don't forget that the world is full of wonder, be brave enough to be interested in it and everything it contains, no matter what the current trends are, and life will be full, fun and adventurous, and others will love you for it.
nb i've been meaning to start this thread for ages.
Outputting positive energy will attract positive energy, and likewise negativity will attract negativity. I found that once I started living my life daily attempting nothing but positive actions and feelings, everything startedd to fall into place and I became very happy in general, and I could always feel good about myself.
Cowardice is the fastest track to being un-happy...be brave, and do what you want to do, and what you feel is right. Regardless of the risks, consequneses or un-popularity of it, go for it and never back down, never run away and never let fear rule you.
It just has struck me for some time that not wanting to be alone is the prime motivator for most people doing most of what they do, once basic survival needs have been met. You might not understand someone's exact reasons for doing what they do. But chances are they're just trying to feel more connected (and perhaps going about it all wrong). This is the key to being compassionate, rather than fearful or suspicious, toward people you don't get, or even don't like!