Seattle_Stranger
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Yeah same to you. I'm not trying to sound like a dick but I too am experiencing something similar. I'm also looking into ECT. It's honestly the only treatment modality that has a good chance of much improvement. I just want that info to be put out there because I've come very close to killing myself.
I know the hell you're in, believe me.
Dezz: In regards to weed there is a significant difference. Weed is not a neurotoxin. Your tripout on weed was anxiety related but shambha's tripout is a direct result of brain insult. You can't will yourself out of brain insult in the same way you can't will yourself out of a broken arm. I'm sure shambha would kill to have this suffering be a result of weed.
You may not be trying to be a dick, but you are, just FYI. You told everyone they don't know what they're talking about, yet you have not stated any facts, references or personal experience. You seem to be praising this ECT up and down like it's a cure-all, but didn't state a single reason as to why, no proven results, no facts, no studies, nothing. All you did was bash on the members of Bluelight and make a bunch of assumptions, and contributed almost nothing to this thread. So, you read up on ECT a little bit, bravo, want a cookie? If you like reading so much, maybe you should read more on MDMA toxicity and what it actually takes to permanently damage a person's brain. How do you know that the weed trip out was just an anxiety attack, while the MDMA trip out was result of brain damage? How do you/would you/could you know this? What facts do you have? Were you there? Are you a scientist/chemist/neurologist? I'll answer for you: no, you're not. You obviously have a depression problem that has gotten the best of you, and you're just so damn convinced that you're broken that you don't even have faith in yourself anymore. Do you expect all of your health problems in life to be solved by outside efforts, like pills, medicines, and therapy? Do you see no value in simply bettering one's life with diet, exercise and lifestyle changes? It's fairly obvious why "you too are experiencing something similar", because you probably don't want to have to lift a finger to get better, you want something to just automatically make it better, quick and easy, right? If you have no faith in your own willpower, then I don't know what to do for you. You have to work for things in life, not everything is as 1-2-3 easy as swallowing a little pill and having a magical night. You have to TRULY BELIEVE that you can recover before you actually recover.
Sorry for being so harsh on you, I know I kinda unleashed there, but if you want to be all callin' people out like that, expect to be called right back out on your own bullshit.
Anyway.....
The subconscious is more powerful and has more direct influence on your physical and mental state than you EVER could dream of having. What that means, is that if you truly do believe something is wrong with you, your body will act as if something is indeed wrong with it. The subconscious is EXTREMELY POWERFUL and can do things that will leave you CONVINCED something is wrong with you, you won't let other people tell you any different because you are absolutely CONVINCED something is broken.
I was there 10000%. I wouldn't let ANYONE tell me different, I'd be all "Oh you don't know what it's like! I'm broken I can feel it I can actually feel the damage in my head! It would be gone by now if it wasn't real!! I'm damaged I'm broken blah blah blah blah..." I am now over my depression, stopped taking ALL the meds I was given that were supposed to 'help' me, and guess what? At this point, I'm pretty damn convinced it was mostly in my head. You will be too when you get over it.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying damage can't occur, because it certainly can. Did I damage myself a bit? Quite possibly, but CHANCES ARE that I, or you, or shambha have not damaged ourselves as much as we think/thought we did. So, from the tiny little bit of 'damage' that did occur, from dwelling on it so hard, we convince ourselves that we are more broken than we actually are, our subconscious takes over, and then the imaginary problems become REAL problems. Then, in a couple months, when the real 'damage' that occured is actually all healed and repaired, you are still so caught up and convinced that you broke yourself that the symptoms will continue, you will continue to feel like shit, your ECT's will keep disappointing you, the doctor will keep telling you "You're fine, just like I told you last time.", and yet, you will continue to sit there wallowing in your own misery because you're being stubborn and won't listen to anyone else, swallowing SSRI pills, browsing the internet for days looking for 'answers', telling everyone how they know nothing, lather, rinse, repeat.
Let's also not forget that depression directly leads to poor health in the first place for MANY reasons. Brain damage is NOT one of them.
So you have two choices. You can continue to be miserable and stubborn, keep telling everyone else they don't know what they're talking about, and keep telling yourself over and over and over "You're broken. You're broken. You're broken. You're broken." and enjoy the rest of your life living under placebo brain damage.
Or...
You can start getting over it TODAY by opening your eyes, ears and mind, cdonvince yourself you are NOT broken, take the steps you need to take to acheive a healthy mental and physical state like eating right, exercising, taking vitamins, ABSTAINING FROM DRUGS, not drinking ,not smoking cigarettes, not taking SSRI's and all that junk, get hobbies, occupy yourself, make new friends, push stresses and anxiety triggers OUT of your life, welcome in stress relievers, welcome in friends and family, etc.. You'll be better in no time.
Bottom line, what kind of life would you rather be living? A life with a perfectly healthy body, but depressed all the time because you falsely think something is wrong with you when there really is not. Or a life convinced that you are healthy and that nothing is wrong with you, and being happy regardless if you actually do have damage or not?
Again, I don't mean to insult you catinthehat4 or anything, but I do mean everything I said. You can't tell everyone they don't know what they're talking about and not expect backlash.