I have absolutely no problem jumping in the shower before getting a BJ. I ask if I need to brush my teeth occasionally as well.
But, don't get me wrong. And this is what I struggle to communicate sometimes.
I can get turned on and go down on my lady right after she does yard work, and I have. Get hot enough and it's all good.
Having a girl shower and power wash turns it into something that isn't "who cares", it's more like "Mmmm, that's nice".
Are you wolfing down a taco because you are starving, or are you sitting down with one and savoring each bite because you are treating yourself.
If you look at the surveys they do of women, it's a real high percentage that say they find it difficult to cum through penetration. If you mention that to another guy, it's damn near 100% who say, "My woman doesn't have that problem.".
Hmmmm.
So, you get to thinking. What are the only possible minuses to sucking pussy.
Another thing which I avoid is crawling down there while she lays normally in the bed. That makes me kinda bend my neck back too far.
I have neck issues, but I didn't find that comfortable before I had them. I will pretty much only either do 69, or I will turn her sideways on the bed and sit on a little stool. I gotta be comfy.
Maybe a little bib before my meal, a titty snack appetizer, an audio book if she is a little distracted today.
OK, now I'm kidding, but there are simple logistical issues which make things nicer for me.
If addressing those makes it happen more often, what's the problem with that?
As to BJ's. I mean, sure I like them, but I'd rather cum in a pussy. Pussies are pretty much designed and purpose driven for the purpose of pleasuring dicks.