pokepoke420
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Jun 11, 2012
- Messages
- 415
^This dude sounds like an idiot. Go crawl back in the hole you came from. If you were so confident in what you said you wouldn't be back peddling writing paragraphs to cover your tracks. Listen, we are human beings, and human beings have boundaries and limits. No means no, you sick fuck. You are the type of male that makes women so uncomfortable by being pushy. Want to know how I get with women? By being kind, polite, and chivalrous. Go take an ethics class or something, but you might be too lost to be saved.
Secondly, to the woman who wrote this. I am so sorry. I dated a woman for 8 years who was raped in her life twice. Once when she was a child by a neighbor, and once when she was 16 in your exact situation. The years of trauma that followed her truly changed how I viewed things. Not saying I was pushy like that before, but the empathy that grew from that had me trying to make a difference in this world for women. Take it one day at a time, and I hope your boyfriend is understanding not getting upset by saying things out of anger such as "you put yourself in that situation." Honestly, in my opinion, I would talk to someone first asking how you can sit down and talk with him about it so you know the right words to say. Thank you for sharing your story, please stay strong, and know not everyone is like that.
Secondly, to the woman who wrote this. I am so sorry. I dated a woman for 8 years who was raped in her life twice. Once when she was a child by a neighbor, and once when she was 16 in your exact situation. The years of trauma that followed her truly changed how I viewed things. Not saying I was pushy like that before, but the empathy that grew from that had me trying to make a difference in this world for women. Take it one day at a time, and I hope your boyfriend is understanding not getting upset by saying things out of anger such as "you put yourself in that situation." Honestly, in my opinion, I would talk to someone first asking how you can sit down and talk with him about it so you know the right words to say. Thank you for sharing your story, please stay strong, and know not everyone is like that.