Yes. People have to remember AS is flawed bc Bill Wilson was deeply disturbed. He was brilliant in his writings and I have all his books but he was an adulterer and was deeply depressed for 12 yrs. he didn't want to be the face of AA. Yeah, him and Dr Bob and the wives used to have siances. It's in him biography by Susan Cheever. Those gold were freaky and all her loyalty to Bill couldn't get her his monogogomy. Hell he even asked for a shot of whiskey on his deathbed and when they refused he got belligerent. I'm putting this up here to show even the founder of AA was imperfect so it's ok for us to be ok. His writings continue to inspire and the 12x12 is my fav book. How he explains each step. It's a wonderful program for spiritually inclined people. When I was going I was praying. Seems that was my sponsor answer to everything, pray on it, lol. I can always go back one day if I choose. And I probably will. Being around people who are same as you is powerful. But for now I'm ok. They told me I'd drink when I left and I haven't so there. But I cannot have remorse for AA cause that would bring me back in for the wrong reasons. If I go back in its to help people. Picking up white chips and working first 3 steps is over for me. If I take someone thru that process it helps me too. I get to revisit older tin opals. Not for me, for the newcomer. The most important person in any meeting is the newcomer. If she's a women the women take her but if he's a dude he can't be scared away by everybody jumpin on him. One on one contact with another individual who also suffers from addiction. That's what I want. I want to make a difference in somebody's life. But if I never return to 12 step program I'll find other ways to help people like blue light, everyone out there who's struggling I just wanna say, I'm with ya. My life is nowhere where it needs to be. I have a lot of work to do and plans to see thru. Takes heart, money, and that little click I do in the morning to reming myself I'm an addict alcoholic. As long as I don't forget I'll be fine. I'm moving to cold ass Wyoming but that's ok cause that where my daughter, step son, and ex who still loves me despite all the abuse she took from me. This is where I need t be and I just wanna be there already and I'm stuck where I'm at cause of a stupid court case. I stil hope to meet my goal and be there be New Year's Eve. I got some time. Since she was born it's been plane after plane thru thre years. No more of that shit. I always stayed close I got good role out there and my stepson who I just ripped apart drinking. Abuse is not a pretty thing to live with. He's 13 now but he he was a premie so Dr said he's always be slow mentally and physically. He's a little guy buy puberty has hit him. I talked to him just the other day and he sounded wd dee voiced and was cracking jokes at my expense. Says he wants to play football. 13yrs old still teachable but he's gonna need to stand out in some way. He said I'm pretty fast dad if you didn't know. I said ok son play football and score a touchdown for your mom!!! Maybe I'll be there to see it. Right now he just bullies my daughter and lays around. I'll fix that shit. Just say Game Stop and he'll get up quick. And for first time in the media I'm gonna ask my ex to marry me. Might take awhile but we'll see. I know I have feelings for her. It's all about love man especially the love . I fucking love her so much but I gotta see if she wants the same. She might not want ostomy bag fucking crazy life. I think if she loves me it won't matter. Anyway, I think I've gotten personal enough out here today. Hope y'all are blessed sober and reaching forward