleased properly while still being and feeling respected and respectful. Ive had plenty of bjs but without the love its just meh!
 
Well sexual encounters with people you have no feelings for are just mutual masturbation really.
 
421 said:
It sounds like you have some kind of deep-rooted hatred for men (daddy issues) and are projecting it onto some crazy pornstar theory. You want a submissive bitch instead of a confident (even dominant) man that's not ashamed of his body. Fortunately for you there are plenty of men like that in today's society and porn (which is disgusting, yeah) and the normalization of masturbation has played a big role in that.
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LOL. That is bang out of order. Even men can feel that way.

Sounds more like it's you projecting one of your issues on me. If you had read my thread about men you would have seen me talking about all the dominant men in my family and how much I love them and can be very attracted to men like that. Don't be so hasty to brand women with your stereotypes.

Anyway, why so defensive about porn, and what has it got to do with this subject? Do you think most pornstars are genuinly enjoying themselves? Some men can see through that shit so much they can't stand it.
 
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421, did you read Ninaes earlier post. Seems like shes just wanting a connection with the man she is with. I totally agree with her. You have to have that intimate connection to please and be pleased properly while still being and feeling respected and respectful. Ive had plenty of bjs but without the love its just meh!
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That outlook is really great to hear from a man, it's amazing what some men can enjoy/buy into. The part about respect is also important. When women are treated disrespectfully by men sexually they will usually find some way to disrespect them in return to balance things out.


I find men can respond to porn in generally 4 categories:

1) Those who naively believe everything they see, that the women they see are enjoying themselves for real, and that real women are or should be like that.

2) Those who can clearly see this is not the case but get some sadistic pleasure out of seeing women suffering and being humiliated and like to treat women like that in real life.

3) Those who see it as something extreme and unrealistic that belongs more on a fantasy-level, and can use it for masturbation, but knows it has little to do with real life.

4) Those who find it so disgusting they can't be aroused by it.
 
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