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Sexting it’s cheating or not ?

Basically unfaithful. Borders on cheating. But there may be reasons for it, as in not wanting to actually cheat but wanting some kind of attention which suggests that there may be something wrong with the relationship (or you're just a slut, whether man or woman).
 
marijuanahead said:
NOT cheating if he doesn;t find out
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if i murder somebody and nobody finds out, then it's not murder?

if you're asking, "i'm in a relationship and i am sexting somebody other than my partner, is it cheating?" you're asking the wrong question of the wrong person. ask your partner "i am sexting somebody who's not you, am i cheating?" and you'll get your answer, one way or another.

when it comes to you, my opinion of whether it's cheating is irrelevant.

alasdair
 
Who has that kind of time on their hands and all of that energy to poke a keyboard that many times. Unless it' a one time banger. Seems like a waste of time when you are with a real person. Anyway I wouldn't do it because I WOULDN'T WANT TO !
 
It is similar to me to emotional cheating. Doesn't fit into the traditional description of cheating, but the end of the day if your partner crossed an important boundary that both of you agreed on, I think "cheating" is the easiest way to put it.
 
Sexting with somebody online as in somebody you'll never meet or somebody you know?
 
puke said:
No, I mean is more cheating with someone you know and not even cheating if it's just some random person or the same?
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I guess it depends if you get 'lucky' or NOT !!!! :pills: is what I mean. :tiebow:
 
In my relationship, which is monogamous, we do not consider it cheating because we treat the apps and their associations like porn. I fully disclose to the people online that I will only chat and never meet. Then once I get off the conversation ends.

It's interactive porn basically.
 
Foreigner said:
In my relationship, which is monogamous, we do not consider it cheating because we treat the apps and their associations like porn. I fully disclose to the people online that I will only chat and never meet. Then once I get off the conversation ends.

It's interactive porn basically.
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Damn it is a really interesting/good point. I would have never viewed it from that angel, but it is really interesting. If you don't mind the question: it is an faceless, anonym app, where you get random people, or you have a guess/at least saw a picture of a person on the other end?
 
Salem_is_tired said:
Damn it is a really interesting/good point. I would have never viewed it from that angel, but it is really interesting. If you don't mind the question: it is an faceless, anonym app, where you get random people, or you have a guess/at least saw a picture of a person on the other end?
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You see the other person. That's the whole point.

But almost always the guy is like 500km away and also just jerking off in his bed at night before going to sleep.

My partner is less into sexting than I am, but he has so much porn on his computer it's ridiculous. We are both wired for monogamy, but we still like our porn :)
 
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