Sexting it’s cheating or not ?

[Salem_is_tired]

You see the other person. That's the whole point.

But almost always the guy is like 500km away and also just jerking off in his bed at night before going to sleep.

My partner is less into sexting than I am, but he has so much porn on his computer it's ridiculous. We are both wired for monogamy, but we still like our porn

I don't know why, but my mind jumped right to the old, classic telephone sex :D Or maybe a anonymous sex-chat type of thing. Sorry, than I just misunderstood it from the start.

 

[thujone]

if you have to ask, it's probably cheating

 

[Soso78]

It’s cheating. I’d sack my girl off immediately if I found out she was doing it.
That’s just me though. Some people ok with stuff like that.
Tell him about it. He might be ok with it

 

[kiely]

It’s cheating. I’d sack my girl off immediately if I found out she was doing it.
That’s just me though. Some people ok with stuff like that.
Tell him about it. He might be ok with it

Hi @Soso78 !! Good to hear you in SLR

j/k.

I'm just messin with ya.

 

[Soso78]

Hi @Soso78 !! Good to hear you in SLR

j/k.

I'm just messin with ya.

Not sure wtf I’m doing in here.
Had some terrible relationships
Heart too cold to love
And I’m shit in bed.

 

[snmfmy]

While I wouldn’t exactly put it in the same category as I would actual sex with another person, still cheating though imo

Is going to the strip club cheating?

 

[kiely]

Not sure wtf I’m doing in here.
Had some terrible relationships
Heart too cold to love
And I’m shit in bed.

ohhh, u write love song

that's hot



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[Burnt Offerings]

Is going to the strip club cheating?

Well, strippers are just workers punching the clock so there’s not much risk of an emotional connection developing there. Still inappropriate if you’re in a serious relationship and you’re going to strip clubs without your partner’s knowledge though.

As I’ve read more responses in this thread and thought about it some more, I agree with those who say that “cheating” isn’t exactly the best word for it, as that implies a physical sexual relationship most of the time. Still, if it (sexting) takes place without the knowledge and permission of the other partner, I’d consider that a pretty serious breach of trust and violation of the relationship.

 

[jasperkent]

As I’ve read more responses in this thread and thought about it some more, I agree with those who say that “cheating” isn’t exactly the best word for it, as that implies a physical sexual relationship most of the time. Still, if it (sexting) takes place without the knowledge and permission of the other partner, I’d consider that a pretty serious breach of trust and violation of the relationship.

For me, anything (whether it's sexual or not) that is ongoing and being hidden from one's partner is dishonest and therefore a violation of trust. IMHO, trust is an essential element of any serious relationship.

YMMV

 

[kiely]

For me, anything (whether it's sexual or not) that is ongoing and being hidden from one's partner is dishonest and therefore a violation of trust. IMHO, trust is an essential element of any serious relationship.

YMMV

Especially if it can not stop on a continuous basis. We all slip up once in a while. But please not with vag vag or shwangy wangy. Thank you.

 

[thujone]

For me, anything (whether it's sexual or not) that is ongoing and being hidden from one's partner is dishonest and therefore a violation of trust. IMHO, trust is an essential element of any serious relationship.

YMMV

ime there are a lot of ppl in relationships that aren't really committed, they just want someone to come home to. it's a lot easier to cheat when you see yourself more as an independent person being limited by someone, rather than as a half of a whole and when the whole is dysfunctional trying to work on it and make it function right again

 

[snmfmy]

Well, strippers are just workers punching the clock so there’s not much risk of an emotional connection developing there. Still inappropriate if you’re in a serious relationship and you’re going to strip clubs without your partner’s knowledge though.

As I’ve read more responses in this thread and thought about it some more, I agree with those who say that “cheating” isn’t exactly the best word for it, as that implies a physical sexual relationship most of the time. Still, if it (sexting) takes place without the knowledge and permission of the other partner, I’d consider that a pretty serious breach of trust and violation of the relationship.

Well to be honest the question was sexting not sexting and creating an emotional connection.

However, I have a really good question for you....

If your partner fantasizes about having sex with another person while they're masturbating and they don't tell you, Is that cheating?

Does it make a difference if the person is completely a construct of their imagination or if the person exists in real life?

(Jeopardy theme music plays)

 

[snmfmy]

Well, strippers are just workers punching the clock so there’s not much risk of an emotional connection developing there.

You haven't been to the same strip clubs I've been to.

You definitely haven't met the same 19-year-old brand new down on her luck with a kid strippers that I've met.

 

[Asclepius]

For me, anything (whether it's sexual or not) that is ongoing and being hidden from one's partner is dishonest and therefore a violation of trust. IMHO, trust is an essential element of any serious relationship.

YMMV

Absolutely. You'd have to be a complete, imbecile to think otherwise.

 

[Burnt Offerings]

Well to be honest the question was sexting not sexting and creating an emotional connection.

However, I have a really good question for you....

If your partner fantasizes about having sex with another person while they're masturbating and they don't tell you, Is that cheating?

Does it make a difference if the person is completely a construct of their imagination or if the person exists in real life?

(Jeopardy theme music plays)

No I wouldn’t consider that cheating

 

[snmfmy]

No I wouldn’t consider that cheating

And the next question is, why not if you consider sexting cheating because the actions conducted are identical? In fact, the fantasy may be even more intimate than the sexting.....

 

[snmfmy]

For me, anything (whether it's sexual or not) that is ongoing and being hidden from one's partner is dishonest and therefore a violation of trust. IMHO, trust is an essential element of any serious relationship.

YMMV

So I guess you expect your partner to report to you about their masturbation fantasies?

Because masturbation fantasies are by definition hidden from one's partner.

Except in the case of mutual masturbation, which while it can be interesting is kind of beside the point if you're both there.

 

[snmfmy]

For me, anything (whether it's sexual or not) that is ongoing and being hidden from one's partner is dishonest and therefore a violation of trust. IMHO, trust is an essential element of any serious relationship.

YMMV

And no surprise parties for you, no saving up behind your back for a nice present for your birthday, you said whether it's sexual or not.

 

[Burnt Offerings]

And the next question is, why not if you consider sexting cheating because the actions conducted are identical? In fact, the fantasy may be even more intimate than the sexting.....

Because it involves another person in real life, rather than just a figment of someone’s imagination

But, as I said in an earlier post, I’m not entirely comfortable using that word to describe sexting while in a relationship w/o the other partner’s knowledge/approval. But it is behavior I personally disapprove of. That’s my own preference/opinion, ymmv

 

[kiely]

If texting with sex leads to cheating then I guess I just . . . wasn't interested and AM NOT interested.

Just plain ole texting is intense enough for me.

and if it's a phone you are using your phone #.

Waste of time. Unless you are into it then fine. Text away. If they text back Banger. textasy at it's bestasy. lool