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Social penis size preference

Kellsee said:
Can we not tie up the second half of what life I got left with all of the protocols that took up the first?? It becomes redundant and it's patronizing. I don't even know how to talk about all of that stuff I was always trying to say before. I gave up on all that a longtime ago when I realized no one was listening anyways. And tbh I don't really like talking to people that have their part of our conversation memorized before theyve even met me. Seems pretencious. Plus I'd rather chose what all I get to say myself. No one's gonna have a schedule that will allow them the time to get what all's really happened here and insurance is not gonna pay for enough.

It's the same protocols that call for the same assessments given by the same kind of people only capable of the same kind of mindsets that'll only lead to the same assumptions that'll only trigger the same trauma that it all caused the first time.

How about learning to recognize the effects of parental alienation and ptsd instead of the lines that show up on a drug test? Then maybe some real healing could begin.
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Kellsee said:
Oh my god I'm dead lmfaooooo

I accidentally hit paste so it copied into the post what was in my clip board last.

I bet you were like "WTFFFFF"

What a response to the convo of this thread...the irony

I am laughing so hard I'm crying oh my gosh🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm not even gonna remove that cause it made me laugh this hard
I needed this so much😂😂

You'd just have to know what I am actually talking about in what pasted to get why this is so funny for me but I'm being kinda sarcastic in that
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In terms of sucking dicks, too wide is no good and too long is no good. I don't mind eating pussy so I don't mind little dicks. I've never seen anything much smaller than 5 inches, but I'd rather 3 inches than 10 inches if I'm going to be sucking it. Aesthetically, I like average. I don't fetishize big dicks or small dicks.

Tits, on the other hand: I like them huge.
 
bird.is.the.word said:
In terms of sucking dicks, too wide is no good and too long is no good. I don't mind eating pussy so I don't mind little dicks. I've never seen anything much smaller than 5 inches, but I'd rather 3 inches than 10 inches if I'm going to be sucking it. Aesthetically, I like average. I don't fetishize big dicks or small dicks.

Tits, on the other hand: I like them huge.
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I'm a pec guy myself. If I was straight I'd definitely be a breast man haha
 
Foreigner said:
I'm a pec guy myself. If I was straight I'd definitely be a breast man haha
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I got to say I prefer a flat chest on a man. That's to say yeah shouldn't just be skin over bone, but should be lean. Think a swimmer's or dancer's physique. Bodybuilder-type beefcake pecs are off-putting to me. They just look like some kinda weird muscle tits.
 
For women, I'd imagine what is most comfortable. For a lot of men, I reckn abot a third of total body weight!
 
Actually, my wife made a comment that did make me feel uncomfortable, before laughing. I was in a shop that sold different sized condoms. So I picked up a pack of kingsize (normal ones are fucking uncofortable) and approach the paydesk, where my wife is standing. I put down the pack and she says to the girl behind the desk, "is that the biggest size you have, none bigger?". You could have fried eggs on my face. Once out of the shop, she burst into a type of laughter I associate with when she's felt a tad evil. I couldn't help laughing as well, but felt if I ever needed condoms again (she was on a course of amocicillin and I have a severe allergy to penicillins), I'd def go on my own!
 
fastandbulbous said:
Actually, my wife made a comment that did make me feel uncomfortable, before laughing. I was in a shop that sold different sized condoms. So I picked up a pack of kingsize (normal ones are fucking uncofortable) and approach the paydesk, where my wife is standing. I put down the pack and she says to the girl behind the desk, "is that the biggest size you have, none bigger?". You could have fried eggs on my face. Once out of the shop, she burst into a type of laughter I associate with when she's felt a tad evil. I couldn't help laughing as well, but felt if I ever needed condoms again (she was on a course of amocicillin and I have a severe allergy to penicillins), I'd def go on my own!
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Foreigner said:
My preferences...

Aesthetically I like big dicks with trimmed pubes, like if I'm looking at porn. In reality, when I fall in love with a guy, I usually accept his dick no matter what it looks like, within reason. I'm demisexual so it's impossible for me to not accept the entire person, when I'm dealing with a real live person. In terms of straight up objectification, I like bottoms with average to big dicks who are toned to muscular. I tend to end up with mesomorph (stocky) build type guys who have big dicks, not sure why. And that same body type tends to be into me because I'm tall and slender with a big dick. I guess we all want the body type we don't have. My main requirement for sexual partners is that they can take and enjoy a big dick. If they can't there's no point.

In terms of manscaping, yes... please keep that shit trimmed. I don't enjoy giving BJs when it's untrimmed, and I will not give attention to his balls if he hasn't dealt with his hair. Ew. For myself, I keep it trimmed year-round. It's just cleaner. Every guy I've been with who has a big bush always has a faint smell of crotch rot, no matter if he has recently showered or not. I can't deal with it. And if a guy is uncut, having a full bush amplifies smegma smell which is an instant end to sex for me. I shower daily and in the summer it's sometimes twice daily.

To the OP... in the gay world I have honestly never met anybody who enjoys the aesthetic of small dicks. Like, not once. Everything is supposed to be supersized: muscles, dicks, butts. It's absurd really, but it's the truth. The reality of how that plays out in the bedroom is quite different. Lots of guys have dick preferences that are quite different according to getting fucked. I once dated a guy who rejected me because of the shape (not size) of my dick! He claimed it would hurt so there was no point. There are guys out there who would really appreciate you though. You do you.
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Bless you. The crap we put up with....
You speak the truth
 
chrs2331 said:
I'm a biseuxal male. Is it weird or that I prefer small penises with no pubic hair? I have what I consider a small penis and I keep it shaved completely bald. As far as pubic hair, I don't like it on either sex. It's a turn off when I see or feel it...
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Not weird at all, you like what you like.

I have zero preference when it comes to size (thin, thick, 3inches, 12 inches, don't care at all)...don't really care about the amount of pubic hair (or lack thereof) either.
My only rule is nada con queso lol
 
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