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so she offered to go down on me...

LilBlondie said:
okay... i've been pretty good friends with this girl for about 6 months now. she is about 5 years older than me, but we are really close. we're both affectionate people and joke around about stuff. one night, she was over at my house and we were smoking a little herb... she was playing around and poking me/tickling me... which was annoying because she was sort of being a tease. she doesn't know but i'm very bi curious.

anyway, the other night, i went over to her house for my birthday. we both got really messed up, and she started being a tease again. she even was poking my boobs... and i said something like... feel this one's bigger and so she had both my breasts cupped in her hands... except this time she said, "if you want me to, i'll go down on you for your birthday". i was sitting there thinking... oh shit, is she being serious? i was really really messed up so i couldn't focus... normally i can understand when someone is joking, but i couldnt "read" her. i asked her if she was being serious and she said "yeah, it's not like we are lesbians, it would just be funny... and it'd be for your birthday". so i said, "well yeah sure then". but nothing happened b/c i had the bright idea to call this guy and he would smoke some more with us and he could maybe watch her go down on me...

however, when he got there, i started thinking that i wanted to wait until after he left b/c it might look like we are doing it to be kewl in front of him when that isnt the case at all... plus i am friends with him and i wouldnt want stuff to be weird between us. well the girl started bringing it up kind of and i just changed the subject...

when he left (he came over at 3am and left at 5am) i started to bring it up a lil but she didnt pick up on my little hints i dont think.

i've brought it up since then and she has just laughed... my question is: how do i get her to give me my "birthday present"?

i'm thinking i am just going to say "so, is the offer still good for my birthday present?" and see where it goes from there...

wow... just goes to show you... dreams do come true!
i should have acted on it that night but i think that i will enjoy it more when i am actually thinking straight. (i'm thinking she may not be as outgoing if she is sober though?)

blah... so what are everyone's thoughts? =D
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Did you find more bisexual or lesbian woman to have sex with?
 
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schizoinfective said:
I wish I was a lesbian
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Why? It is not like what you see in most porn that was made by men, and for men.

The dating pool for bisexual and lesbian women is super small, a lot of times bi and lesbian women move super fast into a 'relationship' when they should be dating or getting to know each other, there is lots of jealousy, drama, and the badly kept secret is that lesbian women tend to get super possessive and abuse their bi/lesbian partners/wives.

Or as the old joke goes, What does a lesbian bring with her on a first or second date?

A moving truck.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Why? It is not like what you see in most porn that was made by men, and for men.

The dating pool for bisexual and lesbian women is super small, a lot of times bi and lesbian women move super fast into a 'relationship' when they should be dating or getting to know each other, there is lots of jealousy, drama, and the badly kept secret is that lesbian women tend to get super possessive and abuse their bi/lesbian partners/wives.

Or as the old joke goes, What does a lesbian bring with her on a first or second date?

A moving truck.
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I've dated bisexual women in poly relationships, so I've seen it up close and been involved, something sweet about it you can barely/rarely experience as a man.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
, and the badly kept secret is that lesbian women tend to get super possessive and abuse their bi/lesbian partners/wives.
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Let’s avoid the sweeping generalisations about different identity groups as much as possible. The literature on abuse in lesbian relationships indicates it follows the same patterns and causes as other relationship types but the quality of data on prevalence is basically worthless due to poor research design. Same goes for abuse in gay relationships which is hypothesised to exceed heterosexual norms.
 
Where was i when this was first posted 🤣

I was here somewhere but i never came to this subforum back then 🤔 Young negrogesic had no time for sex back then, only drugs, drugs drugs
 
negrogesic said:
Where was i when this was first posted 🤣

I was here somewhere but i never came to this subforum back then 🤔 Young negrogesic had no time for sex back then, only drugs, drugs drugs
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It's a bit of a mystery as to what prompted it's resurrection.
 
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